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A lot of times, the romantic connection doesn’t come right away. You have to go through life situations to draw closer to a person.
Agreed, but don’t let her treat you as a pillow whilst only as a friend.
They call that a trauma bond and sunk cost fallacy actually
@@memememememe-x9bin my experience you’re much more likely to end up in a relationship with an acquaintance than with a friend.
Flirting should come natural and not forced.
1. Don’t over explain everything
2. Don’t confuse politeness with attractiveness
3. Don’t be indecisive to be nice
4. Don’t try to win her over with your resume
5. Don’t overthink every single move
6. Don’t use humor as a shield
Thanks for saving me the time brother 👍👍👍I’m skipping the vid as usual 😁😁😁Sorry Courtney! 🤣😆😂😁😅
@@socloseagain4298 Ummmm….duh!
You forgot #7: Don’t forget the power of subtle flirting
“Focus on connecting, instead of impressing”… so true and very wise words Courtney!
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initial days with my girlfriend, when she was discussing something emotional/sad which was important to her, i would like crack jokes not to demean her but just to lighten up the convo, to make her giggle or get her mood up, that’s what guys do with their homies, so i thought she would like it too, but she used to get livid, really angry that i used humour in the middle of a serious chat, so i learnt quickly that me being sincere/serious in a serious convo is expected by my girl and jokes are for the times she’ll be playful, most guys like me don’t know this that jokes are not appreciated by women in a serious convo lol
All of these points boil down to not overthinking, which is something analytical men tend to do. Maybe clueless men have an advantage here.
Absolutely brother when it comes to women u gotta turn ur brain off almost completely and act on instinct alone 😀
This is me lmao…😂 the analytical man. I’m pretty sure that’s why I have so many issues!
Women don’t deserve much of a man’s brain power anyway.
I find that over text I can make some of these mistakes. But when meeting in person It’s just sooooo much easier. I can read her expressions, body language, hear the tone of her voice and react accordingly. And there’s no time to overthink when in a conversation anyway so that problem is gone.
I very recently started dating a person and when texting she was actually super honest with me and just straight up said that sometimes our text conversations gets annoying since it feels like I’m asking too much. And she’s completely right. Over text I was almost interviewing her but in person I don’t have this problem at all. So I am super glad that she gave me the chance to respect her boundaries rather than ghosting me.
You could make the argument that #4, Don’t try to win her over with your resume, is the hardest one on this list. Since it’s mostly girls who are the ones to ultimately decide if this is going to turn into a relationship or not, it would make perfect sense that guys would feel the need to impress her or outperform any other potential partners she’s talking to. But I do agree with her, and perhaps this is an actions speak louder than words thing. Chris Rock has a joke where he says in the first 3 months of dating, you’re not talking to that person, you’re talking to the ambassador of that person. We’re all just trying to put our best foot forward, likely due to a fear of rejection. Courtney’s points here really make me feel like the girl you’re talking to is going to be able to pick up on your vibe no matter what. And that’s kind of a terrifying thought.
Right, it should be a vibe. Sometimes you have to trust that things are going in the right direction and allow them to play out.
Important things:
0:37 First Thing ÷ Don’t Over-explain Yourself;
1:17 Second Thing ÷ Don’t Confuse Politeness With Attraction;
2:01 Third Thing ÷ Don’t Be Indecisive To Be Nice;
2:41 Fourth Thing ÷ Don’t Try To Win Her Over With Your Resume;
3:25 Fifth Thing ÷ Don’t Overthink Every Single Move;
4:11 Sixth Thing ÷ Don’t Use Humor As A Shield;
4:53 Seventh Thing ÷ Don’t Neglect The Power Of Subtle Flirting;
5:46 To summarize all the told here.
What you have told there it’s so true. I agree with you, cause it’s all true.
I can also say that all the told here can be used for women as well, since some of these things women shouldn’t do that. And I don’t say to attack the women, but it happens. Honor exceptions to those women that don’t do these things.
Additional things would of been these things: Eighth Thing ÷ Don’t Play Hot / Cold Games; Ninth Thing ÷ Don’t Try To Lie Person That You Admire.
It’s okay if there are subtle teasing, but it’s not okay that someone is behaving rude. Also it’s not good when someone tells things that they don’t like, and then someone is doing the things that the person don’t like (men and women both do these things). Honor exceptions to those people who aren’t behaving like that. But that’s another topic that we can discuss as well.
Thank you very much Courtney 🤓😎❤💙🤍.
Decades ago when talking to a Nobel Laureate in physics, he asked what I had recently discovered, I told him that telling girls you are a physicist was not a good pick up line. He laughed hard
I would agree. Then again, I had a date with a girl once who agreed to a date that required her to wear a film dosimeter to track the radiation exposure during the date. If she agrees to something like that, you know she’s a keeper.
This sounds like something a physicist would laugh at.
Number one really depends on the guy, to be honest. I’m not a cop, but I look like a cop, I talk like a cop, and I knock on people’s doors like a cop. One time, I got the wrong mail in my mailbox. I did the right thing and walked over to the correct address to deliver it. I knocked on the door like a cop, and then I heard a crash from inside.
Next thing I know, a middle-aged guy—wearing nothing but his underwear—jumps out of a side window and starts running down the road. And he just kept running and running, not looking back. Thing is, he was a slow runner. Not kidding. True story.
Anyway, some people (like me) just have that presence—the kind that makes people STOP and FREEZE! So sometimes, I feel like I have to measure myself first.
Did you go inside the house and finish what he started? If not this story sucks.
@@kingkrimson8771 He actually lived there. That was his home. He thought I was a cop.
Good video, My husband has file for a divorce and moved out of the house. I love him so much and wish to have him back
Loosing someone you love is so difficult and frustrated my husband also file for a divorce about 2months ago and kept silent but i was able to get him back and cancel the divorce with the help of a spiritual counselor
Good to hear you were able to get your love back and how can i get one to help me get my lover back
His name is Father Osoba Salama and he is a great spiritual counselor who can get your ex back
Thank you for this valuable information, I just look him up online with the name and found his website
8) Don’t be ugly
most people may not look outwardly hot, but with good hygiene, grooming, and clothes, they can look more than good enough to be able to talk to women.
I know for a FACT that I’m not a hot guy. But recently a woman still matched with me, because the photos I took of myself looked good and because I put effort into my appearance. You have to work with what you got, the simple truth is that many people don’t and you can make yourself stand out by doing so.
Too many rules & regulations. Way too much effort for little or no reward.
The Humor-as-a-shield-point hit me. Thanks for pointing that out!
*When you give time, energy, and attention before she earns it, you train her to devalue you. Set the tone by being selective, not eager.*
I planned where to go exactly twice. The first one told me she didn’t like the food, and the second one asked me why we went there.
Maybe I’m just not good at it.
Here is number 8, in my opinion is to walk away when you don’t feel appreciated or there just isn’t any compatibility. I have learned throughout my past relationships that you can still do the right thing and it is still going to fail, but the crucial thing is compatibility, things such as connection and chemistry and shared values. I have been in two relationships and I have done some of the mistakes and also done everything right and still one relationship lasted for more than a year while the other lasted 7 months. Unfortunately, what killed those relationships was just incompatibility. The one that lasted a year was dead because she just had no interest in me anymore and ghosted me for two weeks so much so that I had to break up via text. The one of 7 months I ended because it was affecting my mental health as well as it physically manifested in stomach and back pain, all because I was trying to hold together something that just was impossible to uphold because it was so toxic. To cut a very long comment short, don’t be afraid to fail or do mistakes, we’re all human after all, and have self respect first and foremost.
I met someone last night at work, she had a glass of wine and I sat with her to talk. While it went well I wish I saw this video beforehand. Thank you!
The resume…if you have an impressive resume, tuck it away. Remember, you are evaluating her. If she is interested, she will stick around and your resume will eventually come up. If she is not interested in you it won’t come up and you will have dodged a bullet. By tucking away your resume 1) you look humble and grounded, 2) you’ve built some mystery and if she is interested she will hang around to see if there is anything else you may have hidden in your closet, like, “Oh, me? I’m an international pilot for a major airline and I’m off to Paris later tonight.”