3 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive (Make His Heart RACE with Naturally Seductive Behavior)
Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and the 3 feminine habits men find wildly attractive.
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
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One time my husband and I were watching a movie and the hero was really buff, every muscle was chiseled to perfection. My husband used to be into weight lifting when he was younger so he noticed it more than me. He started comparing himself to the hero and pointed out his own physical “shortcomings”. I turned to him and said, “I would much rather have you. He has no compassion in his eyes, you are full of compassion and gentleness and I would much rather have you than a man like him.” I saw his whole face light up. He seemed to sit straighter and held me in a very tender, protective way during the rest of the film.
(Edit) Wow, thanks for the likes! To my knowledge this is the first time I ever got over 1,000!
Awwww! I love this!
Aw….
So sweet
that was cute .
Awww 🥰 he’s lucky to have you around.
I had similar experience with my bf. He’s never picky about food and never cares about wine and gourmet and all that things. And I’m a fantastic cook and growing up in a culture that food is 80% of life. So every time he asked me to pick restaurants because I’m picky and know what kind of restaurants have good food. But the thing is, I naturally dislike making decisions on where to go or do on a date. So last Valentine, I insisted on him picking the restaurant, which made him anxious at the beginning because he worried he would ruin the night. But he picked an amazing Italian place that surprised me and himself. That’s one of the most impressive date night we had. Now he fell in love with making dining decisions and each of our dates are getting better ♥
That’s awesome! I also hate making decisions and love when the man makes the plans.
Great story! Thanks for sharing ❤️
Yeah I be suggesting 3 places and he’d pick the one. Seems to go well though.
@@sallylemon5835 good idea for picky plp like me hahah
Oh boi
1. Stand your feminine ground.
2. Create invitations instead of directives.
3. Hero-size him, instead of criticize.
Another great video! Thanks for the reminders.
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Oh lord. Where are pearls an cardigans. Meet your man at door with a martini
Oh no…I am so #2!! This explains a lot. Matt Boggs, is it too late to change the balance in a 2 year relationship?
@Monica Duquette Never too late!
Bonus Tip #4: Generously make love to him on his command. He will be far less likely to cheat, and if he still does, he will do it less.
@@monicaduquette8453 and don’t forget #5
Your man is never, ever wrong remind him often that so his masculine energy you were unable to make decisions, hold down a job, pick out a restaurant
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Why is it always a woman’s responsibility to “Make his heart race” ??? It’s rarely the other way around. If you sincerely care….. you would know that most women are just really tired of little or no integrity from men.
have never been like you describe, have never been single, self-employed woman, couldn´t be like that
None of the links work for me
Hi. Did you block my comments to receive no more likes?
@Sun-lq6od never being single and being a wife are different.
I run my life, it doesn’t run me and sometimes it’s so easy to slip into masculine energy! My husband is a big burly man with grizzly bear tendencies that can definitely handle me… but what you said still resounds. He LOVEs to please me and giving him that space instead of directing him into that space makes things even more amazing!! Thanks for the great tips!
I’m enjoying this so much. Everything he’s saying is on the mark. I grew up the daughter of an NHRA champion drag racer. At age 5 I was gapping spark plugs. By the age of ten I was breaking down and rebuilding engines with my Dad. I’m very feminine, nothing masculine about me, but the fact I happen to know more about cars than the men I’ve dated lol. Except my late husband. He found this sexy. Because he was a car guy. He loved to listen to me talk all his car guys under the table. Talk about my first car, a 1970 Chevelle SS, 396 4 speed Posi rear-end lol. He loved it after I ran my Dads dragster down the quarter mile and took off my helmet letting my long hair fall down my back. Now this right here is a confident man who supported everything I wanted to do. I’m a tiny girl and he was this big handsome tall guy who worked on one of those big oil rigs in the middle of the ocean in California. I miss him so much. I wish all you single ladies are able to find your dream guy. I found mine, I miss him everyday.
God Bless
Your story is adorable, it’s almost like a Disney movie.
@@zsrz4877 Thank You, I feel so blessed to have had the most wonderful Dad along with my husband, the Love of my life. My Dad always called my husband son. They had such a great bond. My husband said it was because of how much they loved me. That alone still leaves me a bit speechless.
God Bless
Can fell the love you had for this man. So special. Makes me miss my “teddy bear too. 25 years on I still miss my late hubby and best friend. Lost our only child 5 years ago. Life has been full of tragedy but those 2 men adored me. Its great to be so loved.
@@kristasmith8934 so sweet and I’m sorry you lost him. Your story reminds me of that song from The King And I – “Hello Young Lovers”. You had the best ❤
@@rosiebottom3870 Thank You so much. He really was the best. He didn’t have to say much, the way he looked at me was a billion I Love You’s. I would catch him just watching me with that spark in his eyes. It’s a love that you can’t move on from when there’s a loss. You cherish it always, it’s your treasure and you know nothing else out there can compare.
God Bless
These things work, however I feel the problem some women are encountering is that they do not work on certain types of men. Men who are immature, irresponsible, emotionally unavailable. We must first learn to make good male choices. Men who are able to receive and appreciate feminime energy.
And some men desire a dominant masculine energy in their female partners. Sometimes men want the same level of masculine energy they have… in their female partner. It doesn’t mean they aren’t able to appreciate feminine energy or they’re emotionally unavailable. It’s just not their thing. Masculine energy definitely does not repel masculine energy lol
Correct. None of these would work on narcissistic men. If you said, ‘I would really love if you took me out this weekend’, the narcissist would say, ‘yes’ and when the weekend came around he would have forgotten about it, or would say he would take you out next weekend instead.😐. Only that would never happen. Keep future faking.🙃. Women need to see the red flags early. Thank you for this show because you show me how a normal man would act. I have been married to a narcissist for 34 years, so I haven’t seen the behaviors you are talking about. In my defense, 34 years ago there was no mention of narcissists, nor any YouTube to warn us of these creatures. I am thankful young women today can see how you are acting about your woman and how a normal man reacts to her requests.🥰❤️👏🏼. If she sees the opposite behaviors—run as fast as Forrest Gump away from that man who only has eyes for himself.
@@julieanna8495 I’m sorry for you, may lord bless you w happiness. I have a question, if you dont mind, kindly help.
Mostly, men in their dating phrase would go out of their comfort zone to woo the lady. In such situations, how to find the red flags? For eg: No guy would refuse a date during the courtship, but once after marriage all these tend to slowly change. How to find the red flags earlier in such case?
I’m 21, pretty new to dating world. Hence asking these stupid questions. Bear w me, please
@@scalerup There are no stupid questions. Please pray regarding all life decisions. Talk to people who are in healthy relationships. Ask people who care about you what they think about people whom you are dating. Practice trusting your gut. Don’t chase any man. Take time to get to know someone who is also interested in getting to know you. Never settle. Many blessings my dear.
My husband is the hero of my story. He isn’t very tall, and he’s soft spoken. But height and booming voice aren’t what make a man manly. He’s very capable, he’s so smart, he’s there for me when I’m having trouble and need a hug. He’s quiet and never needs to brag, because he has so much self confidence that he doesn’t need to tell others how awesome he is.
I am so glad I watched this video because I have noticed that when I stop demanding and start asking, offering, he responds much more positively. I’ll do this more often.
My mother emasculated my father by putting him down, mocking him, making him feel stupid and small. It made all of us kids treat him similarly. And I always felt terrible about that when I got to know him better as an adult and realized that he wasn’t stupid, that he was just lacking in self esteem from being pushed around by a wife who didn’t appreciate all of the great things that he did. I don’t want to be that way with my own husband. I want to build him up so that he feels good around me and acts in kind. ❤️
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💖 Beautiful and rare how kind you are and that you did not have to follow the destructive mindset of the rest of your family! You are a light✨
This is so beautiful!! I love how you’re able to see what your mom did and how damaging that is and do the complete opposite to your husband! My sister in law criticizes my brother and puts him down and this is in front of the family I can only Imagine how she treats him behind closed doors on a daily basis. It makes me so sad how backwards relationships can be. The right kind of insight and compassion and capacity to grow is what we all need. Love your comment. Your husband is lucky to have you,😘
Yes absolutely! My husband now is the manliest man but he isn’t as tall or big as last husband or others I dated but they where all jerks who thought way too much of themselves without being any of it. My husband now is so amazing in everyway and I love and respect him so much. He makes me feel safe loved and cared for. He is such a great husband and he is truly my best friend. I hope everyone has that in thier life. I’ve always been very feminine and I’m retired military and know men very well years of working with all kinds and ages and learned a lot. I’m also not impressed by lots of men and many who are very handsome and other things most women look for turn out to be worst and think they can just get any woman and arrogant. I think I got the best one and feel so fortunate especially after my exhusband and that experience. We both came to table with a lot to offer and did things completely differently than I ever had. I took things slow and didn’t get physical for long time and built it up and laid a great foundation in process and learned a lot. It also had an effect of making him only want and think of me when all these other beautiful women where throwing themselves at him. He would drop anything for me and even knowing that even if I stayed with him didn’t mean he was getting anything when others where definitely going to, he chose me . He is the most trustworthy and honest person I’ve met and has good heart but definitely manly in everyway. It’s not about just being submissive it’s just being in your natural softer feminine energy and think lots of women are turned off thinking they have to pretend to be something not or too giving to man. There is also balance because men also like to see your Fiesty side without being a target of you being overly masculine. He didn’t see my really loving softer side till I decided he was one. Now he will call me out when I’m being too aggressive or masculine lol but in playful way but enough to know that obviously I’m having trouble and it may be something external causing it. Not having my father around growing up I didn’t see dynamics of marriage relationship and had to build my own.
happy for you but i could never be w a dwarf
This makes so much sense. I’m super feminine, but my husband didn’t have the masculine energy I was attracted to. I felt like I kept having to be the man in the relationship, making me deeply unhappy. When I met a masculine man after my husband and I broke up, and saw how he reacted to my femininity, I felt a million times better and like I could be myself around him. It was such a good feeling!
I understand completely. I got so tired of him being in his feminine energy ALL THE TIME, and didn’t want to feel like I had to carry both the masculine and feminine energies & roles. When I first dated a few very masculine men, it was both such a relief and pleasure to feel like I could relax, but was also so much of a turn on.
@@hiannahgus574 🎃
My husband oscillates between feminine and masculine energy…I do also, and it can be very off-putting and confusing for us. I’ve personally felt really weird about it for years.
Yes. I have made the mistake of picking men who do not have masculine energy OR I have been taught (through the feminist movement) that I have to act like a man, be driven and focused, and be in charge which resulted in feminine men being attracted to me. Either way, it has not worked. I got tired of being the man while looking at my man who was afraid to be in charge. So now, I am diligently working on tapping into my feminine energy and also presenting myself much more femininely. It is late in my life but better late than never.
Good job!!
I have a guy friend who I’m kinda starting to develop feelings for. We hung out at his place last week. I’ve been single since preschool, and because I’ve had to do so much on my own for myself, I was so used to leading with masculine energy. I’m also a creative and love to build and plan and create. But I’ve been learning from watching relationship videos like this how to lean into my feminine energy when I’m around guys.
Anyway, I was helping him transplant plants in his garden. It was already getting to be early evening, and all I had eaten that day was a handful of almonds and the keto equivalent of a candy bar. So I was kinda getting a little hungry. Perhaps a year ago I would have kept my mouth shut and suffered through the evening without saying anything, and grabbed something on my way home. But this time around I actually decided to voice what I was feeling, and do it in a way that wasn’t pushy, but still clear. After the second re-stating of my desire for food, he took me back inside and made me an amazing spread of food, and we talked the entire time he was cooking. I’m really grateful to have him in my life, and he’s teaching me what it looks and feels like to be cared for.
That’s so lovely 🥰
I ship it
That’s kool!
Hopefully your relationship develops into something more! 🤞🤞
Awww this is so sweet! You two have something so special. Rooting for you two! Let us romantics in the comments know how it goes!! 😊💗
I literally wish I had seen this video in my 20s it would have saved me so much time and heartache from failed relationships not knowing how to deal with men and their different needs. I Didn’t have a father growing up so I very much learned to be more aggressive and in my masculine energy. It’s so amazing that you’re teaching this to clueless women like me.
So true, if women grow up without a father or brothers, we don’t really understand masculinity that well, and we do develop that masculine energy of our own. For sure this has been true for me. I’m still struggling to find a better balance because I have realized men feel intimidated by my personality, and I don’t want that.
You’re not clueless. You’ve adapted ~ now go teach
@@kimgordon3695 ♥️true indeed. Thank you sis🙏🏾
I can definitely relate to your story too!!
You are not alone
One thing we can do as moms of little heroes is to start this from the beginning. I know people will hate on it but I taught my boys to be little heroes. Told them that they have different strength and characteristics that must be used for good and not evil. Taught them small things that would matter later, opening doors, killing the bugs, leaving the end of a straw wrapper on a drink when delivering it, and a multitude of things probably seen as sexist that they may or may not embrace. So far, they have made incredibly amazing adult men who desire to protect and lead.
Imagine you taught them respect for living things and that girls don’t need saving. 😅
That’s beautiful. That’s healthy masculinity
That’s a great idea. Boys need so much attention to the little things like that when they’re young to grow into decent, wonderful, considerate gentlemen. Once these things are established it grows into bigger things. Their future wives or partners will be so grateful.
@@jayashiaco9476 True, girls don’t need to be saved, but do I want to live in a world where men and women treat each other thoughtfully? YES. Plus, there are just things I’d prefer not to do unless I choose to. There’s power in receiving. ☺️ My boyfriend is strong and gentle (he carries bugs outdoors when my impulse is to smash it) and I admire his healthy masculinity in taking care of my desire to not have it around, however he does it. ☺️
As a mom of three adult sons with their own families now, I agree with you 100%👍🏻We moms make such a difference teaching them how to be good men, taking our responsibility and opportunity seriously. Good job, mom👏👏👏
To all the fathers out there: Take care of your daughters so that she will learn to lean back and be in her female energy.
so right – when a man treats his wife & daughters with love, kindness, protection & great manners, the daughters will grow up knowing that’s how men should treat them. be that guy who she’ll compare everyone to. she won’t be picking losers.
I picked losers. Dad abandoned me growing up. 😅
YES!
Woman stop asking men to do anything . Be that woman he stays or don’t at your own risk. If your here that’s because you know your lacking
Exactly..but modern fathers, without sons, tend to push girls into masculine energy
I know this sounds manipulative but most people don’t like you, they just like the way you make them feel. I truly believe this. Once I’ve realised this, I’ve become so much more successful in life and career. People aren’t difficult to please😊
this is true in very basic and surface level relationships. this is not love. when you love somebody, you love them for who they are, not for how they make you feel.
I agree with nukacloud as to some people. However, both in friendship and a romantic relationship isn’t it always better to be positive? Why would we want to make somebody feel like crap. As you get to know another person, then you see that it is a mutually beneficial relationship. If it isn’t…and someone is using you let them go. And NEVER become involved jus for what people can do for you. We can use little ways to even make random strangers feel good. If you are telling truth it is not manipulative! Walk up to somebody say wow your outfit is amazing. Or you are wonderful with your makeup…your eyeliner is fab.
As long as you don’t fall into hypocrisy
I usually trust people who make me uncomfortable with their honesty. Manipulative people tend to be rly attractive so that is one thing I have learned.
I’ve heard this as well and 100% believe it!
Guess that’s what Mom meant when she told me, “You can get a man to do anything for you if you know how to ask him”. .. and her man, my father did. He adored her til the end.
Wise words from a wise woman
Being a very feminine woman I was always drawn to very masculine men. I got my soulmate for 33 years, my love, a huge rugby playing, country sports loving man. 6′ 3 to my 4′ 11. I felt treasured and loved always. I miss him so very much. He told me every day he loved me very much and loved being with me. How lucky was I to be married to this wonderful man. Great advice on this video.
You were very lucky. To have a beautiful love is a dream in everyone’s life. Stay strong.
Can you tell me what makes you feminine. Like what are some if your qualities?
Ladies free yourself from getting lost in these types of relationship rules. Do not get lost in playing games. There are good men for everyone and if you want one that fits you, BE YOU! Not every man is a risk taker. In order for a man to feel his masculinity he needs to have it to begin with, and each man is an individual in how he gains his confidence so support him to be all he can be. He was initially attracted to you for a reason and you to him, trust in this. Listen with an open heart, communicate with honesty and always, always respect one another’s space.
At least one normal comment! Thank God! Be happy and deliver your message to every person you meet🙏
I agree. Thankyou for your comment.
It’s good to learn how men work in their masculine self. Too many women castrate men without even know what they are doing. This is something that is rarely talked about or learned. It’s important to know this as it can pull you in a space of better understanding of how your man works. I get what you’re saying, don’t play games, but do try to understand a man’s masculinity and how your femininity works.
@@lovelace8702 Thankyou for that better understanding…
AGREED
I’ve been married almost 37 years. Back when I met my husband in a bar and he asked me for my number, cell phones didn’t exist. I smiled and said “I’m in the book” and walked away. He found me in the phone book and called me a couple days later. The rest is history😊
Sounds so mysterious. I’m glad you found the one.
Nowadays he would be labeled a creep!
You must’ve told him you full name. Not really the smartest thing for women.
How did he found you? Am curious 😅
@@Amy_Stanmore He knew my brother so he already knew my last name. We’ve been together almost 40 years so I’d say it worked out!😉
For my husband, it was the way I looked at him (invitation in my eyes) and smiled at him that encouraged him to take my hands in his, and when I let my hands stay in his, he stood up, pulled me to him and kissed me. I had been kissed before but never like that. His kiss was tender and passionate at the same time, a promise that he would always love me, care for me and protect me. He kept that promise for all the 52 blessed years we were together. I was a successful professional woman, but with him I was just his wife, best friend and lover. My ex-secretary once said to me: ” I notice when you talk to Jim on the phone your voice is very soft.” He was and will always be the only one in all the world to me.
Absolutely beautiful 😊❤ that’s love
Sound’s just like my husband of 55 years. His name was Jim too. He was a real Gem❤️
@TahoeSnowbird This is so beautiful. I can feel your love for each other through the time and distance. You must miss him very much. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️🩹
Oh. Yes! I am not the Boss at home…my husband is the leader…I follow, I appreciate, I indulge. We are blessed to have good men.❤❤
Your comment was like a mini Mills and Boon, lovely.🥰🥰🥰🥰
My husband has many health concerns. I tell him how brave he is for dealing with what life has handed him, how proud I am of him, and that I love him. It makes him not feel so negative but helps him see his strength in dealing with it.
And he does have courage where courage is most needed. My husband was always my hero but never more that when is was ill and dying. I so hope I can be as good as him.