9 Subtle Red Flags In Women Most Men Miss

@benross9174 says:

Good list Courtney; appreciate it being more up to date with the online world.

@Courtney-Alice-Gargani says:

If she doesn’t love you for who you are maybe she’s not right for you.

@Harikejn says:

Important things:
0:36 First Thing ÷ She Seeks Highs Over Stability;
3:03 Second Thing ÷ She’s Obsessed With Public Validation Of The Relationship;
4:18 Third Thing ÷ She’s Hyper-independent And Won’t Let You In;
5:11 Fourth Thing ÷ She Treats You Like A Project, Not A Partner;
6:21 Fifth Thing ÷ She Downplays Your Goals;
7:12 Sixth Thing ÷ She Never Apologizes;
8:02 Seventh Thing ÷ She Expects Emotional Labor;
8:48 Eighth Thing ÷ She’s Chronically Online, But Emotionally Unavailable;
10:11 Ninth Thing ÷ She Weaponizes Therapy Language; and
11:18 To summarize all the told here.
I completely agree that men and women do show those red flags, cause that so true, Courtney. Additional thing could of been Tenth Thing ÷ Using The Told Things In Quite Opposite Direction. I’ll explain it. What I meant is one thing, and I’ll explain it in one example. For example we have one couple talking about problems and issues. Also they talk about boundaries, and what they don’t like. Instead of using it to be for a good and healthy relationship, they use it to humiliate and to also to show disrespect, to the loved one (for example man does something that his wife doesn’t love; or perhaps woman does something that her husband doesn’t love). And these couples do that almost every time, until one of them says this: “Enough if is enough;” and also when some of them leaves subtly that toxic relationship (let’s put it that way). My point here is that whatever you say to that person, he or she will abuse it, and will try to do many things to make you even worse. Partly that can be used for fifth and sixth thing, since those kind of people they also never apologize for the things and deeds that they have done.
Sometimes at Second Thing that you have mentioned Courtney, some people will also show some kind jealousy when they see that we give likes to photos and videos on social media. I understand that it’s not a normal thing to be 24 hours on social media, and I understand that it’s not normal to constantly give likes to too many photos, etc. But, also it’s not normal to constantly check what does someone has given likes on social media. And I agree that privacy is very important, since I never understand thing such as this: “If it wasn’t on social media, then it didn’t happen.” If someone doesn’t want to post things, that’s quite a normal thing since it’s very okay that you have some privacy of your own.
At the sixth thing it can be also things when someone says following things, or perhaps when someone asks what’s the problem, or what they have done bad. And those are:
1. You know well what you have done (and you think what bad things you have done);
2. How dare you ask me these question or questions; and
3. And you dare me to ask what have you done bad.
These three questions are also the red flag as well.
All in all, from the all told here is this: The major red flag is that person is a toxic when doing these bad things, either men or women. And these red flags can be used also in every life situations.
Thank you very much Courtney.