Are You Giving Off Boy or Grown Man Energy?
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Usually this is the direct result of being raised by a single parent. Which causes lack of confidence or what you call “boy energy”. It really isn’t the fault of the man at all.
You sure about that? I know men raised in 2-parent homes that act like this. It may be more difficult for a single parent but I think it has more to do with the quality of a parent
@@BlargeMan To build on that, I’ve always struggled with lack of confidence and was raised in a 2-parent home. Both of my parents are still together today. But it’s also not what I would call the happiest marriage. My dad was always very distant and was guilty of several items Courtney listed. Mom I believe just soldiered on to keep the family together but I think if she were to give a raw honest answer she probably regrets marrying my dad. I think it has influenced my struggle socially with friendships, dating, career, etc.
You’re displaying boy energy right now by making excuses and blaming others.
just you know, this is valid both ways, litte girl “energy” vs grown woman “energy”… you need to be responsible, reliable, be on time, be respectful, etc
how do i know? am married to a grown woman, professional, capable, smart loving mother, who just fit 90% of the description you’re giving.
Hey Courtney! Haven’t commented in awhile because we just had our first born and what a blessing it is for me and my wife! But thanks again for continuing to make videos like this to give light to men especially young men who need to hear it!
A huge congrats to you and your wife! So happy for your family ❤️
@@CourtneyRyanthank you!
If the “boy” is 6 foot with abs it doesnt matter how he acts or what he has. He’s getting her “energy.”
This I find odd. I’m 6’1″ and the only people who obsess about my height are other men.
@@AlexP1-y4gI have had multiple women (3) walk across a bar/club just to slight me because I was shorter then they want. Minding my own business not chatting no one. “ damn you fine just wish you were taller”……. It’s not obsession as much as it is a common situational factor.
@@soccerspidy18 Only bad women are at bars and clubs, anyway. Don’t go to those places.
@@AlexP1-y4gBecause we’re tall enough to not hear about it…the internet is a cesspool of bias but I’ve heard enough directly from men and women to form my own opinion on both genders. I suggest others do the same
Been called out just now. #9 was probably the most helpful one.
I got more than a few problems I need to work out, and I can directly thank you for helping me understand it better.
Maybe now I can start making better, more regular and consistent choices to improve me in the important ways I’ve avoided.
Thanks Courtney
I’m In my 60s and I love this channel, mostly because I just find the study of these things interesting. Then again, when I think about it, the advice given here is also useful in everyday interactions if you are interested in presenting yourself in a good light to people in general. As I get older, I find myself caring less about what people think or how i present myself, on an EMOTIONAL level, but it’s still always important to present a good image whenever possible. At least I think it is.
Hey Courtney, I really appreciate your channel — your content is truly valuable!
One thing I wanted to point out from a man’s perspective: your advice is very logical and makes a lot of sense — but it often assumes that women will respond rationally.
Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. Many of us have experienced situations where logic doesn’t work because emotions or mixed signals dominate.
Still, your insights are super helpful for those trying to navigate relationships consciously
Women who use the word “energy” are a red flag.
women themselves are red-flag
I behave like a boy towards women who disrespect me, like a grown man to women who do not disrespect (but not necessarily respect) me.
Great video. My previous self was absolutely boy energy. My new self is aligning more with the grown man. So happy I am on the right path now. I hope my wife sees the changes and wants to reconcile. If not, my next wife will benefit.
could have replaced boy with child and man with adult and this video would hold true. both genders need to hear this.
Financial mindset: whether we like it or not, money is ALWAYS a factor, in some form or fashion.
I’ve been working on myself for years. It hard not to feel like you’ve got to be perfect. So many people will Immediately bail if they see 1 problem. Just feel like on thin ice with every woman.
We are. Fortunate and unfortunate about women’s emotional capacity. You can abuse it to get everything you want out of them or you can try to protect them from themselves and be mostly ostracized.
I’m 27, with my issue here is that women my age still act like they are in highschool, and out here using snapchat like a bunch of 14-year-old with no goals, no ambition, and or drive, and lack of a developed frontal lobe. This is why I like older women, but at the end of the day it can vary from person to person… Who they are as a person, and how they have their priorities lined up and what they want in life.
You are the BEST Courtney!
Don’t do these things for women, do them for yourself! I’ve been working on trying to be a better communicator recently as it’s the one I struggle with the most.
I stumbled across forbidden book of former secret society member named Caelum Noir and I don’t think I’ll ever see the seduction, desire and influence the same, it’s like they don’t want you to have this power.
Its a coin flip, once u understand that their emotions and attractions are random, you can live way more freely =D
I prefer spiritual energy with God’s grace and blessings 😊.