How do I know if I'm really divorcing a narcissist? This is one of the questions I'm asked more than almost any other. Divorce can bring out anger, defensiveness, and difficult behavior in even good people. So how do you tell the difference between someone who is simply struggling through a painful divorce and someone […]
Continue readingHe tells you you look beautiful. And your body does the little laugh, the look away, the "in this old thing?" — before you've even decided to. He didn't experience that as modesty, my dear. He handed you something true and watched it bounce off. So eventually he stopped saying it out loud. Not because […]
Continue readingStop turning first dates into job interviews. 🚨 You do NOT need to show up with a mental checklist of questions designed to determine whether this person is “marriage material.” Instead, pay attention to **how you feel around them.** Do I feel safe? Do I feel comfortable? Am I having fun? Am I curious about […]
Continue readingSex can take on a very different meaning in a narcissistic relationship and the consequences may stay with you long after the relationship ends. Award-winning interior designer and television personality @LaurenMakk joins Dr. Ramani for a deeply personal conversation about what was really happening behind closed doors. 🎧Watch the full conversation now. Link in bio.
Continue readingLiving under chronic stress can take a serious toll on your mind and body. When you are constantly surviving, your wellbeing gets pushed to the side. Your health matters too. #NarcissisticAbuse #ChronicStress #EmotionalHealing #ReclaimYourPower If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a […]
Continue readingDivorced dads cannot keep parenting exactly like married dads. Parenting after divorce requires a different approach, especially if you want a stronger relationship with your children. Data from the QoL SALAD Study found that 58% of fathers separated for at least one year said their relationship with their children became somewhat or significantly stronger. But […]
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Continue readingYour dating app filters might be eliminating your best matches before you ever see them. 👀 I tell my clients to **start BROAD and let the algorithm learn what you actually like.** A few of my rules: 👉 **AGE:** Try ±10 years. You don’t have to *date* everyone in that range, but widening your pool […]
Continue readingWould You Date a 46-Year-Old Who Said She Was 33? 👀 San Francisco men ages 35–55, I need your opinion on this dating dilemma. She’s **46, gorgeous, looks significantly younger, has never been married, froze her eggs, and wants a family.** But there’s a catch: Her dating profile says she’s **33** because she’s worried that […]
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