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8 signs she keeps you as a backup option ( dont fall for these)
1. She only reaches out when she needs something
2. You are always the one initiating
3. She keeps you at ab arms-length
4. Her actions don’t match her words
5. You are her emotional safety net
6. She is hot and cold with you
7. She doesn’t prioritize you, and you feel it
8. She talks about other guys
Happy Sunday much blessings to you Courtney. Strongly agreed with the subject provided. Guys stop wasting your time with these kinds of relationships especially when someone is manipulating using you as their back-up plans. Stop making yourself look like a fool. Your parents raised you well than that It doesn’t make you a weak person to step away from this kinda situation pretty much you’re doing yourself a favor to be the strong one. Your life is much precious than draining by someone that doesn’t care about you at all. Just be patient stay busy with your life things will be better soon.
I saw all those signs in a woman I met. One day, I eventually burned out and I was stepping back, mentioning to her that I needed rest and also to take care of myself. Clearly, she didn’t like it. Guilt trips, control, and comparing me to her version of the “best” boyfriend were thrown towards me. The more I backed out, the more sad and unbalanced I was, because it had a huge impact change on my life. I was always there to help her, giving a lot of attention, so that pattern was hard for me to accept. So I hit a hard pause after she was very mean to me. After a few months, we saw each other last week. She doesn’t seem to remember or doesn’t want to remember her actions… Perhaps she’ll understand or change her behavior. I am standing my ground, protecting my worth and my energy.
So guys, if you see a red flag, ask yourself if it’s worth it to give her a second chance or to talk to her about it.
The info in this video is great advice.
Important things: 0:18 First Thing ÷ She Only Reaches Out When She Needs Something; 1:05 Second Thing ÷ You’re Always The One Initiating; 1:53 Third Thing ÷ She Keeps You At An Arms Length; 2:24 Fourth Thing ÷ Her Actions Don’t Match Words; 2:56 Fifth Thing ÷ You Are Her Emotional Safety Net; 3:46 Sixth Thing ÷ She’s Hot And Cold With You; 4:19 Seventh Thing ÷ She Doesn’t Prioritize You And You Know That You Feel It; 4:52 Eighth Thing ÷ She Talks About Other Guys; 6:27 advice’s on how to avoid these types of people; and 7:27 to summarize all the told here.
Additional thing is this: Ninth Thing ÷ The Person (in this thing woman) Only Wants To Have You As A Shoulder For Crying (as we say that in Balkan peninsula) (reading between the lines means that the person is only here for you to talk about the problems), but this can be partly used at fifth thing that you have told Courtney. What I meant to say about ninth thing is that the people when they feel either bad, or worse, or perhaps in a bad mood, they will contact you to tell you all struggles that they are facing, and that they are suffering.
When I have listened to you Courtney, I have remembered one quote that I saw long time ago. And it goes like this (of course you can correct me if I have made a mistake) (of course this can be used in every life situations, and it goes equally to men and women). It goes “like this: If someone treats you as a backup option, then try your best to never see such a person again.”
Stay safe dear people.
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option” – attributed to Maya Angelou
I’m 34 and i live by the saying
“If they like you, you’ll know; if not, you’ll be confused”
That’s right but when I date some girls always send mixed signals and that’s bad
@@oliverarrow8431 leave em’
I’m never confused and they never like me.
I got an even better one:
If they like you, you will know.
If they dislike you, you will also know.
Humans cannot hide their true emotions and feelings for a long time, especially regarding romantic/relationship affairs.
You would NEVER spend time with or think of someone you dislike.
There’s really one tell that’s needed and if she doesn’t agree to a date then she’s not interested.period.
Before Sovereign Seduction by Blaine Harlow, I thought I had to impress women with money or looks. Now I realize it’s about presence and energy. Once I shifted that, women started noticing me in ways they never did before.
love this, raw in the best way, sometimes uncomfortable but that’s why it works
for real, this book finally connected all the dots for me, if you give it a chance it’ll hit you harder than you expect
None of you donk-bors are fooling anyone.
Also she might try to breadcrumb you back. I noticed a girl wasn’t all that interested in me, so i pulled back. Months later, she now randomly comments on my story with one word. It’s not effort, it’s her trying to lead me down the same dynamic of being one of her options.
1000%
Most of the videos made by you are somewhat like teaching stuff what to do and all…
But seriously in this video you are showing the mechanisms that are actually going inside her mind for that person in relation.
Really I was able to connect with this…
Huge Love and respect from my side.
You’ve got a serious problem with bots suggesting to buy the same book over and over again xD
I noticed this too xD
Lmao, they’re usually contained in a single comment thread, but it seems they’re evolving!
In my single days, I dated a woman who treated me as a backup option. I stuck around because I was lonely and having a hard time finding new people to date. Eventually, she dumped me and I moved on. I remember I actually felt happy when she came clean and dumped me. In retrospect, I gained valuable experience on dealing with the opposite sex during the time I spent with her. Funny thing, about two years later she contacted me and wanted to get back together, I told her no. By that time I had completely moved on and had no interest.
Always assume the worst, when someone wants to get back together…especially if they’re the reason for the original termination.
I have experienced these signs so many times with so many women over the years that I pretty much knew exactly what Courtney was gonna say before she said it. I am nobodies 2nd choice, and as soon as I experience even one of these signs nowadays I end it right then and there.
“What you tolerate you condone.”
05:57 to 06:01
You can choose to walk away.
100% agree.
The worst one for me was when she kept talking about her ex and her crushes. We were friends at work but everyone around us could feel it was a relationship waiting to happen however she kept doing this red flag over and over, so I was so done. After working with her for about a year, and knowing she had so many guy friends on social media and knowing she loves drinking and partying on the weekends, I had no reason to continue pursuing this woman. So I just quit my job just to get away from her and I never looked back. After about 2 weeks she kept texting me about how much she misses me but I showed absolutely no interest and replied with one or word texts. Yeah, she was a walking red flag. My biggest mistake was making “friends” at work. Word of advice: your coworkers are not your friends.
Thank you, I’ve been the backup plan. It’s very unnerving. It’s a no win situation.
I dealt with some of the things that are mentioned with my ex-girlfriend. It taught me a lesson. Wishing you a sensational Sunday, Courtney! ❤
A friend once told me: “You’ll keep running in love circles until you understand how the game is really played.”
I didn’t get it at the time. Then a few months ago, he sent me a PDF a forbidden book called Laws of Kai by Kai Vorn. I was skeptical. But after reading it, I couldn’t sleep. I kept thinking about everything I’d been doing wrong… and why success always seemed just out of reach.
That book didn’t give me comfort. It gave me a wake-up call. Since then, everything’s shifted my focus, my love life, my confidence.
It’s not for everyone, but if you’re stuck—really stuck you owe it to yourself to dig it up and read it.