Why You’re Stuck at 3 Likes While Other Men Pull 300
Dating after divorce at 40 isn’t the same game you left. It's Much Easier. The rules changed, the apps changed, and the expectations are nothing like what you remember. If you’re a recently divorced man stepping back into dating, you need more than just hope—you need a strategy.
Here’s the truth: women swipe left on 95% of men. That means if you’re showing up average, you’re invisible. The top 10% of men absorb nearly 60% of the likes. The top 5% alone hoard almost a quarter of all attention. And it’s not just about looks—it’s about how you present yourself. Men who show up with presence and strategy pull hundreds of likes a week. Men who don’t, get buried.
In this video, I’ll break down:
Which dating apps are actually worth your time if you’re over 40.
Why most men fail online and how to avoid the same traps.
The brutal rejection and ghosting stats you need to face head-on.
How algorithms decide whether to push you forward or bury you.
The small profile changes that flip you from ignored to magnetic.
Why Boosts and paid upgrades only help if your foundation is dialed in.
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Average effort won’t cut it here. If you’re serious about reclaiming your presence and dating like a high-value man, this is where it starts.
Navigating **online dating** and **dating apps** in your 40s can be tricky, especially **dating after 40**. This video shares the **dating advice** and **dating tips** needed to improve your **dating app experience** and make **dating in your 40s** a success.
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Chapters:
0:00 What to Expect
1:04 Myths About Online Dating
2:16 How to Work with the Algorithm
3:42 The Effort Is Missing
7:08 Webinars
8:27 What Pictures to Post
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Spot on with the dating apps it can seem daunting, but the reality is as Renee points out there are certain key things you can do to change the entire dynamic. You’ll still get lower qualtiy chics popping up but you’ll see high quality oness really populating your inbox you’ll never see if you don’t make the upfront effort. No one cares if you’re a nice guy and f being a nice guy, if they don’t pick up the package off the shelf they aren’t ever going to get to see the you for who you are anyway. Fix the packaging for yourself and a lot more women will pick you up off the shelf to take a better look at