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They hold it over you and feel entitled.
They want it all at the victims expense if you offered them your soul would they carry you away?😮😮😢
Dress down. Avoid wearing designers clothes, or shopping at expensive grocery stores. Act like you don’t have much money. Invest your money into a savings account or a retirement plan. Keep it all hidden away. Don’t invest anything more into anyone, than they invest into you. Don’t fall for the lies and future faking. Secure all of your valuables. Many narcissists will even steal from you.
They will steal. Random things started disappearing from the house. The last seven years he was alive I kept what was left of my valuables in a storage unit. He tried repeatedly to figure out where the storage unit was but never did.
My ex would say ‘What yours is mine and what’s mine is my own!’ He is a narcissistic psychopath.
The stories I could tell about money!
A guy asked a friend of his at work if he can borrow $200 and told him, I’ll pay you back on pay day. He lent it to him. On Friday he not only kept his word he gave him $300 back. A couple weeks later, he asked him if he can lend him $1,000 the friend thinking last time he gave me $100 more, so he lent it. The guy never came back to work, he disappeared.
He got groomed.
Growing up disabled, I never saw the check or any money spent on me—just a household drowning in alcohol. In 2015–2016, my paternal grandmother stayed with them for two years. Fast forward to COVID, and she passed away. While talking to the parental side of my family, I learned from my aunt that there had been a fight. She and her siblings managed to “take back” my grandmother and, after reviewing her bank statements, discovered that her seniors income wasn’t going to her—it was funding alcohol and a brand-new Ford truck. While discussing my grandmother’s passing with my uncle, we touched on this topic, and as they spoke, I broke down in tears. They asked what was wrong. I looked up, stunned, and said, “I was the first one!” Their expressions screamed, What do you mean? I told them, “You know the check for disabled kids? I never saw mine.” Their jaws dropped.I told my aunt to believe whatever my grandmother had told her. She turned to me and said, “Trust me, I did.”
Do not lend them money unless you’re prepared to never see it again.
You’ll never see a crying dime
From my experience to the narc ,money is their God. Even as little money as I’ve had. To observing a wealthy person in a narc relationship to the poor person. Your money is also the narcs money. What is in my purse is also theirs.
But theirs is theirs.
Siblings robbing their inheritance.
@@amandawoods8323 Absolutely so!!!
@@amandawoods8323 the narc will intentionally give it to a stealing or money mismanagement sibling too
Excellent illustrations of narcissist tactics. Dr. Ramani really shines while conveying complex issues in simple terms. She’s making bewildering things more understandable. I feel like I’m moving forward a little more every time I listen to her. I can directly relate my experiences to most of her subject matter.
I’ve heard that people (mostly your own family) are waiting until the end of your life to be of service to you because they “Care” so much. Entitled Narcissists. First they make sure to become your POA and spend every dime that comes into your house after they have live with you while you payed for everything most of their adult life. Neglecting things like life insurance, paying your bills. Then when the end comes they start a “Go fund Me” to ask others to pay the funeral expenses because they claim that it happened so quickly and unexpectedly at the age of 89. “Did she crush her Harley? Well bless your little hearts. I’m sorry to hear about her passing, but Hell no”.
Definitely impulsive spending and then they gaslight you and blame you for low finances.
I will happily sleep on the street before I work with them or take their money again and that was a hard acceptance to come to, but the radical acceptance has brought me so much inner peace and happiness.
My husband demanded that I pull more than $30K in cash advances on credit cards to give him a 2-week bailout for a business cash flow issue. Not only did he break his promise to repay in 2 weeks, he strung me out on repayment for 4 years and I had to beg every month for the scheduled payments. It was always such a surprise to him that those bills came monthly. Sometimes he wouldn’t pay and I had to scramble to pay myself.
Shortly after they were paid off he tried that crap again. I said no. Within a month he was shopping for a new woman.
I think this is really extremely important for children of narcissists to hear BEFORE those “parents” turn into elders trying to steal your money as well as your time and attention that you thought you were going to be able to use for yourself and / or make some more
When you loan a narc money , they’ll act like you owe them.
So don’t lend it if you need it back.
Empaths NEED to dump the narcs
My mother constantly talked about how I didn’t help her over the years. She has worked, though reluctantly, and her husband worked, but thought because I’d done well, I should hand them money! I haven’t done THAT well! I have gone no contact.
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