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You made this Accountable First Class video for men.💮😁💮💮💮💮❤️
Yes.
Happy Wednesday Courtney
You too!
Apparently, being a serial killer is a green flag to ‘some’ woman these days
Has been since the 80s … 😮
Yeah, a lot of em. Scary.
Or looking like Charles Manson
Ted Bundy’s courtroom footage proves that supposed “intelligent” women love yim; and one agreed to marry him. Alarmingly, most of those women probably went on to raise children.
@chasjohn57 who wouldn’t want Charles in Charge?!? 😅
Definitely working on some of them. Happy I’m doing well with some of them. The largest improvement for me has been realizing my emotions are valid and that there is value in communicating them, even allowing them to decide where I fall on things to a degree. Huge stress relief and it improves communication, particularly with women. Apparently, it makes me feel uncomfortable, makes more sense to women than even the most well thought out argument.
People pleasing habits still somewhat linger.. but I’ve been making strides towards standing up for myself more. Have a blessed day Courtney!
Glad to hear it. You too! ❤️
@0:35 Regulate emotions without shutting down
@3:00 Follow through on the little things
@4:02 Disagree without making it a debate
@5:07 Making people feel heard
@6:20 Prioritize self-respect over people-pleasing
Yes. Thank you for the breakdown.
Not all heroes wear capes🔥🔥🔥
Thanks!!
Thank you I can’t listen to a woman for 5 minutes straight
@Juan-d2k4y Then why did you even click on the video
Thanks Courtney.
Wow… thank you Courtney. This one hit home. I am told by others that I bring so much to the table but I know from my 28 years in two relationships that I still need to work on myself. Regulating my emotions (which I am so much better than I have been in years past) is something that I am continually growing within. And following through on the little things… yes. I am great at the big stuff and pretty good with the small stuff but, I definitely have work to do there. I’m not a people pleaser but I am capable in many different ways and find that I over commit. Learning to keep my mouth shut, even when I know I can do something, has helped. Then, if time and circumstance allow me to do something for someone else, I can do it and make their day. Whereas if I say I am going to do it, and then don’t, that sets up them, and me, for disappointment.
I feel pretty good on the other points.
Thank you for your videos. This one stands out above the rest for your keen insights and really communicating what we can all strive towards. It’s an imperfect journey, but the most worthy one. Thank you.
Wow, I must be such a catch (checks tinder, still nothing)
Pretty sure tinder is the last place you’d wanna be…
Date friends of friends. Delete that garbage.
Using dating apps is ridiculous, at this point. How can you not understand?
You still on tinder? 🤡
@@paullucas3 Uh-huh; and when the relationship tanks (and the inevitable character assa55ination starts), you lose a friend too. What a bargain.
It’s saddening how being a decent human being is now considered rare.
Look on the bright side. The bar is so low, being normal makes you look like a rock star! lol
@@piquat1 nah it dosent work that way to be honest the people who are nice and consider thier partner’s feeling over thier feeling get cheated on most times 😢
@@Jasonqt5 Hence Sign #5 and prioritizing self-respect over people-pleasing.
@@johnwinkowski3154 ya ik but it just hurts man like i did everything you know i treated her with everything i could but she just cheated on me like it all mattered nothing i just cant get over it 💔
@ Give it time. You will move on. Eventually, she will be the one left with regrets while you will be the one with someone else who is loyal because they know your value. Hang in there for now!
The problem is there’s too many barriers these days. Technology is a dead end for dating, it’s too expensive to go out especially here in Australia, night life has died nobody goes out anymore, many people work online or at home, all the good ones are taken no surprise there. The community that’s gone, friends have gone there own separate ways doing their own thing and when you do finally gel with someone they’re on the other side of the planet. So unless you’re into something like yoga the gym or willing to take up dancing classes you’re pretty much on your own. So in the end you end up shifting your focus onto something else & getting your needs met over seas or at a brothel or strip club.
*Being able to handle conflict calmly, express yourself clearly, and listen without ego sets you apart more than any looks or status ever will.*
And they’ll still choose looks, status, money, height over any of it. Then when they’ve slammed into the wall after they’re ran though and single mothers THEN they’ll expect the “green flag” to commit to her.
4:02 when you have your opinion on everything you suddenly find out that you don’t need to argue at all, you either agree and provide your comments on topic or just kindly refuse to accept their opinion, but that’s not guarantees that other person don’t want to start argument with you to prove you wrong
5 green flags:
1. 6’2+ height
2. Hunter eyes
3. Sharp jawline
4. Sharp jawline
5. Money
Pfp checks out
The only 3 things that matter from a woman’s perspective are height,face,body with that specific order. The rest has no value if you are 1/3 or 0/3. They say other things matter more, but as always they are lying to you and to themselves!
Serial killer eyes… 🙃
when you don’t find 5 green flags so you just copy past one
Be funny
This is for the dude who watched this video and is saying to himself, “I do all this.” These green flags aren’t a guarantee of success. It takes the right woman to value you. So keep on. You got this.
1000000000000000%.
green flags only apply AFTER she is physically attracted to you
@@masterofdisaster492 Yes…that’s obvious (unless you’re Reid and Maeve); however, one woman’s attraction may not be another’s. How else do billions of men find partners?
@@masterofdisaster492 Yes, and sometimes green flags doesn’t apply at all, even if you are in a relationship.
Absolutely. Some gals are incapable of receiving a man like this.
Biggest life hack i’ve learned the hard way is to NEVER respond to emotions. If you’re angry take a few minutes to calm yourself and then come back with a clearer mind. Nothing good ever comes out of responding back if you’re in a bad mood
Back to the minor traits. This works under one of two scenarios:
1. The man checks off the required boxes first before these optional ones: tall, jacked, and wealthy.
2. The Luigi Mangione method:
a. Regulated emotions while doing horrific act (didn’t wimp out)
b. Followed through on horrific act.
c. Disagreed by doing horrific act instead of debating.
d. Many, many small people felt heard after his horrific act.
e. Prioritized himself and his issues by committing a horrific act over that of pleasing people who didn’t know or care about him and millions of other people seen as numbers on a spreadsheet.
Yes, it is an extremely cynical look at the world, but it’s not wrong. Look at his following, especially with women.
1 Thing I found out also, if you make a mistake, instead of saying I am sorry, tell the other person that you realized where you were wrong and say what the wrong action was. This way it lets the other person know that you saw your mistake and are saying what you did wrong.
you are right on those ones. These are true soft skills that companies are looking for