5 Things Men Notice WHILE Kissing You (That Women Don’t Realize!)
Want to know what men are secretly paying attention to while they’re kissing you? 🔥 These subtle chemistry cues and body language signals shape attraction, desire, and emotional connection way more than most women realize.
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Kissing isn’t just foreplay. It’s communication. It’s compatibility testing. It’s subconscious attraction in real time.
When you understand what men feel and notice during a kiss, you can instantly increase sexual tension, deepen emotional connection, and create chemistry that lingers long after your lips part.
In this video, I break down 5 surprising things men are tracking while they’re kissing you — from your presence and breathing, to how you use your hands, how you match his energy, and what you do in the moment after the kiss ends.
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Oh Matt we actually do realise it’s more you men think we don’t realise and it’s not just you men who think like this it’s also women we notice all of these too. Use your hands touch the ear lobe especially the left for some reason any man’s weakness and I also noticed another males weakness it’s always between the shoulder blades and trace them with the fingers
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Mat I always tend to and change the moc to a mum or in American terms m-o-m. Guess what Matt I’m now 5 years self harm free and remarried to a very handsome Texan guy. I am so glad I reopened the front door like you said to do and not shut myself away totally. I definitely found an even more rare and extremely expensive but yet priceless diamond amoungst the harsh heavy handed rocks. Been back and forth to the states yes you heard I finally made it out of Australia. My confidence and courage has grown alot too. I used to be terrifed to leave the house and have had anxiety and now I can adventure out on my own even and be surrounded in stores and different places with other men even standing close to me not in a romantic way but as you know I had a massive fear of all men and now thanks to Angus I am free of all of that and when I am not in Texas, Idaho or Canada at our places there I am back to working full time here in Australia and can you believe it I now run and manage the whole NICU, maternity and labour and delivery ward the same NICU where my son and daughter who my son was the one I named after you and your sister had died I went back there and now run the place. All my abusers were brought to justice and I know it maybe evil but 3 died last year which as I said sounds evil but I mentally finally feel free of that situation and the other is in prison and even standing in that court room I had the confidence to actually stand up and speak and give every little detail of what they did to me. I am so thankful I found your YouTube and turned to you for the help to see if that past situation was normal and I am so thankful you replied.. 5 years on and I’m stronger then ever
Side note most can’t say all but think of us women as a car on a open road with no speed limits or police or any of that where you men want to test the horse power under the hood don’t hold back when the roads totally clear of all and another pointer stoke our cheek and put the hand on the inner thighs. Bonus points want more kisses aim for ear lobes and the shoulder blades and as he pulls away pull back after all a shut door always has a push pull situation they push you pull back. The last 2 times I did the Moc i ended up changing the o and the C to a m-o-m or in Australia terms M-u-m lol. Always good to see your face Matt
thansk for sharing!!
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