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When your bills are more than what you make. It’s time to stop dating.
lmao
People spend their 20s dating/reproducing, before sorting out their income and career…end somehow wonder why they’re broke in their 30s. It’s sad.
@@memememememe-x9bnot blaming anyone but myself, but most women in their 20s and even early 30s free ride in dating.. I spent and spent on wrong girls.
But finding a partner and living together can reduce living costs.
Don’t worry, one bad experience and 50% of men are already done with dating.
Sad but true
And then proceed to take it out on ALL women
Yep, one bad experience and 50 % of men won’t put their hand on the stove again
That’s not even what’s happening. It’s nothing but horrible experiences over and over.
Tbh I see it more of women not having an issue with being on a dudes roster. Then expect more from you then her ex. Tie that with she probably had/has Fwbs or hookups etc. Then based on age it’s rush timeline because of the “traditional” steps coming back. Better for both just to admit the whole husband/wife thing isn’t worth it just find someone whose into you enough to have kids with and if you separate you separate. Its normal to get divorce and or have kids out of wedlock now.
You forgot being married. I realized it was time to stop dating when I got married.
😂my man! Lmao
Wait you stopped?!
Never stop dating your wife.
I’m in my late 30s and have never come close to having a girlfriend. I gave up on dating around four years ago, but there was no definitive reason that made me say, “I quit.” I just stopped. In hindsight, perhaps it was simply due to exhaustion, but I eventually realized I spent my whole life trying to win at a game that was never designed for me in the first place.
I’m on the same boat at 41. I’ve never managed to find a long-term partner despite wanting one, with my best years having been wasted by liars and users.
Sadly, not everyone is destined for real love.
“Dating feels like a chore”
Sorry ladies, you’ve made it a universally miserable experience. You make men feel more alone than if they were actually alone.
Stop?
How can I stop something I’ve never even done before?
All my life, I thought I belonged to the worst category – ugly, short, insecure, and inexperienced. Every piece of advice I got was just empty words that never helped. I was convinced I’d stay single forever. But then I accidentally discovered the book Her Trigger Code and, out of desperation, decided to read it. It literally changed my life – I learned techniques that truly attract women and finally became the guy who gets dates.
If you’re a guy and people aren’t showering you with praise at what a giant success you are, don’t bother.
Couples used to build things together, now women expect a man to already be successful/extremely fit to be even given the time of day.
I haven’t dated in over 5 years. I’m a decent looking guy with plenty to offer but mentally I’m just not there. Sometimes I think maybe it’s time but I know I would want to end the relationship before it even got going. Once I get past those fun little nights out that are the first few date and have to actually start that real relationship process I just check out. I know I’m wasting my time and the other person’s time so I just don’t do anything at all.
Seems you’re tired and trying to self sabotage
Dont date till you’re well established, out of debt, physically fit and mentally mature. It’ll be a waste of your time cause she’ll see through any facade and leave you.
Important things: 0:43 First Thing ÷ Life Feels Unstable Or Overwhelming; 1:49 Second Thing ÷ You’re Dating Out Of Loneliness Or Validation; 2:52 Third Thing ÷ You Keep Repeating The Same Unhealthy Patterns; 3:57 Fourth Thing ÷ Dating Feels Like A Chore; 4:38 Fifth Thing ÷ You’re Struggling With Your Mental Or Emotional Health; 5:21 Sixth Thing ÷ You’re Carrying Bitterness Or Still Healing From Past Experiences; and 6:46 to summarize all the told here.
Additional things would of been these: Seventh Thing ÷ You’re In A Toxic Relationship; Eighth Thing ÷ You Don’t See A Better Opportunity, Or You’re Avoiding To See Some Other Alternatives And Better Things; Ninth Thing ÷ The Person Has Disappointed Us. At seventh thing I meant to say that the person is showing the toxic behavior. Also mentioned thing can be party used for sixth thing. At eight thing I meant that for some unknown reason or mindset, people don’t see what are the alternatives, or they avoid them, cause they think many other stuff and things. That thing can be partly seen at second and fourth thing. At ninth thing I was thinking on one thing. And that is that the expectations are different that it was anticipated (in this case in bad behavior). All in all: We all feel out sometimes as burned out and also that we aren’t in a good mood for dating. But the ninth thing can be also used at third thing, and at fourth thing.
All in all if we can summarize the all told here, it can be summarized to following things. Those are these:
1. Relax, and enjoy doing the things and hobbies that make you happy;
2. Use time wisely, since time is one of the valuables resources.
Stay safe people.
signs it’s time to stop dating: 1.) If you’re a guy who isn’t 6 feet tall, with 6 pack abs, a high 6 figure job and a 7 figure bank account. 2.) If you’re sick of silly games. 3.) You value your peace and money more than the chaos that dating causes.
It’s not a chore, it’s too much WORK just to have a small chance at something that will end anyway.
I’m really begging you to find this book. The Girlfriend Magnet Masterplan is unreal. Please, drop everything you’re doing and read it… the attraction strategies inside changed me so much I’m literally emotional writing this. It’s not just a book, it’s a total shift in how you see attracting girls. If you’re even a little serious about transforming your love life, don’t sleep on this one
There’s hardly any motivation when, as a man, you realise that in the end, nothing you’ll ever do will be enough, with a 70% likelihood of her ending it… Not exactly compelling odds.
Another great video to watch over again to remind us that it’s ok to take a break from the dating world.
I somehow feel like I just want to date to fill the void and be close with someone and have an intimate connection with that person, coming out a 4, 5 year breakup. It’s tough for me because we were together for over 5 years and it hits hard when you’ve been together for that long! And like the video I’ve watched about men nowadays are lonely, I sometimes feel like that too!
Never had a match never gotten a complement and was told to not talk to look at or touch women unless she lets me know it is ok to do so. I cant shake the feeling im being a creep when i talk to women no matter what i try. Add that to the fact im in a very rual area i gave up dating alobg time ago
I check all 6 boxes! Sweet
Great info! It’s as if you were describing me. After losing my spouse of nearly 40 years, I’ve some degree of all these traits. It’s like I don’t know how to be alone. I started checking out the dating apps at around 56 (now 67 and retired) and the apps have literally kicked my butt! It’s been like chasing ghosts.
Yup I sorta figured this would be the case.