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Unexpected Turn-Ons Men Often Miss
Signs You’re Above Average As A Man
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Why Women Pull Away (& How To React)
Men Who Make Women Feel THIS Win At Dating
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🤔🤔 *My ex wife just texted me, “Wish you were here”*
She does this every time she passes by a cemetery
*My girlfriend said to me “Are you even listening to me?!”*
Strange way to start a conversation.
I feel like this is one of those beautifully subtle Norm Macdonald jokes. lol
*First woman on the Moon:*
“Houston, we have a problem.”
What?
“Never mind”
What’s the problem?
“Nothing”
Please tell us?
“You know what the problem is.”
Lmfao 😂
“If you cared about me, you wouldn’t have to ask.”
You won’t get it
“The previous communicator I was with knew before I even had to ask.”
@@karuns9500 *I almost had a psychic girlfriend,* ….. *But she left me before we met.*
Between being nice and being not nice, being not nice wins every time. Once you get called nice guy enough times, you understand.
true they either cut you off for being not nice but some try to win u,
Yeah, these women don’t want “nice;” they want balance.
There are lots of guys that will ask a million questions, but those men are less masculine.
Women want masculine men with an understanding of women.
If men behave like women, then the women lose all attraction. Balance is the key, but women don’t ask for balance – they pull, and you have to find balance on your own.
It’s because you’re nice, not kind. Women can sense that real fast.
That’s just sounds like red pill garbage lmao yikes
@@abigailowens4290 and thats why women allways fall for the bad guys, because they are kind^^
I think that conclusion is somewhat incorrect. That’s just how men talk to each other. I don’t even ask my best friend follow-up questions. The inherent assumption is that if there is something important that I need to know, he’ll tell me. And anything else I’ll figure out as I go If and when becomes necessary.
Also, the reason that we talk to women differently is because there’s really not any circumstance where you’re trying to manufacturer an unnecessary personal conversation with a guy tou don’t know.
Exactly. If it’s not told to me directly, it’s none of my business
@@Juliangeno lol I went through this sooooo many times w/ my ex. She was mad I didn’t invite myself to her mother’s thing. I’m thinking “If she wants me to go she will ask. It’s rude of me to invite myself to something”
These same women will then complain when a guy asks them too many questions and say “The date felt like an interview”
No SOME women would and those are the ones you avoid 😀
Women don’t know what they want lol
Is tiktok mysandry. Complete double standards. Why are we the ones who need to carry conversations. Stop playing games
well, asking too many questions so it feels like an interview is a problem, too. There’s a give and take.
But that can happen. It’s possible to ask too many questions and make it feel like an interview… It’s not easy to know the right balance, but common sense should tell you whether you’re asking too much or too little.
I’m so glad that you pointed out that there are some women who also make these mistakes. Lately, I’ve encountered some women who did not know how to actively engage in a genuine conversation. I kid you not, they did not even ask any follow-up questions.
Hi Courtney! This definitely applies to both men and women. People need to put the phone down more, and talk to people out there
Agreed!
@@CourtneyRyanyou realise it’s almost ALWAYS the case that us guys have to carry the conversation for WEEKS with only yes no answers? The problem you’re pointing out is 99 percent the OTHER direction. And it’s the experience of the majority of guys on your comments. The fact you even bother addressing the female side shows you don’t realise men almost entirely carrying most conversations on dating apps with very little effort from the women.
Yes, but the target audience is men trying to court women.
When I used to be on the dating apps I had women do the same thing to me. I would say 99% of the women would never ask me a question, they would only respond to my question.
This!
💯 my experience
This is ALMOST ALL of us. Sit there getting yes no answers and carrying a conversation fir WEEKS to be told YOU ARE the boring one
That’s correct women ask very few questions online. They expect men to be a performing monkey. Maybe because they get so many messages from men although eventually some realize that 99% they wouldn’t date anyways. I know when I’ve met the right woman we click and laugh and meet half way. It’s not all in me.
That’s because 4s think they’re 9s and don’t need to show any interest. I was actually going out with a girl for a MONTH before it dawned on me she’s damn near never asked me anything about me. Narcissist to the core.
In male culture, asking another man where he is going is invasive. So, men don’t do that.
Women need that, though, and most men don’t know that women are different. They are very confused.
I like what you said about “rather than focus to impress, focus on connecting.”
Look at her eyes to see if she is DISINTERESTED. If so, dont even bother with her. There are plenty of nice friendly ladies who know how to make you feel comfortable.
Oh yes, Mr. R.
That’s what we’re looking for here.
We’ve gone from “dating is becoming too much like an interview.” to “men aren’t asking any questions”…. Got it.
You can’t never win huh..
Honestly I am the guy who never had a problem meeting women, and getting a date, which was very nice.. But knowing how to carry a conservation was key in getting to know the love of my life.. Courtney is right, she has got your back.. Thank you 😊
Women never engage, i have the complete opposite experience. I am always the one to carry the conversation and then i realize i am wasting my time.
You’re not alone in that category.
Because it was just a free meal to her.
Your point of focusing on being in the moment and treating it like there’s always something to learn from a conversation is a great mindset. I’ve never actually thought about it in this way. As someone who struggles with irl conversation and I notice the most fun conversations I have had are when I was focusing on what I can learn from them over trying to earn approval.
I’ve noticed this is true of people in general. No one seems to be able to ask questions about the person they’re talking to. Why is that?
The sheer volume of unstated expectations that women have that I’m supposed to just magically know is psychologically exhausting.
It’s one of the reasons why I’ve given up on dating and now enjoying my peace and quiet!
Steps that helped me get more confident with girls:
– I started talking to girls in real life
– I joined a martial arts gym
– I changed my clothes and looked better
– I started nofap and focused on friends and work
– And I read the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish
That book really helped me think differently.
Ai bot recommending the same book in all of it’s comments 😂
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“They just have to be pretty and show up” Was about to mention double standard until “Men and women definitely have room to grow” – Thank you for being equal/realistic about this. It really depends on the individual. I think everyone’s struggling right now on so many levels. Quarantine messed people up, gender/sexual/identity politics and internet echo chambers have messed people up, etc. I don’t think it’s just one example versus another. Location plays a part, too, as does age/experience. We’ve all kinda forgotten to just talk and engage instead of being trapped in our own heads, imprisoned by fear. Stay awesome, Mrs. Ryan.