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To a man, any woman that is good looking and respects you is high value.
In which country?
At least until they send you a text asking you to pay for $500 of new clothes.
The high value term is so annoying. If someone claims to be a high value man/woman just leave
Truly high value people don’t have to announce it to the world. They know it, and so does everyone else
@mikeklein1779 If it is not obvious, then you are not high value. It is not just about money, but also morally, socially, and being responsible.
Agreed
When I think of the term “high-value” I think of those lousy pickup artists from the Mystery days of the 2000s.
@Gen.RobertNeyland Or, you’re high value but are an introvert who hardly goes outside. I dress like I’m average, and it hasn’t hindered me
Hi Courtney,
If your relationship is based on buying her things, it will always end in disaster because someone who can buy her bigger and better things will come along!
Hope you are having a great week!
You too! Thanks for watching! 😊
That one subscriber dodged a nuke. Imagine being so entitled that you ask someone (who you barely know at this point) to cover the entire cost of your lifestyle.
Right!
That was me lol. Yeah it was at that point where I saw what the relationship would look like and wanted no part of that 😂
As an older guy, I’ve watched similar videos with amazement. Similar attitudes have been around a long time. Guy’s test women sometimes, and asking a woman for a coffee date is a good test to see if she is serious about finding a partner. I used to hear women say that they felt “they were expected to put out” if a guy took them to an expensive restaurant for a first date. A coffee date was a way for me to bypass that issue. I once met a girl and asked her for coffee, her response was “I don’t like coffee”. I replied “well how about a cup of tea”? We’ve been married for 25+ years, and now I am a tea drinker!
That’s a sweet story bro!
Yep, bringing someone into your life should improve things for both of you. If it doesn’t, you shouldn’t feel guilty ending things. I started a no dating, not even looking period in July. The improvement in my mental outlook, physical fitness and disposable income has been marked. So when I start again next year I’ll have a very different attitude. I’d advise everyone to try this and only start dating again when you’ve settled into a routine/life you’re happy with. I have little doubt I will have a far better and healthier experience going forward, if only because I know I have something precious to offer and protect.
Anyone referring to themselves as “high value” is as cringe as guys referring to themselves as “Alphas”
But that last gal who insisted on the $300 shopping trip tops even those. She sounds like a future Karen.
Agreed
That was me lol. She was really pretty so tbh she’s not gonna have a hard time getting someone to spend on her like that but it ain’t gonna be me 😅
@dj_gzero Brother, you dodged a nuke.
Sounds like a current Karen. Bullet dodged.
Girlfriend and I went for a walk at a park for our first date. I even drove my ancient diesel pickup truck that had more in common with farm equipment than a street vehicle. I’d brought a frisbee for her dog to play with but it wound up being used as a water dish instead.
Been together 11 years now. We still frequently go walk at that same park, and last night that same dog fell asleep on me.
Aww, I love this story! ❤️
If you view yourself as a “high value woman” that is the equivalent of a man thinking of himself an “alpha male” its a red flag immediately on the dating scene
We need to stop glorifying money, status and stuff… and focus more on being good people, community and connections
Facts. I don’t need to prove myself to a woman by bleeding myself dry to a woman that I barely know or don’t even know if I like her yet and if she wants be entitled and disrespectful about me taking her on a coffee date than she’ll have to kick rocks cuz I ain’t finna tolerate that ish. I wanna be with someone who appreciates me for who I am, not what I have.
Amen.
Not gonna change. Women’s brains are wired that way through evolution. Men need to adapt the best they can.
Social media has rewritten value in terms of optics and transactions rather than genuine compatibility 💣💥
I’ve been called broke for having standards/limits, though I outearned her. Makes no sense.
The biggest predictor of the long-term success in a relationship is a person’s happiness before starting the relationship!
It’s nice to see more women challenging the idea that a coffee date isn’t good enough. Personally, I think coffee dates are great.
Reading Sovereign Seduction by Blaine Harlow felt like finding contraband knowledge. The kind of thing you whisper to a friend, not something you admit publicly. That’s how raw it is.
i wish i knew earlier about that book it literally changed my life
If a woman said that to me I would just say “Sorry I don’t date broke chicks” and walk away.
7:00 She’s basically admitting to running a shitty subscription model. All fees, no benefits.
Somewhere along the way we forgot greed is bad
ive seen a few videos of yours now and find your calm demeanor and communication aspirational. you have exceptional grace in discussing these issues while also seeming authentic. thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Alot of women don’t want a real relationship, they want a life lifestyle to show off on social media.