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Serious or not, It’s fair if you’re up front. I know that your whole thing is about commitment, but having come out of a 38 yr long relationship (partner died, but we were already on the way to splitting) I’m not in a hurry to go all in (cohabitate). I’m enjoying some private space. I’m not sure I’d ever want to cohabitate again. However, I am looking for connection and emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy, and I’m a monogamous person. So, is that serious, or not serious?
🤗 EXCELLENT SHOW TODAY ! I ALWAYS APPRECIATE YOUR HONESTY JONATHON…I BELIEVE INNER PEACE AND HAPPINESS SHOULD BE FIRST WITH OURSELVES & THEN ALLOW THE OTHER PERSON TO MAKE US HAPPIER…😊
Yay 🌟
I want to be exceptional not the rule.
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Broksdale car door test
Bronx Tale
Never heard of the car door so never done out of ignorance. I’m a major people pleaser with my own love language being acts of service. I like to do things and buy things if I have the money for people I like and love. However, after divorce money has been a major issue supporting two children. It’s been 8 years and now alimony and child support is over. It wasn’t even enough to rent the home we lived in at the time of divorce. I’ve recently got some money. Not enough to survive without working. But this has helped my confidence dating, because I don’t want to feel like a burden to anyone. Health definitely plays a huge role. I have Addison’s disease. I think it turns men off but not as much with women. More of us are already in the role of a caregiver like me that used to be nurse practitioner for 16 years until illness. So much about timing at our stage in life.
I want to be the exception and not the rule.
Yes
Some of us mid-life never married’s are gun shy too.
I understand
Totally agree, Mr. Aslay, I’m doing a long-distance relationship, so I’m initiating text messages on a regular basis, and it has been met with the best of responses. A man also likes to know that he is being thought about and that he matters in your life. Simply put, I always try to give what i want to receive. That Bronx Tale car door test? Yep, it works big time! I appreciate your videos, Johnathon. You are the G.O.A.T.S. 😅❤🙏🇬🇧
Awe… thank you 😊
Jonathan you are not alone. For me I think developing a friendship first is my best strategy. Then when I feel the trust is in place I would share my more vulnerable aspects of life.
Yes ❤️
Thank you! With your guidance my life is changing for the better. Six months listening to you after a difficult divorce I have identified what a healthy relationship is. I have a new boyfriend. He is a man of God, we are crazy compatable, laugh all the time, support each other, have the same values and goals and the future looks so bright and long-term. I have hope. P.S. Four generations of my family are Methodist Ministers. Somehow I feel on this relationship their spirits are on my boyfriend’ side. Ha!!!Ha!! Grandfather’s second marriage lasted 39 years until they passed away. Being with someone is a choice. I am hopeful. Huge fan from Texas.
I always say im a hopless romantic but i like the hopeful romantic better.
Me too
Im late 50’s and im not playing games. Im not chasing anyone. I will message first as long as hes messaging regularly too. I have no problem with that. But im not sitting back and thinking im not going to answer him for awhile after he messages me thats game playing.
Yes, I agree… don’t chase.
Hi Jonathon.
Thank you very much for your excellent show today and as always. You are such a great inspiration to all of us with your transparent and honest opinions and therefore we are able to learn a wealth of information from you. Like you I am also a great stickler for transparency, honesty, appreciation, grateful and thankfulness. To me that is the foundation of life and in all relationships.
Thank you so much again. I wish you well in your relationships and good health.
Take care xx
Seriously. Like women aren’t gun share. Men Need to grow up. We all here afraid and faulty. Learn and grow. Take a chance. Fail forward. I want to see some one who isn’t afraid to fail.
Humans are gun shy is what I said…
First, I don’t manupulate, play games, just don’t know how. Second, after the “chase” and “catch” you, it’s often downhill from there. Choosing a permanent partner is not a game. I think it need to be more pragmatic, like the good old days. I’ll probably be single the rest of my life. I have had 5 relationships/marriages. All failed, was mostly used by these men, in my estimation.
Not for the faint of heart
Hi Jonathan…Love ‘ya!
Just a friendly reminder, though, when you’ve been married and are now widowed, it can hardly be considered a “failure”, I don’t think 🤔
(Unless, I’m to blame because he died?!?)
Yes, I should have excluded that sort of loss.
What is this consistent sarcasm about “women in their feminine energy.”
I have never thought it should be one sided.
Good to hear…
I want to be the exception without the rule!
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This video offers a refreshing perspective on what truly matters in relationships, especially for those over 40. It’s insightful to see the emphasis on emotional maturity and shared values rather than just physical appearance. The idea that dating is a vetting process to find someone worth investing in resonates deeply. It’s a reminder that building a meaningful connection goes beyond initial attraction. Thank you for highlighting the importance of relationship skills and emotional readiness. This is a must-watch for anyone serious about finding a lasting partnership! 🌟
What are your thoughts on the role of emotional maturity in relationships?
Huge role
Dear I was married 4 times lasted bull last one was 18 years. Abusive in every way . I put my all into because I did love him. But as I didn’t listen to what his family would say things wit him . I should have left on our honeymoon. Divorce is like a death. This time it was a liberating process I learn to know myself for he had erased my inner core inside me. Now I would say never try to make things work alone it’s ab2 person job . My folks were married and in my eyes still after death . I realize I’m my late 60s that him coming from a alchohol family and divorced early on . We should always look for some one who has same upbringing and who families are of like mind
Must have been hard