6 Qualities That Make Men Attractive On A First Date
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There is a woman that I’ve been wanting to ask out, so I’ll definitely keep these 6 qualities in mind if we end up going on a first date!
Good luck to you! I hope it goes well!
Hope she says yes
Don’t take too long they lose interest if you don’t ask. Be smooth, stay relaxed. You got it bud 💯
Good luck my G! 👊🏽
Best of luck to you, sir 🤛🏾
What makes me attractive on a 0th date? I’m not even getting to the point where this video matters.
Seriously 😂
Having the confidence to ask her out to a first date, and handling her response to the invitation with maturity and class
I hear you bud. I’ve ditched the dating apps. All of em. I spend the time talking to girls that I’m completely not attracted to (and girls that I am…) as practice striking up and carrying on a casual conversation. They’ll either reciprocate, or they won’t. It’s practice succeeding, and no hurt feelings if they don’t. Nobody likes a sad panda bear 😎
Even as a Lady… I agree with you😂 You can be all Perfect and you will still not be attractive to that person on the first day.🤷
I’ve said that your physical attraction will always come first. You could possess many positive traits for a date-hobbies/passions, goals, but unless you have some physical attraction, none of those matter.
Courtney may have mentioned this in the past, but to me, not sitting opposite of each other but instead taking a seat (on a square table) to her right or left is more comfortable and less confrontational.
Women love the left side for some reason they’ll sit to your left unintentionally
I have heard that before…
Going by my date from last night. I turned up, she didn’t. I thought it was a pretty cool move, but I don’t think she was into it.
Most guys think being seductive is to be overwhelming stoic, I think we can be both stoic and playful
Older well-married man here watching a video about dating, which, thank God, I will never have to do. I don’t think I ever dated really in my life. Women I went with, we just seemed to be thrown together. Fellow backpackers, fellow hikers, co-workers, women in workshops or seminars, women met at random or introduced to. You just “clicked” with someone. You both knew there was a spark.The times I “dated,” going through all the steps, wow! she’s cute! or wow! she’s interesting! asking someone out- these were the days before the internet when such things might be easier- taking them out, having conversations, that was the minority of how any of my relationships began. Dating? It seems a strange and awkward process. I enjoy the videos, though. Your videos are well-made, Courtney. Very pleasant to watch. 😎
It is unfortunate that modern dating is all about instant gratification, and it sounds like dating from your era was exciting because people took the time to get to know someone and have some fun along the journey to meet “the one”.
P.S. It’s nice to see another Lawrence in this comment section!
@@lawrence31415 Only the bright handsome ones are named Lawrence on here! 🙂
Another attribute to consider not just for dating but in a professional sense is the old but still valuable concept of punctuality. If you think there might be traffic issues, leave extra early. Showing up late for scheduled events in life makes you look unreliable and not trustworthy. My guy friends know that when I say let’s meet for lunch at 1:00 pm for instance, I will order shortly after the scheduled time rather you are there are not. Yes, I hold the same standard for myself. If I’m late, order without me. I’m an adult and can handle the consequences.
I wish there was more channels like yours. Everyone else is telling you to play the person you like. Your the only one who is real 👍👍🇨🇦
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@@Wonderwoman79G Have a wonderful day 👍👍🇨🇦
Stephanie McMahon giving out love advice, I’d rather give her the love 🥰
Points mentioned with time stamps
1. Conversation adaptability & pace 0:26
2. Attention to detail 1:32
3. genuine curiosity & interest 3:48
4. Balanced assertiveness 4:58
5. Well-timed humor 6:17
6. subtle vulnerability 7:10
Thank you for saving my time dude.
Imagine some autist trying to check all 6 boxes on a date
No matter what I do to make the first date work. It is obviously not enough. Because there is very seldom a second date. My record up to now is 3 dates with one person. But she told me from the word go she only want to be friends. So not shure what more I can do.
You gotta instill in her that genuine burning desire lol
🤣
Better than me second is all I’ve ever been able to go. I put in a ton of effort and only managed 7 dates in four years. Only one got second date. I just gave up its pointless
Important things: 0:23 First Thing ÷ Conversation, Adaptability & Pace; 1:30 Second Thing ÷ Attention To Detail; 3:43 Third Thing ÷ Genuine Curiosity & Interest; 4:55 Fourth Thing ÷ Balanced Assertiveness; 6:13 Fifth Thing ÷ Well – Timed Humor; 7:08 Sixth Thing ÷ Subtle Vulnerability; and 8:02 to summarize all the told here.
Additional things what might be interesting are these: Seventh Thing ÷ Being Prepared To Help Her With Things; Eighth Thing ÷ Being A Reliable Person.
What you have told there Courtney, that can also apply to women as well. But probably also when the dating is going good.
What you have told on first and fifth thing, this can be considered as having a balance when to be relaxed, and when to be serious (just like the thinking’s from heart and brain must be connected, for example. My point here is that the brain and heart has to have balances, when making decisions, due to the outcome of situations). As for seventh, and eighth thing, I meant on some other things. On seventh thing I meant this for example: If the woman for example forgets the wet wipes, or hand satanizer (cause it happens for some reasons due to rushing, or some other obligations, etc.), you have to be prepared to help her, and to jump into to help her (let’s say it that way). My point here is to be prepared for probably such an emergencies if the woman asks for help. As for eighth thing, I meant this: To be a reliable person, meaning to be a person that will give a good impression on next date, to be astonished when she sees positive things that you did for her to impress her (to show her with deeds that you listen to her, an to love her). But this eighth thing can also be partly told in second thing as well.
And I always carry wet wipes and hand satanizer whenever I go out from the house.
The color of your nails goes well with the color of the lipstick 👏👏👏👏👏👏.
La perfection madam 💙🤍❤.
P.S. I have an eye for details 😉🙂.
I was on a date with this girl. She would ask me questions and when i would answer she would keep asking more questions. Then later i found out from her friend that she thought i talked to much about myself. She literally didnt give me a chance the whole time to ask her about herself.
If that becomes noticeable in the moment, you can say, ‘ya know, I feel like I’ve been talking a lot about myself. What about you?’
I thought she was just really into me
She probably told her friend that to justify rejecting you because she didn’t feel the “spark”. They keep rejecting good guys because she didn’t feel the instant spark and have intense chemistry. For most people that takes time to develop. But nope this clowns keep chasing the instant spark
This video has shown me that I have all the skills needed to have successful dates just without any actual ability to get dates
I think that most folks need to remember that dates and relationships are like airway breathing and blood circulation: it is all about the flow. If you’re uncomfortable? She’ll notice it like a heart murmur, or a gasp of air. Or perhaps choking (which is essentially what that would be).
Remember that in a date or relationship, that comfort levels are often reciprocal. If you’re nervous? You will likely create the air of nervousness. If you treat the date with the right balance of nonchalant and casual comfort levels? She will feed from this, as well.
The choice is yours. Administer accordingly, and enjoy the date.