6 Simple Steps to Kiss Him Like a Goddess

Want to kiss a man in a way he will NEVER forget (even if it's for the first time)? Watch this video for a simple process you can use to kiss a guy BETTER, no matter how long you've been together.
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How do I kiss him better? How do men like to be kissed? How to turn a man on by kissing? These are questions I hear a LOT from my clients, students and women in my life… so I created a video that shares a simple 6-step process that will make it easy for you to be an amazing kisser with guys.

TIMELINE
0:00 Intro
0:45 Subscribe
1:34 Creating Polarity with Men
3:24 – 1) Invite Him To Initiate The kiss Nonverbally
6:15 – 2) Once He Initiates, Meet Him Where He’s at Then Slow Him Down
7:36 – 3) Build The Intensity of The Kiss With Different Sensations
9:23 – 4) Use Your Body To Deepen The Passion of the Kiss
10:25 – 5) Guide Him To Kiss Your Neck (or anywhere else you like)
12:09 – 6) Kiss All of HIS Hotspots
14:30 – Recap of All 6 Steps
16:46 – Closing Comments

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  • @mariarossi6719 says:

    When the kissing is good, you can be sure the next stage will be pretty great. If not, best not to even think about taking it there!

  • @vardhinir6221 says:

    Starts at 3:28 🙂
    Step 1- invite him to initiative the kiss nonverbally.
    Step 2- once he initiates, meet him where he’s at then slow him down.
    Step 3- Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations.
    Step 4 – use your body to deepen the passion of the kiss.
    Step 5 – Guide him to kiss your neck.
    Step 6- Kiss all of his hotspots

    There you go! Enjoy all of your kisses☺

  • @louannbristol8708 says:

    My man and I are great kissers. He just texted me the other day how much he loves kissing me. Then he followed with this text, “No one can be a great kisser alone. Gotta have compatibility to make it awesome like us!” Here’s the real kicker I’m 65 and he’s 46 and our kissing and love making is ooh la la! Yes, I’m a cougar and damn proud of it!

    • @CrystalDatingCoach says:

      You should be Proud. And why do Older women with young Men have a Label. “cougar” A 60 year old Man with a Girlfriend. 50,40,30 is Perfectly normal. Where there label??

    • @louannbristol8708 says:

      Crystal Dating Coach we talk about that all the time! If he was older and I was the younger one no one would say much about it.

    • @anamesa3824 says:

      ❤❤❤

    • @superfun7380 says:

      LouAnn Bristol Yes Girl!!!!

    • @carmelaaguila3688 says:

      Hi LouAnn. Can I ask you how us women stay lubricated and wet even we are on our 40’s? Please help. Its highly appreciated

  • @amritawhitman8112 says:

    Thanks for doing this video! I just recently discovered the series Outlander (a bit late to the party I know!). I think the points you made here about polarity and male and female energies was beautifully illustrated and played in Claire and Jamie’s relationship. What you talked about here reminded me of their wedding night scenes, where you see them find and explore each other and bond with one another in the process. Interestingly, I read that scene in the book and that level of intimacy and connection is not written, so the actors and production team deserve a lot of credit for creating something very special and not easy to do with a camera crew in the room!

    • @AmalaHolt says:

      I literally watch that again and again! To remember for my next relationship. You can feel the passion, the equal male/female energy and the love and admiration in that scene!!

    • @juliemiller9760 says:

      @@AmalaHolt It was so exciting at first, but then the producers had to put a frantic sex scene in EVERY episode. . .EVEN at their DAUGHTER’S WEDDING! This is pure voyeurism!

    • @mrodriguez8767 says:

      Hi my sister has recommended I watch Outlander too. I am really late to the game but am looking forward to it!

    • @fantasticvoyage2989 says:

      I’ve been totally wanting to check that out, thanks for the reminder! I don’t really watch TV, like at all, but it sounds like it’d be right up my alley! Historical adventure romance? Count me in! Maybe I should check out the books too…

    • @fantasticvoyage2989 says:

      @annpommer52

      Oh, ok, cool, thanks!

  • @rosemilan8390 says:

    Thank you so much Mat for not only giving such good tips but also making learning them so entertaining with your energy

  • @jenniferyu2828 says:

    been single for my whole life never had a relationship never kissed anyone before ain’t got a boy and yet here i am watching kissing advice when i got nobody for me to practice it upon lmaoooo
    anyways it’s always good to learn and be prepared cuz who knows lmaooooooo

  • @heleneb8945 says:

    My best kisses have been when u haven’t thought about what I’m doing, but rather let the moment guide me. Honestly… If I was to be thinking of my next move I wouldn’t be enjoying it…. All my compliments have come when I’ve just felt the moment. If I have to be doing 10 different techniques in one kiss, it becomes all about showing off. My top tip for kissing : have intention behind the kiss. There…. Saved you another video.

    • @garimakilledar5810 says:

      Agreed. When there are real emotions and true attraction from both the partners everything just takes off.

    • @zanderhurtado1985 says:

      Well yeah BUT it’s like everything. Like sales for example, you get the training, the rebuttals etc but once you get in front of the client you let it flow but now you’re equipped and all you learned comes naturally and then the client says how wonderful you are and how excellent and smooth everything went well yeah! That’s because you trained for it and didn’t just go at it. Same here, you get a little training and once you are there you let it flow and then he thinks you’re a Goddess. I’ve been testing some of the tips on such videos like this and OMG the guy I’m seeing now is extremely into me! And I’ve created the tension so much that our first kiss is going to be out of this world!

    • @sheilawaddy3184 says:

      Totally agree

    • @meagant4155 says:

      @Helene B what type of intention? Like I want him to do this to me, or like I wanna explore, or like beyonce put it: to show him u appreciate him
      P.s. ik this was a long time ago

    • @heleneb8945 says:

      @@meagant4155 I mean to have passion behind the kiss. If you really like someone you’ll automatically have intention.

  • @ms.chiefmanaged2858 says:

    Me, being single, working from home, absolutely not a guy in foreseeable future: ohh yeah nice recommendation, this is totally what I need.

  • @hoshie7906 says:

    lmao, I dont know why I pressed on this when I never even had my first kiss 😂😭

  • @janak8552 says:

    I bet… If you get close to a guy’s ear… And you whisper “I want you to kiss me” he’s not gonna think twice… It’s not about what you say ladies it’s about how you deliver it

  • @ruffledfur8415 says:

    But “HELLO SIR, I WOULD LIKE YOU TO KISS ME NOW!” Is how I always initiate

  • @aminahganiyu4599 says:

    Look at me taking notes like I have someone to practice on 😭

  • @Worldgonecrazy2 says:

    The best kisses happen when thinking goes dormant and feeling rules.

  • @RidingAGrizzly says:

    When you’re done kissing his lips, plant a kiss at the corner of his mouth. He won’t be able to resist the urge to kiss you again.

  • @VilteZiginskaite says:

    Am I the only one seeing him as one of the two robbers in home alone movie?:D

  • @psychosocial474 says:

    1. Invite him to initiate the kiss nonverbally: smile and triangle eye gaze; open body language; licking your lips; allow to an akward pause in the conversation
    2. Once he initiates meet him where he s at and slow him down: if he kisses you aggressively, pull back and invite him to come in again, but softer
    3. Build the intensity of the kiss with different sensations

  • @toni2017 says:

    I like the way you explain things! It’s so emotional and clearly 🙂
    And really good to know!!

  • @earcandiee5888 says:

    Kissing is so important. If that doesn’t go well, not much else will. I had a first date with a guy back in 95 and I STILL remember our first kiss. Wow, was like being hit with lightning. We dated awhile but split up as he wanted marriage and kids right away, I didnt. I had to love him enough to let him go find his person.

  • @shannondoyle2694 says:

    My partner was very shy when we first met. I ended up leaning in to kiss him because I could feel his nervousness. He was very happy that I did 😁

  • @TheAttractionTriggers says:

    *Understanding how to kiss passionately is interesting, but let’s not forget that consent, communication, and emotional connection are essential elements of any intimate moment.*

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