3 Beautiful Behaviors That Make Him Addicted to You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and 3 beautiful behaviors that make a man addicted to you.
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What is it that causes us to want more and more of something and creates addictive behavior?
Addiction usually has a negative connotation and is attached to destructive habits.
There's a predictive formula and there are certain women that use these behaviors naturally and in a healthy way.
Today I'm going to share these fascinating 3 beautiful ways that cause a man to become addicted to you.
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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I encourage my man to follow his dreams. That is my way of keeping him into me. He wants to fly. I ask him flying questions, he becomes so animated, He has a flight simulator, I suggest he takes a night for himself to practice. He looked into going to finish his lessons to earn his license. He treats me so wonderfully, that is my way of saying, I value you and I want your happiness to be complete.
You go girl!! That’s the way!!
I do this too! He feels safe to tell me what he does or doesn’t want when he may not tell his friends
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The thing that holds my guy close to me, is support. It’s easy to support him thru easy times, but if you can step up and show him you’ll be there to support him thru the bad, even if it’s taking him out for a few beers and pool, his favorite songs on the jukebox, maybe even kareoke, dancing, to just being there for advice or a cuddle. That means alot to a guy to know she can be his rock when he needs it.
Isn’t it sad that we lost the concept of how to be in a healthy relationship; we have to watch videos and read books and sign up for online courses. And of course there are so many different opinions on “how to win the man”, “how to keep the man”—Why can’t we just be honest, genuine and if we like or love someone, let them know and show them? Why does it have to be so complicated?
Omg I feel that Shelly!!!
As I have heard it said; “it’s a game!”
Also, “the difference between men and boys are the price of their toys!”
In this video, Matt confirms the “fun addiction”! Women become and remain too serious! Too serious far too often and long! We feel safe, secure and guarded—-which isn’t carefree, relaxed and lose! We as women need to learn to be all of the above; when it’s time too be! How more relaxed; more carefree and just flow with the guy or lead with fun!
It’s smart to research these things not sad. It’s not like they teach us anything in school. It’s worth doing the work so get busy!!
@@chambriayarbrough3289 With all due respect, I meet a lot of men who are not fun at all. They are stressed out and have no sense of humor. I am funny and fun but cannot seem to find a similar guy. Everyone acts too serious all the damn time.
So true
My mantra is to 1) Make him laugh 2) Thank him 3) Encourage him 4) Tell him how handsome, intelligent and fabulous he is and 5) Make memories together
As a woman, as much as I would like to mention all I’m thinking of, I think it best to not go on and on with negativity and insecurities. Time is so much better spent with a positive attitude. This is not to say that I don’t communicate with my Beloved in tough times. I just try to keep a balance. In the end, it brings pleasure with no ending to see him happy and feel myself protected, wanted and loved. Luv Ya Mat and your lovely wife !! 🙂
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Agree with these five, 100%!!! 🙂
I learn to say great great great whenever my husband called and asked how things were going!
@@MKD-dd6ng How do you “make,” someone laugh ? When people try to be funny it’s annoying.
Your channel indeed changed my life. After watched all your videos, I understood how to love and appreciate a man. I met the one I’ve been looking for in my past 30 years, and after only 7 months, we got our marriage license today. Thank you so much, you changed my life.
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Nowadays, one sure sign this man has secrets, ask him if he would like to look at your mobile phone ,and, you, look at his !. If he even hesitates he has a hidden phone, or, if he gets angry, then he will or is, cheating. It is a quick way to find out, and, not get hurt by him
This obviously goes for women as well, let us not forget that !. Good luck in your lives, that you find a good faithful and loving partner, there are some people who won’t chest on their loved ones, how wonderful is that.
2:00 – 1) It feels good. You’re fun to be with.
4:00 – 2) Investment. People value relationships they’ve invested in.
5:58 – 3) Reward for doing something nice for you or a variable, spontaneous reward. Emotional rewards, validation, appreciation.
Thanks
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You are the best thanks so much for this.
Thank you!
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I had a boyfriend in the past where while we were waiting for public transportation when meeting up after we both got off work one day…he kissed me sweetly and I went limp in his arms as if I fainted because of his kiss. He fell right into character and called my name as if to “awaken” me. Then I sprang up…we both started laughing as well as other people who witnessed our sillyness. That was just one fun time I can think of.
Hahahaha i laughed at this! 😂Will do this if i have a bf 😂
Cringe
And some men are narcissists who fall in love with your positivity and fun, then *after* marriage, crush the fun and joy out of you with unrelenting criticism and harsh treatment. Then they’re mad because “she isn’t fun anymore.”
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So true
When we first got married, my husband would only remove his pants after the lights were out. It was because he hated his thin legs. So, one day, I told him I loved the shape of his legs. He was shocked and said something like, “Really? I think they are too skinny.” He had not worn shorts since he was a kid, so I bought him a pair of shorts and coaxed him to sit in the backyard with me and keep me company while I sunbathed. Which he did. Pretty soon, his legs had a better tan than mine, and I whined about that fact. Ever since then, he wore shorts almost ALL the time. In a few months, he will turn 76…..and will be wearing shorts, thanks to that compliment I paid him 50 years ago. All I can say now is that it’s a good thing we live in the south. If not, I will need to find a way to tell him how great I think he would look in a snowsuit and ski boots. 😉
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you…….
For the record I live in Michigan and people wear shorts in the winter all the time lol
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That is sooo sweet🥰
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My beautiful Husband of 33 years, died of cancer, almost 2 years ago. Watching this video just reminded me why every single day of that marriage was so happy. We somehow managed to fill all 3 of these criteria, without even knowing it. This man knows exactly what he’s talking about.
Sorry for your loss- what great memories you have- ❤️
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Sorry for your loss….he’s looking down on you with love and smiles❤😊
To all single people out there who are also believers, ask God to write your love story… He is the author of Love… First ask Him to heal you of your childhood hurts and insecurities, to help you be the right person… And then see the miracle unfolding… 🙏
@Alice my dear, I am not desperate for a man, nobody should be… That’s the reason so many are in unhealthy relationships and find it difficult to break unholy patterns… I am the child of the most High God who gives good things to his children, in His time…
@@reni0908 Amen, well said!!!!
Amen. After my husband passed, I told God I wasn’t looking for anyone. If HE had a plan for me that included a man, He would have to drop him in my lap. And 3 years later, he did. God is so good.
Thank you for sharing this! I literally texted my husband after this video because I want him to feel cared about. He’s at work and has been pulling our weight in bills and stuff lately because I’ve been sick. I texted him that I appreciated the things he has been doing lately for us and that I’m so grateful he stepped up while I’ve been out of work. He called me within minutes and said how that made him feel so appreciated. I could tell it really made him feel cared about. I think maybe I’ve been doing things wrong with how I communicate with him lately, so it was nice being reminded that they operate differently and that I need to be a little more fun, less stressful to be around and to make him feel loved back.
That’s beautiful. I’m wondering if you’ve turned up the fun and how it went.
It sounds like your husbands love language is affirmation. Have you read the book, the Five Love Languages? It’s been helpful to me in our marriage as well as other relationships.
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I can rambert, must be at least 30 years ago, my husband said, ” Oh I love your company , I love being with you ” it was so wonderful to hear and I’ve never forgotten it .
#1 fun conversation #2 genuine compliments #3 knowing that I genuinely care for him as a person #4 knowing that I respect and value him, including his opinions. #5 knowing that we really are on the same page with how a relationship should flow
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When my husband and I started dating we went out, had lots fun, kissed and said good night. We dated for 11 months before we were married and did not have sex before we were married. He wanted to wait and I was not going to fall into that trap again of giving a guy what he wanted before he married me. We understood each other from the start. We started dating near the end of November and got married the following November after dating for 11 months. We’ve now been married for 35 years and are still madly in love with each other, have 3 great kids who are also married! We’ve showed them what it takes to make a marriage work so hopefully they’ll take those lessons to heart. I can’t wait to spend at least another 20-30 years together! We’re 64 now so hopefully will it make at least another 20!
I tap into that Blessings to date my future hubby and have sex when married.
Awesome story
You two are so blessed to have one another!
@@pammieramsey8525 is this even real😱…we are barely 5years in marriage and it’s hectic I feel like it’s gonna end tomorrow….what’s the secret for long lasting marriage
Sex before marriage is not a trap. It fun and educational. I pity the people who find out after marriage that they are not sexually compatible.
But in some religions, that doesn’t matter as long as the man is satisfied.
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He’s already addicted! 😂
I asked my husband and his friends why men are more attracted to younger women and I was shocked by their answer. I expected them to all say that younger women were more beautiful (less wrinkles and tighter firmer perkier bodies) but they all said “more fun / carefree”. Younger women make men forget about the stress of life. That changed my thinking and started trying to focus on having fun and living in the moment instead of standing in the mirror worrying about wrinkles and weight. It comes full circle because now I actually feel more secure and safe knowing that my husband is more excited about me when I laugh and smile even with no make up.
Interesting perspective more about the “more fun/carefree” less about the beautiful, younger looks! Thanks for sharing that. 😊
I don’t believe it’s true.
I don’t think it’s just a “fun personality.” I’ve never seen a successful middle aged man with a 200+lbs 20 something. Also, young women are more fun and carefree because they are naive (which can be a good trait) because they haven’t been around long enough to be burned over and over my selfish men. Generally, it’s the men in our lives and how they treat us that push the middle aged woman away. It’s our experiences with them.
I used to feel super insecure when I was 24 and barely a server (ok, I wasn’t a server. I worked in a restaurant but I uh ran drinks for the bar because they didn’t think I was a good server yet). I got with a 39 year old guy who had a career and I was so embarrassed. Now I’m like wow I was fun, that guy was lucky! I was lucky too. I had a lot of fun with him. But wish I could go and shake a lot of young woman and tell them their value. I think it’s easy to be insecure when you’re not established in the world (which, naturally yoj probably won’t be compared to someone older). I think one thing younger people innately have is a kindness.
Like wait your boss is mad at you? Why does that matter? If they’re being mean that’s not nice! You’re cool it shouldn’t bother you. It totally makes sense why someone with a hosue, kids, and career would be worried about a possible career threat. It would be almost insulting if a man opened up and his wife said, “Why are you worried about that?” I think naturally they can provide more support and comfort, while someone with less life experience might remind them that it’s not the end of the world! In more of a why does that even matter, this is planet earth, who cares some dude is mad at you, where as someone older is more likely to have a comforting it’s ok, I’m here for you and understand why you’re worried but I have your back. They’re both good. I’m glad you’re marriage is getting even happier! I hope to have the balance. I think it’s unlikely I will ever be as carefree as I was when I was younger. To be so would almost be irresponsible. But I hope I can channel it into the areas it matters, keep the attitude that over all that is not a big deal! It’s ok to worry, but in the grand scheme of things it’s all ok, yet still bring that grounding kind of comfort that comes from understanding why things are important, why some things are serious, why people not be happy all the time, and still offering support and a positive view of your life is way bigger than this chapter and it will all be ok. 🖤 I liked reading your comment it made me happy
So True … 😊
I’m older than some ladies, but I highly suggest for all women, young or mature, to be alright with being alone. No one will be happy to meet all your needed, so you better enjoy your own company.
I Don’t want any man to be addicted to me!!! I want a man to be faithful and to love me.
I think my key to make him to be addicted is to not being available for him 24/7 and loving myself
Hehe. So like a puppy. You play with him (fun), then you teach him some tricks (how he should treat you) and then he gets a treat. After the treat you repeat the cycle! How simple! Thank you 🙏🏻
OMG. “A puppy” made me laugh. Thank you.
Had the exact same thought! Except I didn’t think puppy 😂 I thought: OMG they’re exactly like dogs!
Yeh most of them need training 😅
@@juliemahfood8298 There’s a 60s movie with Sandra Dee and Bobby Darrin (If a Man Answers) that has training a man as you would a dog as its plot!
Had the same thoughts indeed. I would say just like a dog the way my partner wants to be treated but I will try train him😅