Top 10 Mistakes Men Make in a Divorce (And How to Avoid Them!)
This video discusses the many mistakes that men typically make in a divorce, and how to avoid them. Thing such as moving out of the house, not filing first, choosing the wrong attorney , just to name a few.
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I think I chose the wrong one. Don’t feel as I am getting any advice I should be or any recommendations on what to do. I have to thank you sir and alot of your videos which has helped me. Second divorce lawyer, just never had a clue on what to do or how to go about any of this. Thank you again for your help
Great channel, do you have any recommendations on a attorney in las vegas?
No, I’m sorry I do not know anyone there. You could try the webstie aaml.org and do a search by state and city
Please can I get an attorney in North Carolima?
Mistake 0: Getting married as a man.
😂 or as a woman. I was the bread winner in the household.
@@Itallaboutwatithink
But you, as a woman, have the courts on your side.
@@Itallaboutwatithink You also have the benefit of being able to have people buy or do stuff for you just because. As a guy, if I have nothing and I died tomorrow, no one would fucking care
😅
@@GLVSCOWRight on.
This is great information
number one mistake man does is get married in the first place..
Boom! Took my comment! 😂
Bingo, I’m working on a video on my channel now about why marriage is not an option for men and western culture right now. Good luck to you.
You said it
Ha..truth!
Very helpful information.
#1 huge mistake is getting married with a poison snake and having children that is a huge mistake 🥵🥵🥵
It can be tough as hell being a single dad… I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it may help you…just to share stories. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
I’d be rather a single dad than get ripped through the divorce procedure.
I thought marrying somebody who was non American would be a better approach. But as it has come to see me from talking with somebody who knows a lot of people who married women overseas is that they have no concept of financial responsibility, investing or saving money.
My wife is a financial nightmare. Now I’m just trying to exit this as best. I can before she sits down for coffee with all of her friends from the same country and put bad things into her brain. I told myself to get a pre optional but I didn’t and now I regret it.
Slavic woman by chance?
Yikes, I’m sorry to hear about your story. I’m working on a video now with a similar topic on my channel. Stay strong through this.
Never bring them back to USA
She did most you said men shouldn’t do so thank you I will add these to my journal of information
I’m a few months into the process. Just watching this now. Thankfully I’ve avoided all 10 of these. Nice video. Thanks.
Good luck to you brother. I’m making a comprehensive divorce video on my channel now sharing my own experience if you think it’ll help you 🤝
You’re lucky.
I love my son to death, but I wish I had given more thought to marriage before going through with it.
Appreciated.
Worth watching.
There is only one mistake men make, and that is getting married in the first place.
I been married for 3-5 months. I finally got fed up with her tell me things like I never should have married you. Mentally draining me. Blaming me for all the problems she keeps causing deflecting saying it me. Pick and pick until she gets a rise out of me. Try to have a conversation where when I finally try to talk and she cut me off and tell me what I’m about to say. Manipulate the conversation. So today we decided to break and get a divorce. Now she is filling say I’m abandoning her on the paperwork. How do I go about this? No kids/property or bills together.
Bro you file a case of mental and verbal abuse on your spouse
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn…….!
Get annulment asap
I’m in the same situation brother. Together for 6 years, Married for 4 and now it has came to an end. I’m an Army Vet and has sacraficed alot for her and my 4 year old daughter. She financed a cosmetic surgery with my Social Security, left me in Bad Credit debt, left my Car damaged with a failed transmission running it on no Coolant, and now leaving with my 4 year old daughter back to her Father’s home.
Similar things going on here, except it’s my husband who’s abusive like that.
Hello sir do you work in Michigan,I like your knowledge.i looking a attorney for my son s divorce thank
Great video, thank you
yes, I’ve already done 2-3 of these things mentioned. (canceling cell phone plan)
To your #1 moving out: I didn’t want to move out and leave behind my kids, it was easy for her to have removed by filing a restraining order by only saying that she’s afraid of me. Then she just kept renewing them year after year, after she saw how easy it was to lie and win, she started adding new lies to block my visitations, I was completely bankrupted for having to go to court at least once a month every time for some new accusation. The mistake I made was that I met a nicer, prettier, high class, well to do woman and she got jealous even though she was the one filing for divorce. I was unable to marry my new girlfriend because she threatened us to go after us both. I had to wait until the girls finished college to get remarried again(we lived in MA, child support lasts until kids finish college). I agree with the comment below: don’t get married is the best solution, I understand you earn livings from divorces, so that’s not something you’ll be recommending.
Back in the 1970s in the days before social media I arrived home from work one evening and my wife with our 2 kids had gone.
I discovered she went to her parents home.
She absolutely refused contact with me and within 7 days I received a lawyers letter she had filed for divorce meaning my wife must have secretly filed for divorce before she left me.
I was 29 years old and never had a clue about lawyers. I ended up hiring 3 different lawyers and each one told me I`m screwed.
In the end I decided to defend myself.
It transpired she did have a secret boyfriend that I discovered after the divorce was finalised, I was ordered out the house and stung paying child support.
Not so cut and dry as this guy is saying in the video.
#2 about filing first really isn’t true in most No Fault and 50/50 states. My lawyer is the opposite, he preferred that my wife files first so we can see her demands and can play defense. I think this is the best strategy in Missouri – which is a no fault state.
Ohio as well.