6 Things Men Should STOP & START Doing By Age 30

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  • @93ksj says:

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  • @ajtaylor8750 says:

    As a 30 year old man, I approve of this message. Keeping promises you make to yourself just makes you feel like a much better person, especially if you’ve been struggling to love yourself.

  • @Dr-Alexander-The-Great says:

    You know what I hate, when restaurants close due to short staff. Just hire taller people.

    I hope one isn’t to stop telling jokes😊

  • @lawrence31415 says:

    “At twenty years of age the will reigns; at thirty, the wit; and at forty, the judgement” – Ben Franklin

    • @albundy7794 says:

      Wow, Ben Franklin, you’re really kind of a sleazebag.

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  • @PRdude says:

    I don’t drink, and I’ve never smoked weed, and I have this friend who’s just dying for me to smoke weed with him. I’d expect this from friends in high school, but we’re grown men now. Come on now.

    • @jackgude3969 says:

      This comment makes me think of people that are “too grown” to read fiction. Ofc he should respect your wishes if that’s the issue, but maybe your friend just wants to do something slightly childish and super fun with his buddy.

  • @Moshm4n says:

    I’ve never been a regular drinker because I’ve seen second-hand how alcohol can ruin otherwise good people. It’s strange how ubiquitous its acceptance is to the point that sometimes you’ll be shamed for being a prude if you’re not available to get drunk.

    • @powersportsenthusiast1986 says:

      i was never drunk and never cared to fit in. i don’t do anything on the basis of how popular it is. does that keep me lonely? yep, but i’d rather be alone than around the wrong people.

    • @snorgonofborkkad says:

      The recovery community talks about this a lot. It is very weird that it is so normal.

  • @douglaspearson4853 says:

    Confidence: Know who you are, and don’t care. If you are going to talk to a woman don”t care if you don’t get anywhere. Getting turned down is a learning experince. Keep trying the more you talk to the more relexed you become. Be yourself. If you go up to a lady and you are nervous. She will detect it and you will lose right away, You can get confidence by hanging out with ladies who know you and you can feel relaxed around. Also you are never more attractive to women than when you are with a lady, Women do watch other women. One thing that works for me is: Say something stupid to get a smile or a laugh. Its a great way to break ice. If she dose not even crack a smile move on. If she dose you are off to a good start. Also when its not working, make it your idea to leave. Make her feel like its you rejecting her. Don’t give her the power of rejecting you even if thats what is happening.

    • @douglaspearson4853 says:

      I wanted to add it can back fire if you say something off collor, keep it clean. Maybe tell an old joke but give a different puchline it will throw them off balence has worked for me.

    • @danjenkins21 says:

      From my experience, being myself hasn’t gotten me anywhere. So, what could be wrong?

  • @Splodge542 says:

    She is right . If you don’t have a big sister, listen to Courtney. Hear what she says.

  • @joseluque4094 says:

    It’s been almost thirty years since I have been thirty and you’re totally right. But to do the right for us and everyone else is a daily work in progress for life, you can’t never give up.

  • @Harikejn says:

    Important thing: 0:31 First Thing ÷ Stop Breaking The Promises That You Make To Yourself; 2:27 Second Thing ÷ Start Implementing A Health Routine; 5:57 Third Thing ÷ Stop Being Stuck In Victimhood; 7:45 Fourth Thing ÷ Start Paying Attention To Red Flags And Incompatibility; 9:06 Fifth Thing ÷ Stop Relying On Alcohol; 11:07 Sixth Thing ÷ Start Understanding The Impact Of Your Circle, and 12:29 to summarize all the told here.
    What should you / we do: 1:04 First Thing ÷ Keep The Promises That You Make To Yourself; 3:07 Second Thing ÷ Ensuring That You Have The Basics In Order; 8:48 Don’t Date Or Marry Person That Isn’t Ready For Changes;.
    You are so correct about the things what you have told there Courtney.
    Additional things would of been these: Seventh Thing ÷ Stop Relying On Cigars Or Non-healthy Food; Eight Thing ÷ Stop Scrolling Down Social Media’s On Either Phone Or Computer Whole Time (but this routine can be also used just like watching too much Netflix like you have told there).
    I also don’t like to drink alcohol, since I avoided hanging around with my so called classmates in secondary school. And then I decided to go to hang out with others that can accept me for who am I. And I also don’t regret about that decision, since those so called classmates then told this about: “Look at him. He doesn’t really care (meaning as in Hollywood series and movies they say: He doesn’t give a sh***t). He does not care that some countries are landlocked. Why am I not like him?” And then I replied to him this: “Who prevents you from being like me?” And when I told him that, he suddenly became quiet.
    Yes, we would like sometimes that we could of been told some things a bit earlier. But we are all generals after a battle.
    From all the told here, we can summarize the whole thing to one this. And it goes like this: “Help yourself to understand yourself.” What I meant to say is that you should be supportive to yourself, since all of those things do come from ourselves.
    In Balkan peninsula we say one thing: “The one person that helps itself, even the mighty God will help that person as well.”

  • @koolandblue says:

    0:32 Stop breaking promises to yourself
    2:30 Start implementing a health routine
    4:01 Tiege Hanley Sponsor ad
    6:00 Stop being stuck in victimhood
    7:48 Start paying attention to red flags and incompatibility
    9:08 Stop relying on alcohol
    11:11 Start understanding the impact of your circle

  • @iamraya says:

    I just turned 33 a couple of days ago, I was weighed the most on January 1st 2023… at 224.6lbs and started 2024 at 209lbs and made it my mission to lose weight. As of this morning I weighed in at 175.8lbs, only down side (not really) is that I had to buy all new clothes and donate all of my old clothes.

  • @rebelandboltman says:

    Quitting alcohol is the best decision I’ve ever made. I have my mental clarity back, and I sleep better 😊

  • @alwaysemployed656 says:

    Good list, but I would like to add more!

    7. Stop being negative. Complaining about everything makes you come across as a childish moron, someone even dogs would avoid.

    8. Not everything is about you. Resist the urge to leave your mark on every aspect of the universe. Learn to understand and embrace your role in life. If something seems far beyond your natural abilities, it’s best not to interfere with it.

  • @TheSaiyanKing says:

    5:59 Courtney just called out 90% of her viewers lol

  • @RafaelW8 says:

    Just turned 36. I’m doing all the things listed in this video. Made me feel like i’m on the right path!

  • @NYKgjl10 says:

    As the late great Lucille Ball would say “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line”. I believe that quote till this day and victimhood is not only lack of responsibility but can lead a dark path in life.

  • @angelgustavoulloagalvez3366 says:

    Amazing advices here, Courtney! I’m 34 myself and I’m on a personal healing journey. It is never too late to start over and to start taking care of the things that really matter. Taking care of yourself allows you to take care of others around you.

  • @MrMarc315 says:

    I’m 30 years old and I learned to love myself better than ever and I’m still working on my dreams

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