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Unexpected Turn-Ons Men Often Miss
Signs You’re Above Average As A Man
What Women ACTUALLY Mean When They Say This
This Turns Women ON (Say This To Her)
Why Women Pull Away (& How To React)
Men Who Make Women Feel THIS Win At Dating
Subtle Shifts That Make Men INSTANTLY More Charismatic
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Her reasons are HERS. Her burden. Not my burden. Not my responsibility. Not my expectation. It’s her reasons so let her bother. Period.
Man, life is way easier when I don’t have to consider all of those stuff and still get rejected.
Notice, Dogs & cats meet these
Are there subtle ways to tell if she’s mean or not because I tend to find that a lot of women I come across are very rude and just flat out mean
Idk man, being rude and flat out mean doesn’t really have any subtlety to it.
Really? That’s odd, to be honest. Nearly all the women I encounter daily are always friendly and warm. Even female joggers who have absolutely no idea who I am wave hi at me with a smile. It’s just strange that I experience the exact polar opposite of what you describe.
See how she treats people that she doesn’t have to treat nice, but does any way. Like waiters, servers, etc.
This isn’t new, but it’s a good indicator.
It’s not you. You’re dealing with a lot of miserable and entitled women today so they feel being rude or cruel to even the SLIGHTEST infraction is totally justified. This is why you see all these gym videos about women freaking out because some guy “approached” them. Uh, that’s how people meet, B.
Honestly guys it all comes down to not worry about women and focus on yourselves. Try to be the best version of yourself that you can be and you’ll have plenty of choice sooner or later.
I would add “…MAY come along sooner or later “. It’s more adept to the current situation
Don’t bother with women, comments on dating channels. Stop lying to.yourselves lol.😂
That’s not always the case but working on yourself is good advice but it certainly doesn’t give any man a free access pass to women. I’m 32 and have never been in a relationship, work full time and are financially stable. I think it’s harder than ever unless you’re a really bad boy type alpha. Controversial but I honestly think you have to be a bit devious and not genuine to get a woman now. I remember opening up to a woman about my life situation not bad and not fantastic and which direction my career was going in and she was gone 😂. Just focus on yourself and forget about women If you have not been successful with them throughout your younger years it’s highly unlikely you will be within the future it’s honestly just normal life now.
Yup
This is not guaranteed either, not remotely.
Those were stellar good suggestions—
I couldn’t agree with you more. A friend of mine who was in the dating coaching world used to say “women would like to be taken on an adventure, but they don’t want to be the adventure…” I think there was a lot of meanings that you could take from it., but one of the main ones was that if you own some of your own personal power and have direction, that alone is very attractive – and necessary in a healthy relationship.
This is sad in a way. It all boils down not how she truly sees you or feels about you, but how “you” makes HER feel about HERSELF. And this factually means, she is still operation (unconsciously) from the ego. There is two way to go about it. 1) you play this game of “illusion”, then what Courtney sais, is 100% true, applicable and “valid”. Or 2) let go fully of the ego. Which 99% is not ready/capable/willing. Then relationship, love, and “attraction” has a totally different meaning. Its on a whole new other level. Uncomparable.
Think in abundance move on quickly there’s plenty and one will like you the way you are
@jdarnellsix That’s easy to say when you haven’t been rejected for 20 years.
Women don’t want to be loved. They don’t want to hear that someone loves them: Instead, they want to feel/believe they are loved, even if this has no basis in fact.
They will fantasize bad behaviors as “He really loves me, he just can’t say it, but I know.” It’s all about her internal fantasy and her feelings, not reality.
I’ve known dozens of women who “felt” like a man loved or wanted her, and he didn’t. Women are driven to operate based on their fantasies.
She won’t choose you because you’re not a Chad
Are you slow? You clicked on this video for a reason. Stop being bitter. Billions of average men find love. Grow up.
@memememememe-x9bYour answer is bitter
I was told up front that I wasn’t Chad many many times. After the initial shock, it showed me what her true self really was
@memememememe-x9bnot in today’s market. Ever tried online dating? It’s abysmal at best. The fault lies with the insane delusion and entitlement of most modern women today.
Ok brutal honesty here, ive been on 30+ new people dates this year and still I am single. My realization is simple: I am not attractive enough. At the end of the day, most women want to be excited to be dating someone above their “league”. Reasons are wealth, healthy babies, trophy husband. If you can’t hit 2/3 you cant hold onto a woman you find highly attractive.
Reasons 1-8: Hypergamy
My experience is that most women say they want a man who openly shares his emotions and how he feels about them, but when you do, they put you in the friend zone and choose a dark misterious troubled man…
The issue here is the error of believing what women say. “What women say they want” and “What women actually respond well to” are never the same. Women are driven to speak, dream, and operate based on their fantasies. They will not reveal those fantasies, even to themselves. They aren’t trying to lie, instead, they are incapable of knowing themselves and knowing what they want. Women lie to each other and teach false messages and ideas of, “You should want this.” That is part of the fantasy too. They can’t admit what they actually want or need.
If she likes you, there’s nothing you can do wrong. If she doesn’t like you, there’s nothing you can do period.
If she likes you, in theory there is nothing you can do wrong… until you then really like her (probably even fall in love with her) and become a desperate, clingy and needy guy that wants to make sure she is pleased to be with you, and to make sure your relationship with her does not fall off.
Trust me when I say that you can still screw it up, even when you think you already got her. Don’t get complacient and definitely do not let your emotions get the best of you.
major facts lol
Absolutely true
👆 THIS
notice that all of this is how SHE perceives you and since women’s perception is based on emotion, most of the time it’s impossible to change that perception – move on and don’t try harder
absolutely, god damn right! COURTNEY try to put all the relationship stuff in logic but women decide and act fully on emotions. and emotions are from today to tomorrow always changing and not trustable. therefore, you will be always on the edge, and can^t do anything about it. harsh but true. ı have written about this in my blog before. for example, you had built a 3-month relationship with a woman, good memories, nice communication, same likes, same world view. then at 3th month, you had an argument or confliction. emotionally your woman will be disconnected. you will say “where we are now,” she, the woman who you shared magnificient times in that 3 month will say, “we are at where ı feel” 🙂 chaotic, unbelievable but totally true! so don’t think too much about these strategies, just enjoy the moment and live your life! what will happen will happen! greetings to all the followers from Turkey:)
11. She’s got her eye on someone else, and it isn’t you. In fact, you’re in the way. But she won’t tell you because she still wants your attention.
Points 1-7 are great for growth and introspection, but point 8 is especially true. Too many times people interpret failure to get a date or keep a relationship going as a failure. When maybe its simply that you aren’t a good fit. It’s not about appealing to everyone, it’s about being your best while looking for that one person to date and ultimately marry.
Exactly! Thanks for watching!
One of the most freeing and liberating mindsets I’ve changed was to stop looking for the opposite sex to approve of me. I used to have the mindset of “what can I do to get her to like me” and was intentionally trying to seek out choosing signals like who made eye contact, noticed me, smiled etc.
I changed it from “I wonder/hope she likes me” to “I wonder if I’ll like HER and I’ll give her a shot to find out by talking to her”.
Stop pedestalizing women
I agree, but you won’t get many likes here, as most of the men are stuck and want to blame others. I will repost a comment I made:
I once heard the problem as “one-itis” (like a disease, like “appendicitis” “arthritis”): the man gets super stuck on one woman, fixated, “no one like her!” and so on. He puts her on a pedestal, day dreams; aka “She is the one!” Stop doing this one thing and lots will change. You can be interested, just don’t make the leap to oneitis. This happens in marriages, where either spouse can’t imagine life without the other.
Detach, move on to better things. LIke anything, if you are not willing to walk away, you’ve lost. This is where the insecurity issues really come up: too afraid to move on.
A women either likes you or she don’t. If she don’t just move on.
I agree with these 8 reasons Courtney however there is another reason that precedes these as to why a man isn’t chosen and that is behavior called “Sustained Inattentional Blindness”. Since many surveys of women ages 18-35 find that about 80% of men are unattractive to them these men are filtered out and, in a sense become invisible to them. I believe that this is the result of them “learning” this from media, online dating, and advertising as to what is attractive and what is not. Until this behavior is changed or unlearned 80% of men, at least in the USA won’t even face these other 8 reasons as to why they weren’t selected because they have become “Invisible”.
Love this one. Especially the concluding point. Introspection is a powerful thing. When we can face and see who we are, that opens up plenty of opportunity for self development and creating your peace.
*She did not choose you because you did not follow Steps 1 and 2.*
*1) You were not attractive*
*2) You were unattractive*