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Men love these “ what she really means” videos. 🙄😂
People, in general, are what they DO, not say 🙂
Or more often than not, what they DON’T do.
No one is a bad texter when you literally see them on their phone LOL.
The “I am a bad texter” is one of the lousiest excuses someone could ever come up with because, in general, a person checks their phone several times a day, especially during lunch time
I think that depends on the person. Making small talk through texting is annoying
@@bigz5262 I can understand if someone wants to wait a little bit to thoughtfully respond back because I’m one of those kind of people. Of course, the idea is that one does this in a timely manner, especially if they’re interested. I, for one, do not consider myself to be a heavy texter, and I generally prefer to save all the talk for a date. Any time I’ve texted a woman, it was mainly to ask her out on a date and to coordinate the time/place.
@@bigz5262 Agreed, but it’s still a lousy excuse. The least someone could do is just say they don’t like small talk.
To add to that, they’ll use other excuses that are on the same level. Like “My ADHD prevents me from answering all messages,” to “I’m not good at keeping track,” or “I keep forgetting to answer.”
@@neonnwave1 Those sort of excuses will probably be more of a disservice to them, especially if they are expecting some ounce of sympathy. My philosophy is that if someone is really into a person, then they’re not going to let any insecurities or disabilities slow them down from showing a sense of interest.
0:31 I’m really busy this week
1:00 Let’s just see where this goes
2:12 I’m not talking to anyone else
4:00 I’m not really sure what I want
4:21 I’m a bad texter
5:04 I’m not looking for anything serious
6:19 You’re such a good friend
7:26 Are you like this with everyone?
@koolandblue – I’ve had these two things said to me by two different women…”I like you and all and think your a nice guy, I just don’t feel it” which translates into…”I like you and all, and think your a nice guy, I just don’t love you” and “I don’t see you that way”……mixed in with those, I also had a women get po’d when she found out she couldn’t control me.
Thanx bro
Many of us will agree we are thankful for Courtney, but many of us are still struggling to get dates even though we are following Courtney’s advice. There are other women online like Courtney who admit that there are many great men out there who struggle to get dates or relationships because some women have unrealistic expectations.
You’re too busy asking the fish. Ask the fisherman instead
Something like 10 or 20% of men get 80% of the matches on dating apps. So basically if you’re not a top 20% male then you’re absolutely screwed.
If she says “I have to cancel our date because something came up”, then that’s her way of saying that she is not interested in going out with you anymore, especially if she does not offer to reschedule for another time. I’ve had my fair share of these, and while they’re not fun to deal with, it also gives me a simple reminder that I can find someone who is much better!
@lawrnce31415 – but is there? I’d be asking myself…are there any better? All women are the same.
@@bravesrule384 There are 4 billion women, brother. Don’t be dense.
The idea that women are good communicators is truly ridiculous. Say what you mean and mean what you say and don’t expect us to be f****** mind readers
Gentlemen, if she tells you anything other than yes, assume she means no
Bravo 👏👏. No time for BS. The last thing you want is to catch feelings or running mad trying to figure out meaning between words.
Yep. Do yourself a favor. Take mixed signals as a soft no, and move on.
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How about instead of “reading between the lines” women just say what they mean & mean what they say. The constant subtext & having to try to translate & figure out their bs is maddening. It’s mind boggling to me that women always tout themselves as the better communicators yet 90% of what they’re saying isn’t coming out of their mouth so realistically how good can they truly be. Long past time they evolve & learn to actually be effective communicators.
Women always beat around the bush – they’ve always been that way.
If you want someone direct, you have to date a man.
That’ll never happen. Women just aren’t wired the way men are.
Men and women are different. Even if women “evolve” in the way you mentioned, it will not still not like look like what you describe. Either accept the way the it is or attack the windmill.
The biggest myth I’ve come across in regards to relationships is that women “are natural communicators” or “love communication.” Women love communicating what they DESIRE to communicate.
Many women make their entire conversation style about disavowal. Nearly all of their fiction fantasies prove this.
Important things:
0:30 First Thing ÷ I’m Really Busy This Week;
0:58 Second Thing ÷ Let’s Just See Where Does This Goes;
2:06 Third Thing ÷ I’m Not Talking To Anyone Else;
3:58 Fourth Thing ÷ I’m Not Really Sure What I want Right Now;
4:19 Fifth Thing÷ I’m Bad At Texting;
5:02 Sixth Thing ÷ I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious Right Now;
6:18 Seventh Thing ÷ You’re Such A Good Friend;
7:23 Eighth Thing ÷ Are You Like This Wit Everyone;
8:45 Appropriate answers; and
9:46 to summarize all the told.
Sometimes these things can be a mixed signal, and I can agree with you Courtney. Also I can add that some of these things partly look like an job interview (probably second thing, and maybe seventh thing).
The additional things would of been these: Ninth Thing ÷ Are You Sure That You Really Want To Do That (which can be considered for many things, or are you ready for things); Tenth Thing ÷ I Don’t Think I’m Ready For That Yet (which can be also partly used for first thing); Eleventh Thing ÷ Try To Understand Me; Twelfth Thing ÷ What Do You Consider By Saying That; Thirteenth Thing ÷ Have You Ever Considered Of Trying Something Else Or Something New.
Also I can say that some of this things looks like one thing. And in Balkan peninsula we say this thing: “These things are like a sword with two blades.” Reading between the lines it can be either good, or either bad. And in some better things it can be considered as a reverse psychology (someone has told something, and the other person does something different which is consider to be good). But that is when there are normal and healthy relations.
If a man hears the dreaded “you’re a good friend” type comment, have the self respect to forget her number. She will use you emotionally and maybe even financially without ever giving you anything in return, emotionally or physically. That is so wrong. I’m at a point in my life if a woman can’t just say what she means if you’re dating, time for a new woman. Yes, it’s cynical, but if an adult can’t communicate, don’t play her games or waste your time on her. I’m tired of hearing how women are such great communicaters, but then are incapable of communicating without a translator. Even if Courtney does explain it well in the beginning of her video, it’s still tiresome and stress inducing trying to figure out what she really means 🤷
This girl I met was throwing out all the signs and signals, expressed interest in going out a number of times and gave me her number. I texted her and asked her out. She flaked. I texted her a week later and asked her out again. Radio silence. No response whatsoever. A week later I saw her and she apologized for not responding. I’m not sure what I did, but I took the hint. Not interested.
attention
Or playing the “how much will he chase me ” game
Women suck bro. That’s all there is to it.
Lmao that’s exactly how it went for me too.
Good thing you didn’t waste any more time on her.
“You’re such a good friend.”
– trans. “You will never see me naked.”
When I first read this I said, “of course, Thank God!”, then I realized trans means translation…
I love how Courtney opens by saying this isn’t about manipulating men and then proceeds to list a bunch of incredibly manipulative, deceptive phrases women use to prompt men to act a certain way.
I’ve gotten with a few women that are horrible texters. Baffling how bad they are. But they were. I imagine most men gave up often and threw in the towel. I thought she must not be interested. But I decided to keep at it. Turns out some of them are just horrible at texting, but do follow through on dates and give plenty of attention in person. I mean to be fair, I also used to be a horrible texter for many years. Like very bad. I just didn’t like using it and was bad about getting back to someone. I had to teach myself to be a lot better about it.
The “bad at texting” response is an avoidance of future accountability. Bringing up “no response” will only garner “I told you I wasn’t good at texting.” No one is more busy than someone who is uninterested. With 80000+ seconds in a day and they can’t spare you 40 of them. Saying nothing….says it all.
Any woman who say ‘I feel so safe with you’, has just friend zoned you.
the only appropriate response to any of these 8 things is ghosting. silence, absence & indifference are the only things that move a woman.
So incredibly helpfu. Melissa is worth waiting on. Thank you.