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  • @CourtneyRyan says:

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  • @jtfritz9169 says:

    Thank you for not being mean, Courtney

  • @PRdude says:

    I don’t have a problem with showing emotion. I just save that for people who won’t judge or trivialize my feelings.

    • @jhamilton1007 says:

      Women say they want a man who is in touch with his emotions, but then when a man shows his emotions women become disgusted by it. Always go by what women do and not by what women say.

    • @Alex06CoSonic says:

      @@jhamilton1007 Start rejecting women who judge or trivialize your feelings and learn to communicate those feelings in a healthy way.

    • @SanVic says:

      @@Alex06CoSonic Pretty sure most of the men commenting on this video already have.

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani says:

    Trying too hard can be unattractive.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      For sure

    • @Trancymind says:

      But humiliating a guy in front of his bosses by calling him a ‘drama queen’ as a joke is also very very unattractive on a different level.

    • @midnightrambler8866 says:

      But don’t you dare try too little

    • @wildhenrygunner3402 says:

      I’m fairly ambitious in other areas, gym, work, finances, business ect. Seems most areas in life you have try hard to get anywhere in. I always put that same energy into dating which usually leads trying to hard

    • @SandTguy says:

      It’s damned if we do damned if we don’t. Females are never happy and it’s always our fault. Go your own way man leave these females alone. You’ll live a lot longer.

  • @ajtaylor8750 says:

    There is a way to be a normal guy without blending in with every other guy. I’d argue some guys also don’t want to attract attention to themselves, thus leading them to not attempt to stand out in any way. There’s nothing wrong with being noticed, especially at a time where most people are trying either too hard to be noticed or hiding themselves from the world.

    • @funkfarmer7125 says:

      I work hard to make sure modern women stay FARRRRR away from me. I don’t even let them on my property.

  • @davelightsaber1621 says:

    Lol…All these rules. while they change absolutely nothing About themselves .

  • @Harikejn says:

    Important things:
    0:26 First Thing ÷ You’ve Settled Into A Normal That Isn’t Attractive;
    2:52 Second Thing ÷ You Project Passive Energy;
    3:53 Third Thing ÷ You’re Emotionally One-Dimensional;
    5:02 Fourth Thing ÷ You’re Focused On Earning Approval;
    6:14 Fifth Thing ÷ You Talk More Than You Listen;
    7:36 Sixth Thing ÷ You Avoid Or Misread The Tension;
    8:35 Seventh Thing ÷ Your Life Feels Like It’s On Hold; and
    9:52 To summarize all the told here.
    Some of these things that you have told there Courtney, I think that can also be appled to women as well. I think that all became visible during the growing up, also what kind of mindsets we all had, and also how we developed. Taking care for ourselves is a crucial thing, and I can’t deny that. And what you have told I can agree with fourth, sixth, and with seventh thing. And I’ll explain in one example. For example one man sees a woman in either pub, barroom, disco, gym, or at hobby shows, etc. And he notices that the woman is with her friends. And they do the eye contact. Then guy decides to go to woman, and to give it a try. But when he arrives to woman, and he starts introducing to woman, she and her friends suddenly start smiling and giggling. Man when he sees this he understands that as a rejection, and he leaves the conversation. Here is problem that he has bad mindset, and he understood it that he was thinking that he has to earn the approval. This approval is like a job interview, and that is wrong thing and also wrong way to think. Why? Because dating or going out on gym, hobbies, etc. is different that going to work. And those are major two differences.
    Also, what you have told Courtney, I can add that men, should not also behave like one cartoon character such as Johnny Bravo. Why? Because that character has muscles, but has no lack of empathy, he doesn’t understand people, he has very little friends, he doesn’t listen to people, and has very poor social skills (lack of communications, lack of knowledge, etc.). Probably there are more things about the cartoon character such as Johnny Bravo. But yet again there are women who accepts that behavior such as Johnny Bravo. Honor exceptions to those men and women who do not behave like that.
    From all the told here, there is one conclusion to be told here. And that is one quote. It goes like this: ” If you attend to change the world, you have to firstly change yourself.”
    Thank you very much for your enlightenment (enlightenment in Balkan peninsula means wisdom) that you share with us, Courtney ❤💙🤍.

    • @pace1195 says:

      What if one doesn’t want to change the world, but instead, he wants to raise his current life with the love of a woman who won’t disrespect, leave, or destroy his life? What does one change then? It seems both wants equate to the same necessary changes.

    • @JohnM... says:

      I do none of these, and females see me as a leper….explain that one.

    • @Harikejn says:

      @@pace1195 The question is very interesting. I do have to say that it doesn’t changes anything. It only shows that the person is not interested in living the life of his or her own (since it goes to men and women). They need changes, like you have told. But if the people don’t want to change, or if they don’t have desire to make the changes for themselves, then it’s no use, since they need wills and desire to do those changes.
      Of course, everyone has rights to live life how they want, and how they desire.

    • @radthibidaeux8229 says:

      Didn’t read the blah blah blah, paragraphs are your friend. Find your peace, alone, FIRST. Once you have that, you no longer “need” a woman, and they HATE that, and thus will come running to wreck your peace. Don’t let them.

    • @Harikejn says:

      @@radthibidaeux8229 Let me just say following things here.
      Firstly, you didn’t have to say that is blah, blah. Cause this way you show no respect towards me, and even perhaps to others that are reading this text.
      Secondly, finding your peace is also considered as changing yourself. It can happen that during that process of finding your peace that you will meet some new people, perhaps your new friends, and perhaps a perfect soulmate. That way is shown to people that they value themselves and they don’t confirmation from others. They just accept them for who they are with all the faults and virtues that they posses.

      Thirdly finding your perfect soulmate will happen spontaneously, and suddenly (in a positive way I mean). You only just learn and avoid bad people, once you discover new people.

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  • @computerrefurbishment9748 says:

    A lot of complicated hoops to jump through. Her favourite actor/sportsman/musician (they all have one) would not have these hoops.

  • @matthewklein660 says:

    I feel like I have been following this advice and the problem is that I’m not really good looking and wealthy.

    • @mattrobison9974 says:

      I feel that, man, hang in there.

    • @michaelblazin4093 says:

      These tips are good for getting noticed. You will appear on her visual radar screen. Then you get that infamous five second scan. If you go not have the looks including height, you get filed away. Getting noticed got you a shot.

      Still the tips are good for the 95 percent of your life that does not revolve around getting a girlfriend. You can do so much more with your life. If getting a girlfriend is your primary goal as a man, unfortunately, in most cases, you set yourself up for disappointment.

    • @chrisvanbuggenum871 says:

      Probably man, you’re not alone. Keep your chin up.

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    • @barrymccaulkiner7092 says:

      Looking at the handsome:wealthy matrix. I’ve been in the *no go* zone when it comes to women. I am neither wealthy nor handsome.

  • @zhaoyun3153 says:

    There is nothing wrong with letting a woman take the initiative sometimes. I think that a man can know what he wants and isn’t afraid to take action while also caring for what a woman wants, and wanting to see her take charge now and then. I think that it is fine for both a man and a woman in a relationship to take the initiative on different activities and conversations. Its a part of the give and take dynamic.

  • @boristagesson967 says:

    I suggest all women to get a parrot. It listens, it remembers what you say and echoes it back and it doesn’t need a skincare routine.

  • @johngonzalez4298 says:

    If a woman is not interested in me, I move forward

  • @erikc3057 says:

    50 years on this earth and I figured out that women want only two things: More and Something Else
    Men, just pursue excellence and meaning in your lives and good things (and good women) will follow.

  • @jasons6021 says:

    Being single is extremely peaceful. I’m ok with every woman overlooking me!

    • @TheAsureDark says:

      You my friend, are lucky. A rare mind indeed to not seek companionship. I hope its really true and not a cope. If it is a wall, I hope someday someone gives you a reason to break them down, god bless.

    • @danjoredd says:

      Why click the video then?

    • @michaeljjt1976 says:

      @@danjoredd Because they need to spread their message and get external validation that their lonely lives are the “right” path

    • @SanVic says:

      @@danjoredd And I’m sure if we saw your browser history we could shove the same question down your throat, hypocrite.

    • @Jidenza says:

      No you’re not

  • @danwison6058 says:

    Waiting for permission to exist is a very accurate statement

  • @alanlee8590 says:

    For me, it’s what I do: always stay hygienic, work out and don’t let myself just go, make sure I smell good before I go out, wear tidy clothes, be polite to everyone, and always put away my phone when walking with my head held high. Lastly, unapologetically be myself and never try to please anyone, and I m done. I don’t care if all these make me attractive to women or not, because I put in these efforts for myself, not to get girls

  • @As_gaming95 says:

    crazy how no one here is mentioning break her bed by jake black… that book changed everything for me

  • @lizbethhowington says:

    This video surely brings painful memories, it might be unrelated but videos like this, makes me think of him more and more, you can call me a simp but i love my boyfriend so much and he is the love of my life

    • @AndreAlbritton says:

      What happened between you two? It is sad when we loose our loved ones, sometimes it is worth fighting for, sometimes it’s not. I had similar issue a couple of months ago, My wife left me, but i never relented, i did everything humanly possible to get her back, so if you feel he worth it, i can refer you to a powerful spiritual counselor

    • @lizbethhowington says:

      Thank you for your kind words of encouragement, pls who is the spiritual counsellor you used? i think i could need some help to get my love back

    • @AndreAlbritton says:

      Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

    • @lizbethhowington says:

      Thank you, i will see to it and see how it goes for me, i found her page on google by making a research with her name, you have giving me new hope and trust me, if this workout, i would definitely come back here to share my story

  • @stanleymartins-o3s says:

    Thank you for this video, though it brings up painful memories. At first i was with an abusive and narc wife for 10 years of my life, then i left when i couldn’t bear it any longer, bear in mind i only stayed that long because of our kids. After two years of being single, i met the love of my life, and we had a fantastic first 5 months, then my PTSD kicked in and I did a lot of things i am not proud of because i wasn’t properly healed. and she left me. I think of her everyday I realize now and i feel so empty and lonely inside. I love her so much

    • @nickjee says:

      I am terribly sorry to hear this, and trust me, i know exactly what you are going through, loosing someone you love is always tough, i have been there, and it wasn’t easy, but i did all i could to get her back, so I watched a lot of you tube videos especially coach Corey Wayne, Matthew Hussey and Doctor Ramani. I also used the services of a spiritual guide as well.

    • @stanleymartins-o3s says:

      Really? how did you get a spiritual guide, and how do I reach him or her?.

    • @nickjee says:

      Her name is Shelly renee white and she is an excellent spiritual guide.

    • @stanleymartins-o3s says:

      Thank you for this information, i just looked her up now online found her website. Amazing

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