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The things I learned about people never expect anything from anyone. No one owes you anything. I think the one thing people should do without saying any thing is to be respectful to others.
There it is! She said expectation half a dozen times. I thought it was going to come out. Expectation is fueled by greed and arrogance. Those too weak for faith ride the train of expectation. Also, respect is cheap. I can spend $50 on a precise costume and it automatically attracts, what people call respect. The currency of my compatibility is courtesy, mercy and faith.
>brings faith into it like a junkie
lol
Hilarious when women are offended when men use them for seggs. Don’t get attached to men after you have seggs…problem solved.
I want to know what’s she’s doing for her man without him asking for something.
Fr tho. $10 days she magically has a headache every time he wants to get intimate.
turning teddy into a cuck
She is there 😂
Yes, it’d be interesting for CR to talk about her personal life.
Probably not much, lol.
❤😂 *My wife asked me why I spoke so softly in the house.*
I said I was afraid Mark Zuckerberg was listening!
She laughed.
I laughed.
Alexa laughed.
Siri laughed.
What about your phone and smart TV?
You forgot about CIA.
And North Korea
SkyNet laughed too.
Sounds like she is confusing her “thinking” about a topic a dozen times with actually communicating that idea clearly….then getting upset when it doesn’t happen.
She lost me at “You need to communicate your wants and desires.”
Men aren’t allowed to have wants and desires.
Exactly.
Yeah, women actually hate when men open up
@@Ignacio.Morales We all know from experience.
Wait are we fr?? I talk very little with women tho so i dont know@@Ignacio.Morales
oh here we go again, the victim mentality 🙄
“…not everyone is going to love us, in the exact way we want.”
Truer words have never been spoken…. 😥
I would revise that to “NO ONE will love us exactly the way we want.” That’s why we have to be patient and understanding with one another. We’re all broken in our own way, and we are not going to have all our needs met by anyone. And if we look to someone to do that, not only are we making our happiness someone else’s responsibility, but we will suck them dry trying to get out of them what they cannot give us. And in the end, we will both be empty and unhappy.
@@thecaptain3594I agree with ‘no one’, also mostly because ‘every ones’ expectations are significantly formed by fears and fantasies and not just our objective needs. sometimes what we can put words to isn’t quite the real thing that we have more trouble putting words to as so much communication isnt verbal, we have ‘issues’ from the past etc. Especially since men don’t work through talking as much as women do.
As a parent i can kind of relate to this. It is fine to have to ask, people aren’t mind readers as you say, the problem is how many times do you need to ask?
Really depends on
what you’re asking..
how you’re asking…
why you’re asking…
and the true intention behind what your asking about.
Yes, it could be the partner not respecting you
OR
It just may not be important to them in the way it’s impoartant to YOU. (message!)
People tend to hate men becayse we dont love everything they love the way they love it, but we also know that they dont give a damn about what we enjoy…yet we dont get bent out of shape.
We understand you don’t like football and video games, AND THATS OK,
but you think it’s an insult because we dont like sitting +2hrs while you indecisivly try on clothes, spend money we don’t have on stuff we don’t need and complain about menial things..as if WE ARE SUPPOSED TO ENJOY IT.
If your partner truly thinks less of you, then yes, you need to move on (after youve discussed what you wanted and its importance to you, and its imporatance to the relationship).
But if youre just being a Brat, and mad cause you cant get what you want when you want how you want telepathically..then you need to do a deep self assessment.
Your partner, most likely, isn’t a bad person; don’t expect them to care about everything you care about…your job is to balance their weaknesses and ask for help with KINDNESS!!!
YOU ARE A TEAM. ACT LIKE IT, OR…END IT.
As soon as she gets all she wants she will loose interest
*Lose
dropping jewels 💎
🤣
Especially a prenup 😮😅😅
same for men, we (humans) are all like that
She starts out the video with expectations, wants, and desires. The last two are pretty synonymous. At the end, she says she needs to beg for the things she *needs* as a person. Wants, expectations, and needs are completely different things! As an example, she may _want_ or even _expect_ a “good morning” text every day. What she really _needs_ is constant validation within the relationship. Constant validation may not be something any partner can provide. Her _expectations and wants_ outstrip her true _needs_ within the framework of any relationship.
Then, she says, “…a partner that *wants* to do these things.” There is also a difference between wanting to do something and the ability to do something. I want to dunk a basketball, play the guitar at MSG, or sculpt a statue from a giant block of marble. It ain’t happening no matter how much I want to do it.
This doesn’t even need to get to the level of luxury items. Sure, maybe her partner can’t provide the lifestyle even if he wants a raise at work or could magically acquire millions of dollars. As another example of wants vs. abilities, he may _want_ to make her the happiest person on the planet. However, if she comes to the relationship with depression, trauma, or just a low baseline for happiness; there is practically no actions available to make her desire of happiness come to fruition.
As a final example, let’s say playing your favorite song on the piano is one’s greatest desire. Her partner spends two years learning to play just to fulfill her want of being understood by playing her favorite song. If she can’t see the work and growth necessary to accomplish something because she felt the need to ask every week for 100ish weeks, then she is the person who is wrong in this situation.
The problem with such short form complaint content is the audience *never* learns the actions she wants, desires, or expects to be performed to allow her to feel seen, respected, and understood. Most likely, it’s either unreasonable and/or unattainable. Until they bring the receipts with concrete examples, the vast majority of men will not care and more every day continue to not care. This is all before the shoe is on the other foot regarding reciprocity toward her partner.
That video was meaningless without the girl specifying what thing she was asking for. Did she want the dishwasher emptied, or the laundry done, or the lawn mowed? Does she also respect his time? What does she do for him (outside of the bedroom)?
Let’s be honest, we already know the answer to those last two questions amigo.
Women look for any reason to disqualify. Just existing the wrong way is enough. She either enters your frame or she doesn’t. Period.
Only if the man is not her 1st choice.
If he is, she will be willing to do whatever it takes to keep him ( within reason ).
If you’re extremely attractive or above her league then a man can do several things wrong and she will brush them off.
If she just finds you average looking or if you’re on the same level as her then just one bad thing you’re disqualified.
Depends on how attracted she is to that man. The stronger the genuine attraction, the more she’ll do for him.
@@Celi.S.00 Not always. Girls with high body counts may not be immensely attracted to the men.
The nails, the makeup, etc… you’re not a real person, the guy you get isn’t going to be real… the relationship isn’t going to be real
Those nails alone are a red flag in my mind.
@@SKBond-hs7xb No chance she is doing any manual work or chores for sure.
If my mom needs something from my stepdad, she delivers the message very clearly to him. My stepdad happily does it and expresses appreciation for my mom who delivers the message directly and clearly. They have been happily married for 28 years now. Works for them
They’re vampires 🦇
Wouldn’t work in todays world sonny
@@rowen0fstrata Sorry, they live in today’s world.
Sounds like it works great! As long as he does whatever she asks of him in a timely manner. But he’s a stepdad which meant he voluntarily raised another man’s kids so he was already in a subordinate position to begin with.
Crazy how simple it can be, right? Person A wants something, goes up to person B and tells him/her exacly what he/she wants. Person B does it, Person A is thankful for that and Person B is thrilled to be helpful. But no, they have to make it super complicated and just impossible in the long run
Problem is, you have standards and boundaries she badgers until you shift, then, trying to “improve,” you move towards doing things she wants right away and get labeled “nice guy, co-dependent, simp, etc” and left behind. This is why men are done with dating.
If the missus wants me to do something, she tells me in a way that I can understand. If there’s a time constraint she explains why. Then she lets me get on with it in my own way and in my own time. How lucky am I?
Good for y’all. It sounds like two mature adults.
Imagine coming back from a hard day at work and having to listen to this rant
😂
Those are the men who show
Up to work 30 min earlier and stay 30 min longer haha
@@K1asH3r if you were smart, only once.
do you find it odd that woman have all these requests for the man to adhere to, but rarely does the guy ever have any requirements and are at peace with very minimal things? The guy can easily flip it on her and say he doesnt feel respected or loved when she’s always nagging him about things.
They never do any of this stuff for men.
I have laid down many “boundaries” with the lady that I am dating at this time. Not because I am controlling or she is doing something wrong. Rather, I am setting boundaries first and let her be free within those boundaries.
I have already told her of my goals with our relationship, and she knows what to do in order to get to the goal together.
Yep. Don’t be fat, be nice, and don’t be helpless.
Listen up ladies…we’re not out here trying to be your ATM anymore. Bring something to the table besides a pretty smile or most of us are out.
Those nails gave her game away…talk about self absorbed.