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  • @debbiemelillo2011 says:

    Love you !! You’re the best !!

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  • @LupitaT-z2h says:

    Thank you 🙏 Dr Ramani ..

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  • @AvaJulani says:

    Always keep in mind: When you grief, missing, justifying, making up excuses, or return to those narcs and psychos. In your mind, you want a healthy family you crave for so very much and you want healthy relationships with genuine love, warmth, humility, compassion, and compromise. In their mind, they “win” and they need to “win” again again and again, so they will create more wars and more conflicts for them to “win” again again and again until you are self destruct and self un-alive, seriously. Always listen to the body and the gut instinct, this knows best, trust this, this is the ultimate internal compass and the guiding light, been around for millions of years for self protection!!!!!

  • @faelohim8013 says:

    I pray I can release this blockchain of pain enough so I can leave this earth on a slightly higher note. God bless you earth angel. Just bless you x

  • @radial75 says:

    Thank you for the reassurance. Your content helps keep me sane. I can’t emphasize enough how much I appreciate your daily guidance, Dr. Ramani. Be well ❤

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  • @christinegettle4788 says:

    … just when you think you’re ok, BAM!!! you’re not

  • @youngblood8540 says:

    Never forget how they made you feel on your darkest days.

  • @julieemmons9033 says:

    My trauma bond was so intense that I often said, “I hope he dies just one day before me, so I can have at least one day of peace!” I think I’ve had almost 3 years now of living without this fixture in my life, but regardless of their absence these folks leave damaged energy fields for lifetimes.

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  • @townsendv58 says:

    Towards the end of the relationship, I felt so much better when I was not around him. Now, 10 years out, so much more awareness, how I feel

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  • @cdr92663 says:

    I grew up with a narcissistic, she would abandon us, dad would b there. She would come back nice, quiet…my narc the relationship is chaotic & now really sick. I feel horrible but I am not sure I can commit to a lifetime of caring for someone so lacking morals, ethics & my missing chance on happiness I crave.

  • @Christine-Libra says:

    Wow, this video is so true in all aspects. 😢 I felt every word when you said “you think you are strong enough to do this.” Last year around Christmas he came back around and I fell so far down the rabbit hole until being broken again.

  • @Lore788 says:

    Even the cat feels relaxed in the absence of the narcissist.😂

    • @abigailandino6251 says:

      This is a fact. And not sucks when you realize what’s happening. And if you try to “fix it” by communiyour discomfort or pain, they literally laugh at your face.
      You’re exaggerating or sensitive or weak.
      Sucks

    • @barbarakelly1916 says:

      Cats (and other animals) must judge safety, for their survival. I trust a cat or dog that pulls away from another human.

    • @Lore788 says:

      @@abigailandino6251 Unfortunately they don’t care.🥲 Learning and understanding this disorder, is a blessing!

    • @Lore788 says:

      @@barbarakelly1916 💯 Facts.👍

  • @sparkygump says:

    Time and space away from narcs are the best cures.

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  • @debrabazzell9361 says:

    I LOVE who I am without him

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  • @abigailandino6251 says:

    Paying attention to how I felt when they weren’t around is how I knew I was balls deep in toxic dysfunction.

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  • @Yoplait1277 says:

    After 10 years of blocking my parents and sister….i am still finding myself….. discovering I’m actually not as messed up as my family said i am……. if i go back to my family, they will destroy my self confidence , my little container of self love….and all my progress on healing . Even now, thinking of even seeing them makes me feel so suffocated…

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  • @katichka100 says:

    That thought, about feeling better when a parent wasn’t home for a few days. Wow, that just hit home so suddenly. That was absolutely the case. Never registered until now. 😮

    • @AngiO-f1s says:

      It was the best time when my mother stayed with her mom. Me, my dad, and sister could relax and have peace for those few glorious days lol.

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  • @sean48061 says:

    Thank You! Just ended a 17 year long friendship at the age of 20 a couple weeks ago, your videos have really helped me understand the scope of the situation. “Remember it’s life for you, it’s a game for them”

  • @La_Gypsy_mx says:

    Thank you Dr .Ramani 🙌🏻

  • @VanessaLily says:

    Please cover why Narcissists use the Silent Treatment and Ghost people.

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