4 Signs He’s Stringing You Along | Engaged at Any Age | Coach Jaki
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Jaki Sabourin was voted “Best Female Relationship Expert” by her peers. Jaki is a Coach, Speaker, Author, and the CEO of Engaged at Any Age®. Jaki’s company, Engaged at Any Age, is more than a ‘love brand.’ It is a sanctuary for high-value women who are ready to awaken their feminine power to create the life and relationship of their dreams! Jaki’s wit and no-nonsense attitude have guided thousands of her clients to empower themselves so they can create meaningful, healthy relationships.
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Thank you Jackie, I really enjoy your coaching, just wish I have known this before.
My favorite word is next…. dont have time to waste. Never ever throw pearls before swine, cause if i do i am the only one to blame. I am in abundance in every aspect believing this helps me use the word next….. egffectively close one door and a better one opens up for sur, this puts me in higher energy vibration.🌻
Love your perspective!
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Wow thank you Jackie!! I wish i woulda learnt this YEARS ago!!
So thank you for the direct clear but loving and supportive information!!
You’re welcome Barb!
Jaki, wanted to say how much you’ve opened my eyes to that special dance that happens between man and woman. Love is the most precious gifft of all. But elusive for many. Sadly My loving but naiive mother never taught me the pre-requisite steps to this most beautiful dance of love. Over the past few months, I have eagerly listened and absorbed all your priceless coaching advice which you offer for free and from the generousity of your heart. I think I have watched every single one of your dating videos. How lucky are we you are such a natural and powerful communicator. Your coaching advice has such practical insight into how men think and behave in the courtship dance. Be assured your 8 years of life, dating experience has been put to such powerful use. You put so much love, passion and dedication into your work and you’ve changed the course of life for me. My thinking and goals are now clear. You have given me the confidence to navigate my way to a new life of deeper long term love. Thank you thank you thank you Jaki for your life changing work.
Thank you for your beautiful comment. It makes it all worthwhile.
Your advice is amazing I just broke up with a guy who was stringing me along no forward movement everything was just stuck he definitely never stood behind his word thanks again your video really helps
I enjoy many of your tips so much, however I know that women bond through sex and if you bond sexually with a man before he has made you his wife and it fails, the natural outcome is pain regardless of your confidence level. I think its ok to be honest and say I want to wait. Whats wrong with kissing and holding hands, etc? Nothing. Then he knows you hold sexual connectedness very sacred and dont share it with people. I think its more important to know you have a strong trust and a committed relationship and enjoy the sex after he asks you to marry him. I realize this is old fashioned but sometimes I feel old fashioned is the best way;-) Anyway – this is what is right for me. If you did get your heart broken after he asked for marriage, at least you didnt give away your body along with your heart!
You can wait until he asks you to marry him and still get your heart broken.
There are no guarantees in love or marriage.
@ Walkin Bonita – Yes, but the chances of that happening are way less.. it helps sift the ones with less good intentions out..
– Mic’s mum
No soul-ties no clouded judgement due to sex, no energy exchange during sex. Totally makes sense not to have sex before marriage.
Yes, I agree. We all know what its like to give yourself physically & emotionally, only to be cast aside later and be left with a terrrible feeling of being used up and discarded. Men often pretend to be in love in order to get regular sex……women have to be smarter than that;-) If he really does love you = He Will Wait
This advice is good at any age if you’re serious about getting married.. I wish I would have known about this when I was younger..
Actually, people get strung along even in 30 year marriages, they just dont know it, or hide from the truth.
Yeah,,, I know a woman who was married for 35 years & her husband was gay all along,,, he finally committed suicide, I guess his conscience finally got to him… Talk about getting strung along!
Absolutely!!!
That why you can’t trust men, because they live for everything.
If he won’t do The things you Like for fun and honestly Enjoy them, find another. He should reciprociteta, NOT be a pig or bum.
@@mariamistretta3860 and your different?
You are awsome! I am 35, never married, and I discovered so much about myself and my mistakes in the past just by listening to you! Xoxo
Sheyda Rezaee Lucky you to have found it before you got married. For many of us this info wasn’t available.
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i believe it is never too late to set standards. if he’s stringing you along, tell him. get clarity in yrself and communicate yr boundaries. if he bails, so be it. he isn’t worth it.
If you ask a man you’ve been dating what he does on the weekends and he doesn’t really answer and you have to ask again and again, if you don’t run just be glad he walks away.
It’s exhausting calling men on their behavior. I say walk away and find one you don’t have to call out.
pjharriscpa they need to be put in their place
pjharriscpa So exhausting it is
Healthy boundaries makes you feel safe and understood. If you want to trade “calling out men” with holding healthy boundaries you’ll garner respect and be treated the way you deserve to be.
Boundaries and good communication are the tools that make people feel safe.
No man goes to my house first because I don’t have to impress him that way but he has to show that he’s financially stable
Great comment; I do the same. The way a man keeps his place says A LOT about him. I’ve had a couple of guys who would always want to come back to my place; nope! Just because I go to your place, it DOES NOT mean that we’re going to have sex. I usually find a way to make that clear before I step foot in someone’s house, too. I make a joke about it, but I make it known.
So you don’t have to impress him but he has to impress you with his finances…Gold digger!
I disagree with you about testing out the physicality of a relationship and thinking you can just go on from there if it does not work because women get bonded to a man through that experience whereas it doesn’t have the same effect on a man. So a woman is really playing with fire when she opens up to a man physically. Then it makes it really hard to break up if she needs to. Plus the physical aspect adds a whole new dynamic to the relationship. Proceed with Extreme Caution.
Stay strongly independent and do not create attachments. Move forward with the physicality when U are ready not them…do not expect, depend or create conditions for it…keeping freedom and joy as our forefront is very important. We need to remain confident and not become needy.
@Carolynska S Yes, I don’t kiss a guy unless we are in an exclusive serious relationship. Until then, they get nothing but a hug. lol!!
Totally agree.
I 💯 agree. For many females they don’t attach until there has been physical contact. For example, I know that I can easily get over a guy by meeting another one, doing the whole dating thing until I feel it’s appropriate to become intimate, but once I become intimate with the new guy…..the old guy is done. I can’t go back either, which is possibly why I’ve only ever had long term relationships which I can count on one hand and have never had a 1 night stand.
I agree, you are right 100%
He tried to trick me by asking if I wanna be exclusive with him. I asked if he would be with me and he wouldn’t answer. I think the other woman fell for that.
“Don’t be attached to the outcome”
This piece of advice is absolute GOLD to me. Thank you very much dear lady
No one can string you along if you don’t let them. Forget them they don’t matter if they think so less of you.
When he is stingy and selfish. Cut him off/ block him forever. No Longer Be Available.
@Be Frank Right!! Frank, I’m just guessing that you’re Single?
My friend knew her husband was the one when she saw how he treated other people is the way he treated her.
And when he stopped by unexpectedly while she had the stomach flu when they 1st started dating. She was sicker than a dog no make up on and he held the bucket for her. Now that’s Love!
Exactly! I dated a guy last summer and we would always end up in my neighborhood, hanging out at my place. I had never once seen his place; he never invited me. I just intuitively dropped him after we were out driving after dinner, and I asked, hey why don’t we check out YOUR PLACE? He came up with some weird excuse, and I was done. I’m so glad I never slept with him!! Landmine Avoided!!