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You deserve someone who deserves you. if she is recently out of a relationship and is not over him. Avoid. Opinions are my own.
Agreed
You can always trust in delicious spam. SPAM never let’s you down.
It doesn’t even have to be recently if she is α-widowed.
yeah lowkey it’s kinda messed up instead of women just being Straight up they resort to this sneaky manipulative Behavior
Hey Courtney! I just want to say thank you for all the content. You have greatly impacted me. I’ve been learning French and this week has been a challenging week. I thought I was fluent, only to discover not yet. Then I remembered my favorite Courtney quote: “Slow and steady wins the race.” I’ve gradually incorporated this in all areas of my life: guitar, French, exercise, and more. You are making a positive impact on the platform and I appreciate the positive videos. I’m talking to a new girl and I’m going to remember what you’ve taught me about girls.
Oh this is so wonderful! I’m so happy I can help. Hugs 🥰
If you’re not a priority at all, she’s not interested. Too many dudes chase women who are clearly not interested. Move along
That’s also why so many men are no longer “chasing”. Too few rewards in between attempts so not worth it to many.
They really need to teach the blackpill in schools, to ensure that the sub5s like myself don’t do this.
The last two words of your comment reminded me of the Stormtroopers in the ‘These aren’t the droids you’re looking for…” scene in the original ‘STAR WARS.’
“Move along….move along…”
@@thedoneeye I cannot believe I did not see that before you brought it up 😂 looking for 2 specific droids in Tatooine. That’s what dating feels like in 2025
@@LordVader5738 You know dating has become difficult when even Lord Vader tunes into Courtney’s site for tips 😉
Fellas, listen to this. Stop chasing women who don’t care about you at all.
Just stop chasing them all together bro lol success an money brings them to you they aren’t the goal or the prize.
Quit being Negative.
@@OBITOMAJIN yes we are not the prize but we can make money at our own too if all we wanted was money. however you cannot change the feminine nature, it’s your job to take action if you want her and it’s not her job to chase you if she got rejected 😉
@@MrTJMaddoxhe’s not wrong though, if someone doesn’t care about you, you shouldn’t do things for them .
@@MrTJMaddoxhow is that being negative ? If a woman doesn’t care about you why would you waste any time with her ?
Guys listen this is going to be important… when someone is trying to use you… stop and think do you deserve to be used or do you deserve to be respected? Your self respect and self worth is determined by you! stop looking at women who you deem beautiful as a trophy and treat her like a person and see how she treats you! if she still thinks she’s better than you or deserves princes treatment, drop her immediately and don’t look back. you can do the opposite of everything she likes and have her eliminate herself as well! stop accepting leftovers and borderline abuse for acceptance for someone that doesn’t want you nor respects you!
I think you’re right about respect. Tell the girl right up front what you’re about and what you want. Don’t make it about her. Be polite but not kind. They respect that.
Not sure that anyone deserves anything in particular.
I would prefer if we have a private discu-ssion
I’ve only experienced girls who play me like this. Have learned to not give them the time of day anymore. Good vid.
I would prefer if we have a private discu-ssion
There’s a lesson in there but you keep missing it. What’s the lesson? it’s not to throw the towel.
@ the only girls that have even entertained me are those women. I’ve only ever experienced rejection otherwise…and often times extremely harshly.
I had my fair share of matches where the girl I was matched with would show these signs.
When they are very attractive, it’s much easier to let them string you along. But at the end of the day, if they’re putting in no effort, you just got to let them go and move along. You’ll find someone else who will show you mutual respect.
I would prefer if we have a private discu-ssion
There is a girl who wasted years of my life and almost everything in this video applies to her. I can’t say it was her fault, as it was mine for tolerating it. She eventually blocked me out of nowhere and now I’m left with the feeling of shame because of how I allowed myself to lose my dignity chasing someone like that who never loved me.
Hello, I got something special for you Above.🎉
Yes, been there, done that. It took me eight years to see the light. I always knew that *I* would have to give up on *her* for the truth to sink in, not the other way around, and that’s the way things eventually turned out. Yes, she breadcrumbed me for years for her ego’s sake, but here’s no bitterness. It’s entirely my fault I stuck with this absurd illusion for so long. We all have to own up to our immaturity and, somehow, transcend it.
If you’re always the one initiating contact, move on. She isn’t that into you.
This is probably the single most important advice I’ve had to self-learn the hard way.
Hello, I got something special for you Above.🎉
I recently went through this. I was dating a girl for over 2 months from bumble, I was exclusively dating her and after 2 months she started dating another guy as well from bumble saying we agreed to openly date earlier. Even after two months she was not clear, or pretending to be not clear, but wanted me as a friend. I stopped talking completely, but it sucks.
Very tough decision but it was the smart one for you. Do not feed her ego or give her ‘options’. In a nutshell, no one likes being number #2. You’ll be fine, brotha! 👊
@mikenelson8377 thankyou bro, yes it was painful. I still am in the process of healing as it’s just been two weeks after the breakup. But I am much better now and just as you said, I won’t be anyone’s OPTION.
@@palashtrivedi5622 of course! My best advice beyond what I’ve commented: live your BEST life. You don’t need a girl to live your best life. Keep smiling, have a good attitude and things WILL happen ☺️
it’s cause women got so many options now
It’s crazy how so many modern women think that this is OK. It’s a morally reprehensible behavior and mindset. Needless to say, it’s a huge turnoff.
A classic example is when someone takes a long time to respond to a text message about re-confirming plans for meeting up. A simple way to test whether someone is playing you is to send that text on the morning of the day before the scheduled date. If they don’t answer you within 3-6 hours, that usually is an indicator they’re not fully invested in you. Especially since most people check their phones several times a day (e.g. lunchtime), and the responses requires a simple line of text.
Learn from your doctor’s (dentist’s, etc) office. What do they always do when you have an appointment coming up? They call/email you 36/48 hours in advance [Morning of the day before, like you said] and ask you to “confirm your appointment.” This is your last chance to cancel. Why? Because it is their last chance, if you do cancel, to offer that time slot to some other patient.
And notice that they Do Not Play. If you cancel day of, or no show? They will bill you anyway, like they warn you they’ll do when you sign that patient information packet. Now, of course, you can’t really bill someone for standing you up. But, they set a boundary, they enforce a consequence, and so can you.
@@vhb175 That is a great analogous example!
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Very good and comprehensive presentation Courtney. All 5 signs are for real and common. We are at a point now where you can judge someone’s real interest in how quickly they respond to your texts. Not because that’s a good thing but because that’s how the chips fell.
I tell my wife one of the things that made me like her a lot was our first interaction. I was given her number by a mutual friend and decided to call. When I called her I spoke to her for a few minutes though she was about to hang out with some friends. She told me she had to go, but told me “Can I call you back tomorrow?”. I said yes and the next afternoon she called me and we ended up talking for 2 hours. It was a really good sign for me.
Hello, I got something special for you Above.🎉
Awesome, very natural flow. You took action and she followed
I’m sure that was 30 to 40 years ago and not between 2014 to 2025
1. Overemphasizes Independence 0:30
2. Communication Is Inconsistent 1:32
3. She Avoid Making Plans / Cancels 2:28
4. Keeps Things Vague 3:23
5. Contact Is Transactional 4:30
Thanks so much for sharing this. I have seen these behaviors and have already learned how to recognize them, I still can appreciate this post. 👍👍
You hit on every aspect of my current situation. I had a feeling I was being played, but I just can’t say enough. HELP
I was in my mid twenties at university and a bit older than my peers. One of my female friends had a friend who is super attractive. I didn’t approach her that way, but she said we should go out a few times. So I invited her to a movie, organized transportation, and when it was time to contact her to go she went radio silent. After a while she contacted me, apologized profusely, then rescheduled. I was a bit miffed but decided to give her another chance. Days later the exact thing happened again. So at that point I completely cut her off because what she did was disrespectful. When I saw her on campus I crossed the street and ignored her. What really bothered me is that she was the one who suggested going out in the first place.
So late one night I see her calling me, and she’s crying and saying sorry. I let her know how I felt, accepted her apology, but never trusted her again and didn’t ask her to do anything because she clearly wasn’t into me that way. She was just a very attractive woman who enjoyed the attention she got from me. That sort of thing stings, and really stays with you.
The dilemma for us all because we are so attracted to them. In the end, all they want is attention.
My last talking stage lasted 2 weeks of her consistently being responsive, multiple texts, invested in the conversation, etc. Then the day before our first date she just ghosted entirely and never texted again. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if they’re wasting your time, or just genuinely are putting on an act for the attention and then when it becomes time to make it official, they go on to the next person.
Seriously, most of the time they don’t know what they’re up to either. But if things don’t work out with her, always remember this: You’ve just dodged a bullet.
These are all excellent points. The short version: If she’s manifesting any of these behaviors, consider the “relationship” at an end. If she isn’t interested in you now, she *definitely* won’t be in the future.
No connection is worth mistreatment. Plus it’s easier for me to have compassion for what people have been through when I don’t allow them to take it out on me, because hurt people hurt people.