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Tbf lack of finances is a huge one. If you have no money because of high cost of living (for example) then you end up stopping yourself from going out and doing things you want to enjoy.
100%
This is literally the reason why they call the program “social security_
and interacting directly with women, interacting in social settings, and being seen engaging in activities you both find interesting, all of which are very important for attraction
Not being tall, handsome and wealthy are definitely three of them.
Tall is the only one thats completely outta your control
It’s the obsession with those things that keeps you insecure. People hate insecurity 1000 times more than shortness, ugliness or poverty. Nobody likes being around people like that, it feels icky. And then you attract the only the worst people, and it reinforces itself.
People who say that just want a reason not to try because they want the world to put everything at their feet. Just be a man and go chase after it.
A small percentage of people are tall, rich and handsome. Yet, people are falling in love every day.
@@hunzren
It seems as though women won’t settle for anything less than all three even women who are average at best.
Also not being white, I wish I was white
When I’m alone, I’m not lonely. When I’m sitting at a table with 5 other people who all have their phones on the table, I’m very lonely.
Just wanna say it gets harder to maintain friendships when you get into your 30s. I had such a tight crew back in the day, and even though we’re all still cool, we’re all separated (distance wise). Not to mention having kids, getting married etc just adds to how hard it is to plan stuff.
But who knows, maybe it’s just me. Either way, I definitely get jealous and a little sad when I see a big group of homies all hanging out. Usually it’s a bunch of younger dudes (early 20’s) which makes sense.
I’m 33 and I completely agree with this. My friend group used to hang out every Saturday night and now that some of us are married/engaged we’re lucky to see each other once every two months. And as one of the few single friends it sucks
I’m right there with you dude, especially if you don’t have a family of your own. You don’t want to take someone else’s time away from it
Why is it that only women are talking about the “male loneliness epidemic”? For most men this is “normalcy”.
Idk, all I know is that women don’t really care about men
Projecting.
Because now women have to deal with being lonely and since they can never take accountability they have to blame us
That’s not true, most men are in relationships and have friends.
Thanks for this positive and affirming message.
I think you mean well, but there’s a whole other side to each of these things. The real reason we’re lonely is because of the self-obsessed, narcissistic, entitled, selfish, and flat-out cruel behavior of modern women.
We’re shamed for not opening up. The moment we open up, we’re shamed for that. If we’re quiet, then we’re closed off, “emotionally unavailable.” But if we talk, we’re “mansplaining.”
You said in several videos that you like coffee first dates, and I agree. But SO many women have incredibly long lists of “icks” and coffee dates are a common one.
You say that we’re worthy. We appreciate that. I believe you when you say it. But the average woman today is ten times more fickle than you.
Thank you for what you do, but the problem of *toxic* feminism is real; not old school feminism, which is common sense and essential for healthy society.
Men live for women. We really do. So, when we see such terrible behavior from so many women, when we have no romantic connections, we tend to stop socializing with our friends, too.
Preach ,Brother! Spot on
A h+ndj+b master never becomes a posy slave.
Honestly, just hearing something like “you do not have to be perfect to be loved“ made my day. You do not need to be successful, or in shape, or anything else like that to be worthy of someone’s love. This is an important state of mind to have and I think it’s very important for men to hear that.
Sounds nice and everything, but it’s nonsense practically speaking
Sounds amazing and I wish it were true, but unfortunately, it is not. Maybe it is, but it is extremely rare. The world only cares about the results, so you are oftentimes seen by what you can do, rather than who you are.
Remember men, good women want you to be vulnerable for connection, toxic women want more Ammo.
Most important dating advice for anyone, is to avoid toxic, narcissistic, nihilistic behavior.
You mean avoiding 99% of XX chromosome carriers.
One of the best videos you’ve made this year. Maybe this video came at a good time, but regardless, you crushed it with the advice in this video. Thanks, Courtney!
I find it extremely difficult to trust people, I’ve always kept people at arms length to prevent getting shat on.
Anytime I say hello or wave at a girl they act disgusted :/
Or they ghost you 😢
Get your passport. Go overseas. Meet a woman there who appreciate it’s men
Are you attractive? It helps to be attractive.
Thanks 👍👌💯 a lot for the video it really made my day. I’ve been trying to get myself being lonely even though i have my younger siblings to talk and play with but it’s still lonely for me as a young man (18).
Nah I’m tired of it always being on me. Some friendships just aren’t worth keeping if I’m the only one reaching out. Yeah that makes the world smaller but smaller means peaceful, if albeit lonely sometimes. The ones that do reach out to me prove it’s real and it’s both ways
Amen! Why keep contact with people that never writes to you first?
My dog is my support system and he does a great job at it.
Thank you for your kind and gentle approach on this topic. I see a lot of people dismissing or making fun it online, and generalizing lonely men as being something they’re not. Whether you call it an “epidemic” or not, loneliness affects men of all backgrounds, and I would argue a lot of women are struggling with this as well.
I too am an only child and have spent plenty of time alone from my teens into adulthood. And while I value my peace and independence, I sometimes fall into these traps that you talked about. I realized that after my dad passed away in April. The amount of people who reached out to me during that time helped me realize how great of a support system I have, and I was thankful for my close friends I was able to lean on when I needed them.
Last month, I reached out to someone I hadn’t talked to in a while. I didn’t think they’d answer, but it turns out they were also going through a tough time, and my message helped make their day. Moral of the story is, you’d be surprised with the impact you can make for yourself and others just by sending a simple message.
Thank you for sharing Courtney! It’s very true and I’m found myself making excuses for avoiding people but always find myself being happier with people than by myself. Great insight 👍
Yeah, I was considering a Church support group. I don’t belong to any church yet either.
Behaviour #6 hit me hard. Thanks a lot for the video.