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I always enjoy your videos. I usually hear something that causes me to look at myself and my actions. Thank you for doing these.
Much appreciated!
“capacity” … of the majority.
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Yes, your message resonates with me. I just got scammed from a man online, so I am not trusting men now.
There are good men out there…
@JonathonAslay I just found out yesterday so I’m still in the shock and gobsmacked phase. I am hoping in time, I will heal from what he took from me and I will begin to trust that the right man will come into my life. Thank you again. Katherine
If a man wants to pay, let him. I wouldn’t demand that he pay on a first date. The woman can offer to pay next time. I think you are being a tad too hard on the ladies. It’s not black & white. Not all women are the same in this regard.
I always offer to go half on the bill on the first date. [Bring enough cash to do it] If they say no, I say I’ll get the tip. If they say no to that, I drop it and say I’ll pay next time. Let them do it. If they’re a shitty tipper, they don’t get a second date. If theyre rude to the waitstaff, no second date. I don’t date class collaborators. 😅
Thank you for this ❤super helpful 🙏
I think men should pay for everything😂❤
Met a beautiful ❤️ man (he is Turkish like you) and really fell in love , still love him. Recently saw him in December 24 and he told me we did well for getting to year of knowing each other , however as soon as we are apart , he would become closed off. It’s been a relationship of him being hot and cold but I knew he had feelings for me and always wanted me , to the point of telling me I do it for him and he reminisced about how we first met in more recent conversations. But, he recently told me not to ring him again. He closed the door. I respected that. I didn’t call. I was hoping my patience would pay off by giving him space like I have before to show him I love him and I was still there for him. I wanted to move our situationship into a long term relationship which I mentioned on more than one occasion. In fact he knew when we met I’m a Christian and this is what I wanted . I left the door open but this last time, he wanted to close the door. Any advice please would be helpful to know your thoughts?
Mėn can move mountains for women they care about. If at this point you are not in a relationship with him, he doesn’t want you.
@Ugnele I think I wanted to understand why he kept this pattern. He doesn’t want me, you are right. But understanding why helps me to have clarity and learn to avoid this situation again.
You will not get the closure you are looking for. Let him go. Do no contact and close your own doors. You can’t heal and find a better option while he is still in your heart. Dr Phil always says there is only one thing worse than being in a bad relationship and that is staying in it one day longer. Him not wanting you has more to do with him than it does with you.
Keep moving forward. You can’t convince someone to love you. I’m not a shrink but he sounds commitment phobic.
YOU JUST GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU LET HIM GO
You are such a great support, Jonathon! And a very wise guy! 💕🤗🙏
This truly reasonates….hugs
I Genuinely Appreciate You Welcoming Me into Your space and allowing Me to Share!!! God Bless You & Your Family🙏
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My relationship ended out of nowhere, and I’m devastated. I still love him and want him back so badly.
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ve been there it’s heartbreaking. But I found someone who helped me.
Really? Who helped you?
Do you think he could help me?
Absolutely. He’ve helped so many people. He’s very compassionate and gifted.
Like Jonathon says, what did you learn from it? How can you do things differently next time? The hurt is real though. 😢
I love the point that you made about money, Jonathan! Back in the day when somebody was courting you, you went on walks or had tea together or went to the social church picnic. There wasn’t money spending. It’s easy to hide behind money.
Question: How do you get over anger when your husband was murdered?
I can’t even image the pain of such a thing. To answer your question, I believe it takes a tremendous amount of love, healing and prayer.
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I’m not interested in hearing someone’s clarification from some discussion weeks ago. I’d rather hear new questions .