5 Signs He’s Lying to You (or Hiding Something)

Men have pretty consistent "tells" that will let you know if they are not telling you the truth! Watch to find out more…
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  • @pagep9876 says:

    Always go with your gut…it’s always right

  • @MamaTwoYou says:

    Gaslight is reverse psychology

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      Rissa Jenelle totally!!!

    • @mariestevenson9459 says:

      And mine had it down pat

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    • @joansheekey9874 says:

      9 years with a man that hasn’t seen yu in 3 months and rings yu but that’s it

    • @crissydalphone3870 says:

      Thank you

    • @kristiboyce9035 says:

      Gaslighting causes brain damage. the biggest technique of any sociopath to get you under control. “Don’t go believing your Lyin Eyes girl ..don’t you trust me?” “We never stood a chance because you didn’t trust me!” And my personal favorite, ” “no wonder your ex left you is this what you did to him?”. When all you did is asked a simple question of why they are coming home at 3 a.m.. I’m single forever now and that was a good video

    • @kristiboyce9035 says:

      if you feel constantly confused and you’re questioning your own reality it is time to go and you don’t need to know about them anymore you get that feeling you just go

  • @justlimalimaa5135 says:

    Or that “believe what you want”

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      OH YEAH that’s a great one!!

    • @katiehunt3083 says:

      YES!

    • @campahl17 says:

      I get that a lot

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  • @davinityt.741 says:

    Almost 11 months out of a narcissistic contact, and ALL of these tactics happened. He once called me “typical!!” He was always trying to cover up what I knew was untrue. I admit, I ignored the red flags and stayed too long. ALWAYS trust your instincts.

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      YESS your intuition that always one of your most powerful assets!!

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  • @soyamor24k says:

    “If you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship”

  • @lisaverbosky4967 says:

    Yes, trust your intuition. Learned that the hard way myself

  • @leeanne0716 says:

    When catching narcasist in a lie… He freaks out and it’s my fault

  • @stacyfletcher7961 says:

    Every time they swear on their mama, their grandma, or their kids. It’s a lie.

  • @joliebulifant4995 says:

    My husband is defensive all the time. We’re at the point where I cannot even ask as a conversation started “what time did you get off work last night?” It’s all so exhausting!!!

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      sorry to hear that! have you tried being really vulnerable with him?

    • @asnation3173 says:

      jolie bulifant same here :/

    • @joliebulifant4995 says:

      Mat Shaffer yes, until I’m blue in the face. It goes in one ear out the other.

    • @praisewithmusic says:

      He’s very defensive at even a stupid thing. Not good. He’s always doing 3&4.

    • @marianarobledo6294 says:

      Omg me too!! Sometimes i even get scared to ask him a question because hes already getting defensive even before asking him a question and always says that because hes tired and he doenst want to fight or he doenst wnat to talk about it because he knows its gonna end up on an argument ( very calm, respectful tone when asking him) suddenly he gets so tired that he doesn’t want to talk about it and “respect him”for that as he says every time but its every single time he comes out with anything to avoid it !its always something also he always changes hes stories and tries to make me believe that je didn’t say this and that but every single time when it’s beneficial for him.

  • @rosechapman949 says:

    A few other ways to tell he is lying is 1/ he swallows hard after talking – 2/ his eyes start to water – 3/ he will laugh if you stare at him. 4/ One has to have a GOOD memory to be a liar.

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      Exactly you got it Rose Chapman!

    • @hazzaplayz808 says:

      Good points,I’ve also noticed my former partner would also raise his eyebrows and ALWAYS looked to the left,each time he would lie

    • @Emily-us4gq says:

      OMFG my ex was impossible to talk to about anything I was concerned about and he used to say literally. Nothing it was like talking to a brick wall then when I would wait and stare at him for an answer he would laugh like a child! Omg lol I knew he was a bullshitter but apparently I had the problem the entire time and I was “crazy “

    • @Emily-us4gq says:

      Oh yeah and he started putting his phone face down everytime I was around! Omg haha this was like 5 Years ago but when I see videos like this my mind goes right back there and I’m like yep yep yep tick tick tick haha so sad

  • @sandramullen7804 says:

    Always listen to your gut instinct, it’s there for a reason.

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      So true!

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    • @Mrsblue1 says:

      I am in love with this guy.

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  • @oceanzennfamxo833 says:

    1. Yes, Yes he does
    He’s giving me more information then he’s needed too, ..
    2. He gives eye contact looks away for a second but scratch him self on the face.
    3. Yes he’s defensive and he turns it around on to me
    Gaslighting he is gaslighting.
    He says your the one who’s insecure and look what I did for you ,I have done all this for you be grateful and respect me… It makes me feel guilty .
    4.no
    5. It doesn’t feel right…….
    He gets angry when I ask he gets angry and he doesn’t respect me when I ask him.

  • @sarahsantiago3960 says:

    I have no proof, just my gut. I feel like he’s seeing someone else so I just need to end it.

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    • @naomifuentes3517 says:

      Get a proof Sarah.

    • @sarahsantiago3960 says:

      @@naomifuentes3517 we haven’t been dating that long, it’s not really worth spending money on. if I feel like someone’s lying, just gotta wait and see and follow my intuition

    • @cara473 says:

      If I were you, I would just walk. If he really wants you, he won’t want to let you go. Let that man miss you. It’s bad for our mental health to have to go thru this crap.

    • @violetsni says:

      I hope you walked. I had the same damn issue… but I ignored it and now I am more heart broken then I have ever been

  • @chelsearedd4682 says:

    I caught my ex cheating through our phone bill. When I finally confronted him he became so enraged yelling “you cxnt how dare you accuse me of this bs I swear I want to punch you in the head” and he came at me and acted like he was gonna punch me, laughed when I flinched and started crying, then threw me against the wall. Run and run fast once you see any of these red flags!!!!

  • @dixiechampagne2892 says:

    If his lips are moving, he’s lying, hee hee

  • @alluretaylour says:

    1. Too many details: tells an entire story and gives out alibis. Trying too hard to sell you a story.
    2. Not willing to make eye contact: breaks eye contact and is trying create details or can’t lie in your eyes.
    3. Gets defensive: attacking you. Gets combative with you. Derailing. Gaslighting.
    4. You find yourself rationalizing and/or making excuses for his behavior.
    5. If it doesn’t feel right to you.

  • @skyfall1481 says:

    Let them lie. You can’t control their shady behaviour. Walk when it happens, no discussion, no closure. Leave.

  • @bostonb1636 says:

    “Stand in your power and walk away from this relationship”. That’s a great line, Mat. Thank you ♥️

  • @doragracias8519 says:

    “If you don’t have trust, you don’t have a relationship.” Rightly said.

    • @Mat_Shaffer says:

      Thanks for sharing.🙏🙏

    • @questiona7 says:

      Yeah so true , 😂 cheaters always said so , don’t trust their words

    • @Trancymind says:

      If an individual doesn’t trust himself/herself, you’ll never trust anybody. You’ll be living alone and rotting yourself slowly. If you have kids, none or your kids will come by to visit you once you are retired.

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