Men (Over 40) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)
Men over 40 need certain things to stick around. They need to feel a certain way. Its up to the woman to make him feel this way. Here are the things that men want in a woman.
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Of all the vids I’ve seen about understanding men, this one succintly sums up the whole matter. Great vid but I’m going to practice boundaries on you..It would make me so happy if you would not use the term BJ in you vids. Lololol
@@kerriealison6545 – Thank you for the amazing compliment!!
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Such a bullshit………it is soooo easy to impress and help your woman….a dog , a child a grandmother, a teacher, a nurse, a busy business woman….ANYONE……(all humans – around the world are the SAAAMMMEEE) when you care you have eyes and ear to hear…..PLEASE READ , what she wrote here : When my husband left us homeless I truly NEEDED a man and didn’t have one so I had to man up for myself. How sad is that…another true comment :…I don’t see men as men these days they are more like buy me give me they act like a female these days. I hate to hear this bullshit repeatedly…..Thank goodness, I did my research around the world… third real life experience comment : This only works if they are Mentally healthy And WANT a relationship… I haven’t found any!!!! ………………He didn’t want to be appreciated he wanted just nothing but control not all men are that good
I KNOW HUMAN BEINGS……………..AND THIS LAST COMMENT IS VERY TRUE…………it took me a long time until a couple of years ago………i found out, that men are not impressive at all……………they are the victim of………………& at the same time, they did not realize this : the use and abuse women………to……………get what they want…..they do this with everyone.
Hi Mike!Greetings from a side of this planet..lol.I’m happy to found you pops up on my porch this is my first time watching your video and i suscribe immediately.I’ll be 47 this year and My boyfriend will be 60.We”re in a LDR and been together for 2 years now but unfortunately we have not met yet because of this covid.To me,what you have shared w/us in this video is so TRUE! I’m doing it all of them by mailing and phone.Not because i pretend to be but more likely i do Need,appreciate,accept and have boundaries w/him.Thank you Mike you just make my day🤗.Stay safe ttyl and GBU.
Men like who they like! Period. All of the do this and do that does not mean a hill of beans to most men. A man will jump through hoops for the woman that he wants.
@Trish Malone yep… We can try these things and not scare away the right one but if he isn’t the right one then yeah he’ll be focused on someone else that may or may not be good for him. They like who they like. I know!
For awhile…
Yes!.. And I swear it’s 100% off looks!! They just want a certain look and that’s it. They don’t really care about your personality or success!
Brooke Benton absolutely!
@@brookebenton8192 yep!
I see women in a complete masculine role with some of my friends that have raised children by themselves for many years. I have at least 4 solid examples of beautiful, kind,educated and fully self sufficient women that have been single for years and either have a very hard time keeping a man or have given up all together. It boggles my mind.
I think part of the reason is simply because they keep that constant mindset of I can do this all by myself, I don’t need you. So while being independent is great, giving the man a chance to be helpful and needed is probably a great tip.
Thanks for that “EZ” advice. I definitely relate to #1. I am very independent and take pride in it; however, I can tell it can be a block or barrier when in a relationship with a man.
I love this clear, concise and sound advice! Being independent is a superpower, but so is knowing how to balance that with honesty, vulnerability and positive reinforcement. This advice couldn’t be more solid. You’ve gained a new subbie!
This only works if they are Mentally healthy And WANT a relationship… I haven’t found any!!!! 🤷😩
Keep looking, they exist and don’t settle for one that isn’t healthy. 💜💜
I would say stop looking! That is being in the masculine. Instead, I would set the intention “I am ready for a man who is ready to explore a relationship with me.” That means that you must prepare YOURSELF for the type of man worthy of your best self. When you are truly ready, he will appear. ✨💖✨
You will. Think Positive. Never say never.
Me too I haven’t find my man yet I’m single mom
@@leonorcadalin5980 Start going to the Corner Bar and start having Drinks where High quality Men are. 😉
So… make him “feel needed” but don’t ever be “needy.” Simple. 🙄
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The difference is in building someone up rather than pulling them down.✨💖✨
Being older (now) I see the make him feel needed without being needy as easier. Maybe it’s also because I’m determined to be in my ‘feminine’ AND successful. Fed up with barely surviving emotionally in a masculine world.
The guy that made this literally looks like he constantly cheats on women, just a p*ssy eater and “you are what you eat”. Trash video, can’t even finish it.
😂😂😂 exactly and they say women are complicated!
Even when the man gets all these 4 traits they can still leave you…happened to me…!
Nancy Gaudreau, you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏
In 21st c men want financially independent women
I’m sorry to hear that Nancy
Soooo bloody true…the discard was horrendous 😭
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I am independent. I don’t need a knight in shining armor to come an save me…but it would be nice to have one who wants to.
Agreed!!!!
My ex narc use to even say that he wasn’t my knight in shining armour. Always wondered why he even thought that and presumed it was to hurt my feelings or get out of doing something necessary. So when I was leaving I told him, “You’re right, you are not my knight in shining armour, so get out of his f$&@:#% way! There is always some kind of truth in what they say but it’s backwards thinking a lot of the time.
@@cajokyze – I love that quote!! Good for you for standing up for yourself!
1@@cajokyze If someone tells you who they are, believe them
@@candykelly2705 true
Appreciation is by far a better feeling to convey than needed.
The word appreciated denotes greater thx then needed
When my husband left us homeless I truly NEEDED a man and didn’t have one so I had to man up for myself. I worked 2 jobs, started my own business, raised my daughter and rescued myself. Now, the only men that show up are moochers. I will never NEED a man again!
Yes 100 totally understand
So so so true
Congrats sometimes men can be stressful in life ..strong woman yeah😘💪🏼
Watch ashera7… i have had the same problems.
What actually attracts a man on a deep subconscious level and what they want on a conscious level are two very different things. They may say they “want” this or that, but that is not always what they need to actually stay invested.
where can I find out more about this topic? I mean the differences between conscious and subconscious level needs?
Mine are the same with the addition of don’t lie to me and don’t try to f*ck everything that moves behind my back. I don’t date often anymore because I am tired of setting a boundary of “don’t lie to me” which should fall under basic human decency.
weak men lie. The Truth needs nothing!!
Amen
Hi Low
Instead of me making him feel needed how about his parents instilling confidence in him to begin with so when he meets a woman who can do for herself he understands that he’s there because he’s wanted. It’s so much better to be wanted than needed.
That part!!!
Friendship + caring+teamwork= A Good relationship…
I like that!!! 🙌🙌
Be yourself ,love yourself , respect yourself, appreciate him.
Hi LA
Women also want to needed and appreciated accepted and share boundaries. And to know that both of you do not cross boundaries with other people like cheating.
A man wants to feel needed. A woman wants to feel wanted..
A woman wants to be validated..
True
I loved this information and I really appreciate your approach. I think I can speak for at least a few of us when I say we want to learn how to relate to men better and have successful partnerships. Thank you for educating in a way that is both realistic and respectful.
1. Needed 2. Appreciated 3. Accepted 4. Boundaries Thank you for that!!