The “Good Personality” Myth (What She ACTUALLY Means)
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Gentlemen just be the best person you can be (physically, financially, consistent, manners) if she can’t accept/ respond to that keep walking.
Yep. Many men think it’s too frustrating, but those guys are just lazy (especially in their 20s).
Yes!
Preach
I loved it
I was struggling with it alot.
Remember women wants a man who has presence,engaging and feels comfortable on his own skin.
woman do not want a puppy as a spouse (a cute and affectionate) they want someone who can desire.
I believe in everyone who puts their work in here and courtney gives many good advice about it.
Keep on the good work everyone
Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.
@SanVicshe has never said that.
There are videos that she was showing delusional women that are not taking accountability.
In this video she is just pointing out what women say and what they mean, it’s literally a breakdown about what it means ”good personality”
I understand that many men as me went through alot without any success because it depends on many factors.
I wish for you the best and as someone who struggled alot In this I see it as a very accurate example.
And I appreciate your feedback
I literally quoted her word for word. Play the beginning of the video.
All I’m hearing is shifting goalposts, it’s the set of traits that are good “to her”. When her wants change it’ll make you become “not enough”
Stop being bitter. It’s not hard to be a good person. A woman will like you as you are.
@memememememe-x9b Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.
@SanVicYou keep repeating this comment, multiple times to me. I replied once, with a unique answer. You have over 100 comments. You’re just hate-watching.
@memememememe-x9b I’m quoting Courtney word for word, and I’m replying to your false claims.
@SanVic What’s wrong with wanting someone with a good personality? Again, this video is directed towards men, not women. Are you a child?
courtney im sure your a great person bc ive been listening to your videos for awhile but now pretty much everytime i listen to one of your videos ( like this one ) it becomes more and more clear as to why im gonna be single forever. im 36 and this is just ridiculous
It’s not hard to be a good person. A woman will like you as you are. At your age, you should know better.
@memememememe-x9b Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.
@SanVicYou keep repeating this comment, multiple times to me. I replied once. I’m not replying again.
@SanVic Stop repeating the same comment. If you hate her content, why do you have over 100 comments? Also, this video is aimed at men who want to date women, not the reverse. Why would she give women advice? Don’t be a meatball.
@SanVicyou’re a clown 🤡
I want a woman with a good personality.
As long as you meet the standards you require in a partner, go to town.
Agreed
Are we talking “Sydney Sweeney” good?
@pace1195 Are you a child? What does a celebrity have to do with it? (She was great on the “Omen” prequel, though. I need to rewatch all of them).
Yeah, I’d like to have a nice woman.
Around 7:35 is the real problem. You will never find anyone that’s in the perfect middle of all those traits.
Correct! She wants the roller coaster tingles when men oscillate her from one extreme to the other of each of those traits. Mediocrity is boring; extreme whiplash is tingle inducing.
I just want a woman who’s actually interesting.
I remember being called “harmless”, I was so young at the time; I wasn’t quite sure how to process that. Is it a compliment? A back handed compliment? Part of me couldn’t help feeling emasculated.
Same thing happened to me and it was from a childhood” friend” at the time, in front of my girlfriend back then, he was a boxer, and he was telling my girlfriend basically he’s a nice guy but don’t think he could protect you if you needed it, it was done and said, to boost him up in her eyes, and knock me down, yes to emasculate me in her eyes and it worked, she slowly started pulling away and she left me
She never talked about the Halo Effect. If you are hot, you will be seen as having a “good personality. If you are ugly , you will have the contrary effect
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The thing is we guys are the same….you know when looking at someone whether you are attracted to them or not and it is not a choice. All you can do is be as attractive as possible and let things happen while having fun
5:30 was a great point to add, and true in my experience. And vice versa, I’ve been in relationships where it started off and burned away slowly.
Rich. That’s what it means. Rich and handsome.
Also having high status just adds to a man’s personality. A great physique doesn’t hurt one’s personality either.
Disclaimer: a good personality may be directly proportional to the size of bank accounts and 401K.
The good personality myth – she describes something specific, but doesn’t know some. For men it’s not about traits.
She describes something specific, but doesn’t know, for some men. It’s not about traits.
1. The “good” Personality myth
2. Personality is felt, not “listed”
3. The nice guy trap
Being overly eager
4. Why “good” Personality is often a placeholder
5. Compat
Compatibility vs. Chemistry
Sense of humor
6. The confidence authenticity blend ( comfortable in your own skin but not proving yourself
7. When she says you have a great personality. ( she likes you but not feeling romantic
8. What she actually means?
She wants funny, but grounded person, etc
The “good personality” always comes down to your level of physical attractiveness no matter what.
real compatibility takes time to develop.
I think when she says that she wants a guy with a good personality, she wants a guy who she feels has a good personality for her. And that feeling depends very much on her mood. Sometimes the good personality is when he is gentle or humorous, sometimes he has to be strict and just has to repair her computer.
I’ve never heard this topic broken down and articulated so well