6 Rules for Dating Over 50| Engaged at Any Age – Coach Jaki
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In this video, I discuss 6 rules that you should follow when dating over the age of 50.
01:29:16 – #1 Don't Bond Over Your Baggage
03:18:09 – #2 DOn't Call Him
04:21:15 – #3 Don't Have Sex
06:15:05 – #4 Stop beings so picky
08:17:08 – #5 Flirting
10:32:14 – #6 Let the conversation flow
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Jaki Sabourin was voted “Best Female Relationship Expert” by her peers. Jaki is a Coach, Speaker, Author, and the CEO of Engaged at Any Age®. Jaki’s company, Engaged at Any Age, is more than a ‘love brand.’ It is a sanctuary for high-value women who are ready to awaken their feminine power to create the life and relationship of their dreams! Jaki’s wit and no-nonsense attitude have guided thousands of her clients to empower themselves so they can create meaningful, healthy relationships.
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One of your best videos. Thank you!
Thank you for the assessment. Mine was right on. I look forward to learning more.
Honesty, is the MOST important! 🌺
When people talk about a past relationship, it’s an opportunity to learn something about a them….
I agree totally; as a man looking for ways to manipulate a woman listening to her rant about her past helps me..I find out if she is a slut or decent woman…If she is a slut I go in quicker for the sex…and become a part of her orbit…only…
Found you on YouTube and enjoyed this Video. Why? Because I am a 70 year old widower for six months. I cared for my wife for 12 years and she begged me to move on quickly after she passed. I tried dating three women my age. Your rules all apply especially the one about being flirty. The women I eventually passed on could use your advice. We men are stupid about understanding what a woman is thinking. Please let us know where we are going as a couple. We may get the message that you are bored and want to leave when your real thinking is WOW!! Help us out! I love women and miss having a woman in my life.
Keep up the good work, coach.
To me I still use my same feelings and rules as when I was 18 about having sex!! I don’t believe in jumping into sex…
I love u really 😍😍❤
I like u 💕💕💞💞
I am single
Yes! Too much too soon only hurts. I’m no longer 18, so I’m content with possibly dating again as I approach 60.
Great video. I’m widowed after almost 30 years and have been surprised by how many genuine, cool, sexy women there are out there.
Of course making the right choice is the only thing that really matters.
Hi! 🌈
Actions, (or lack of) demonstrate the Truth….
Words are meaningless if not consistent with action.
Trust what you see, not hear.
Trust how you feel, not think. Your experience creates intuition, gut feelings. Our Feelings are our Soul guiding us. Feelings are pure. Not thoughts of the mind. Those are constructs of many different aspects added to our feelings. Trust Yourself.
Never ask other people what you should do in these situations. You are the only one with your Mind, Body and Soul Energy (Spirit). Trust your Divinity for your own Truths. We all create our own reality.
You have made some very good points. Love is also a lot of work. I’ve been single all my life, 65 yrs. Building trust between both parties is one of the keys to success.
I, too, have always been single. Liked the video, though. Some food for thought. I actually met a man in line at a restaurant tonight who asked if he could join me at my table. He was a married person and seemed to think very highly of himself but he had no clue of what is going on in our town. Kind of fun talking to him at first. He announced that he was a CPA. I told him that “last night I was talking to a CPA at the Dem meeting who is running for local office.” He tells me “I know him.” I told him “she’s a girl.” While I was still eating and he was done eating, he left. Seemed abrupt.
If you’re a widow stop expecting him to fill the shoes of your departed and be just like him.
Im loven being single. Married once never again
I will never marry again after this 26 year betrayal of my ” best friend”. Open to love again because I know most people are good and honest. I won’t give him the power to take that away from me. Sad that people F up the most important thing in life.
i think being single sucks
change my mind….
@@anabelletricia1797 One word-divorce -nothing else needed
@@anabelletricia1797 I guess it depends on the person wouldn’t it
Hi. I’m 57, married to same woman I fell in love with when I was 22. I’m watching these videos to learn how things have changed while I’ve been on the sidelines…34 years married, and very happy!
GERALD FLORES ure blessed. Its hard out here
It’s awesome and rare too!Congratz!
Its very simple man the world has gone nuts nothing is predictable or stable.
Good for you I might not ever be married I’m 28 and never have been married
Hmmmm maybe fact check yourself …. what are you doing surfing “Dating Over 50” website if you claim you’ve been happily married 34 years?
Absolute best thing you can do is be exactly who you are. Nothing contrived. Show your true “colors”. Be picky if that is who you are. Last thing you want to do is pretend to be someone you’re not.
Thank you SO much for this video. Getting ready to go on my date over 50 and this was right on time! Your work is very needed! 💕
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You’re the lovely 😊 Coach
Best Of ever made me feel better about this.
Here’s another rule: BE FIT!!
Scott Waszak
In mind, emotion, body
& Spirit
Rule 8: Grow your hair long! Short hair is manly!
@@ironwillie7666 Long hair on an older woman can look harder. A feminine style with short hair can look great, unlike the common bowl cuts of many older women resort to, that broadcast “I am comfortable as I am and do not care if you find me attractive.” I met a woman last week in a dance club who is 35 and her short side-swept hairstyle looked beautiful on her the fit her beautiful facial features. I tried to get a date by phone but she said she was not free so I reluctantly crossed her off my list. Last night she called me and said she finished an important project at work so could relax and wanted to know if I wanted to attend a jazz concert Saturday night. Maybe it was the language barrier but I jumped to the conclusion she was not interested. I could not imagine a better hairstyle for her.
Being fot or insanely fIt is HARD
@@patrickstock8568 I am, and yeah, it’s hard. So? Many worthwhile things in life are hard. In th words of Nike, Just Do It! Your body, mind, and sex partner (s) will thank you.
I’ll keep it simple have boundaries be honest be forthright. Have a personal relationship with God and everything will be good.
Lehi Silver I love that!
Allahu Akbar Alhamdulillah. You are blessed. Stay Safe
My grandmother remarried at 56 happily with a younger man they didn’t have sex until their wedding night ! And they were married for 20 plus years
So fucking what! And I know a tall Chinese man.
That’s awesome and encouraging! Thanks for sharing!
Omg ….lol
Or could have loved her. Loads of young guys like older women..
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I want a relationship but you live in your house and me in mine…too much togetherness is overrated.
Hi Leona …..how are you doing …..hope you won’t mind us knowing each other
Totally agree
Damn I thought I was the only one who felt that way. I’m not marrying anyone unless he’s my friend FIRST
@@estherwendy492 Hello Esther. How’re you doing today?
That’s a thing now days, older people need their space
You are awesome!!!
Thank you!
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