How To Be Taken Seriously As A Man (Without Bragging or Flexing)
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I’ve seen corrupt men be taken seriously just because they got money. That’s why everyone wants it.
Deep voice with good tonality and being in great physical shape will get respect.
Unless you’re planning on taking your shirt off when you speak, you probably don’t need to be in GREAT physical shape. Good physical shape should be enough.
A deep voice can scare her away, on the flipside [like if it’s way too low] … speaking of experience.
I take a page out of Keanu Reeves’ book since he has said “I hate when people ask me: ‘why are you so quiet?’ Because I am. That’s how I function. I don’t ask others ‘why do you talk so much?’. It’s rude.” So I like the idea of not talking just to talk. There’s even this quote from Plato that goes “a wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something”.
Also, when a quiet person says something, it carries more weight because of how “out of character” it is.
“Keep your standards high” I love that. And in a previous video you said “Become who you want to attract”. Courtney you def are the GOAT
I agree!
You can get respect without being handsome or pretty.
The problem is that media and Hollywood have made people who are loud and obnoxious fashionable. Too many people believe the phrase “The squeaky wheel gets the oil.”
Honestly speaking, who cares about what these companies and social media want?
This is why I keep myself to myself I honestly can’t stand being around people.
@@jacobs3031 , I don’t blame you.
James Bond, Captain America, and Jack Reacher are opposite examples.
Pay attention to what you want to be, not what makes you mad.
How to be taken seriously as a man without bragging or flexing
1. speak with substance, not volume
2. Master your presence
3. Let your results do the talking
4. Control your emotions
5. Dress the part
6. Keep your standards high
Important things:
0:43 First Thing ÷ Speak With Substance Not With Volume; 1:33 Second Thing ÷ Master Your Presence; 4:04 Third Thing ÷ Let Your Results Do The Talking; 5:47 Fourth Thing ÷ Control Your Emotions; 7:24 Fifth Thing ÷ Dress The Part; 9:29 Sixth Thing ÷ Keep Your Standards High; and 11:23 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told about men, that can also apply to women as well Courtney.
Additional things can be these: Seventh Thing ÷ Being Supportive; Eight Thing ÷ Not Taking Anything For Granted When You Listen Things From People.
At seventh thing I meant that you can tell someone that you give suggestions, you tell what’s the problem about the project at work, etc. As for eight thing, I meant to say that you don’t always have to listen people what they say, cause maybe they say things in affect, or they had bad day, etc. Sometimes you need to consult with people so there can be found a perfect solution for both sides. More precise to find a compromise.
From all the told here, there is one conclusion here. And that can be reduced to one thing: Be an introvert man. Why? Because they are serious and dedicated. Also goes for women as well (to be introvert woman).
Great video, Courtney! I love your content.
One of the best videos if not the best that you’ve ever put out.
“better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.” — Abraham Lincoln
There’s a real social power to being the last to act. Some folks cheapen it into a gimmick — the “mic drop” — but it runs deeper. We’re wired to defer to the person who closes the loop. Psychologists call this the recency effect — we remember the last thing said, and we unconsciously attach authority to the person who said it. That’s why leaders often let everyone else speak first, then step in to summarize or redirect. It’s not about talking more, it’s about making the final word feel like the conclusion.
So in groups and one-on-one, hold your words. Don’t interrupt unless the place is on fire. Listen fully, then speak like you mean it. When your timing is deliberate, your words carry the kind of weight that can’t be faked.
Another great video. Thanks Courtney.
Unfortunately society has taught women that loud/cocky/arrogant/performative is a sign of true confidence and character, and what talk about today’s video are euphemisms for “Nice Guy”
not dressing like a teenager and wearing things that compliment my body type has helped alot, i get alot more “sirs” now then i ever have even though i still have long hair, also got in better shape (was already in shape just more focused on calisthenics) i do notice the glances here in there from women.
i thought i had to show off what i have and what i can do to be serious the book her trigger code taught me true strength comes from within from emotional intelligence and honesty when i stopped bragging and started building myself from the inside people began seeing me differently today i have confidence that doesn’t need validation and that changed everything in my life
i was the guy who talked a lot but no one listened i thought i had to brag to get attention the book her trigger code taught me the opposite a man is taken seriously when he is confident and not trying to impress i learned how to be a magnet for attention the right way now i don’t have to prove anything people notice my worth on their own
3 things that changed how I view this whole system: 1) I stopped chasing arguments. 2) I came across Atruve books and the content there hit different. 3) I studied how power really works.