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  • @iamjuan6762 says:

    One important thing is to not let the first girl you see, tear up everything you’ve built. Go through the process, if she’s not the one. It’s okay.

    • @GlobalandInternational says:

      I noticed she skipped right over this comment and didn’t even respond lol. She took 9 minutes to make this video you took 30 seconds to type the comment and you nailed it 100 out of 100.

  • @lawrence31415 says:

    The other day, I was reflecting on how far I’ve come along since I re-entered the dating stage in the past year. I’m proud to say that in both the good and bad moments of dating that my life has become a lot better. I’ve got to experience new and old things with some of the women I’ve met along the way. I’m happy with where I’m at, and I’m secure with who I am and what I’m doing to improve. I have momentum, and I’m thriving in it. Thank you for this video, Courtney.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      Love this comment. Thank you so much for sharing 🥰

    • @SanVic says:

      @CourtneyRyan Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them.

    • @SanVic says:

      Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them.

    • @lawrence31415 says:

      ​@CourtneyRyan Many thanks for making excellent content. Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

    • @JacobBorrero-x9o says:

      ​@CourtneyRyanas much as I still appreciate this video I feel like you lost your damn mind regardless, after I’ve through way too much past trauma from what I’ve done with women or vice versa, yes I have been noticing patterns on how women are treating me is because I give less fucks about them nowadays throughout 2025 whether they’re my crush or not. Why would I want a girlfriend nowadays for what? to help them regain their power? I don’t think so now some people might call me stubborn just like Seth Rollins in WWE when he refuses to team up with Roman reigns from last year, but I care less what people opinions of my stubbornness I’m not them I’m me. I still refuse to help women romantically but they always wait until it’s way too late with men I’m at a stage of my life I know who I am as person I’m a lone wolf a sigma male who thrives on independence. All it took for me to disqualify women for them to notice us men some world we live in if you ask me. Women always want the fruit of their labor when men stop giving them it’s hypergamy. So, Courtney I still appreciate this topic ✝️🙏👍 amen nothing to take away from but the answer for me always remain the same with me is which is rejection towards women.

  • @hermestrismegistos3530 says:

    Crazy Timing! Never operate from a state of lack! Prioritize your own goals and dreams! That way you just got momentum!

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      Love that! 🙌

    • @SanVic says:

      @CourtneyRyan Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them.

    • @SanVic says:

      Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them.

  • @Deranged_Lunatic-DL says:

    Now, that’s what I call a beautiful woman.

  • @SamuelMoreno-o6p says:

    Signs you will have a girlfriend (even if you don’t see it yet)
    1. You stopped chasing
    2. you’re finally emotionally available
    3. You’re improving your lifestyle, and not just looks
    4. Women are starting to treat you differently
    5. You’re becoming comfortable on your own
    6. You build a life that brings you social opportunities
    7. You’re clear on what you want and what you don’t want
    8. You’ve become more self-aware

  • @Phoenician.Absurdist says:

    In summary, be stoic.

  • @Trace7173 says:

    When you stop chasing NOTHING happens. Nothing will magically show up in your life. I stopped chasing 12 years ago and I’m still on the sidelines just like I’ve been most of my life. Don’t be like me and watch your life go by.

    • @Anadrolus says:

      I agree thank you, stop chasing is the worst advice ever for a man.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      Chasing is different than pursuing!

    • @JohnM... says:

      ​@CourtneyRyannot for SOME of us, who are invisible no matter what. There are thosr of us who, no matter how we present ourselves, always get the “fuc* off away from me” response, either in her eyes and disgusted look, or body language.

    • @michaelgoebel9370 says:

      ​@CourtneyRyan I would rather pursue a purpose not a person.

    • @SanVic says:

      ​@CourtneyRyan Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them. BTW Bad boys never have to follow her rule about chasing vs. pursuing.

  • @Harikejn says:

    Important things: 0:32 First Thing ÷ You’ve Stopped Chasing; 1:31 Second Thing ÷ You’re Finally Emotionally Available; 2:31 Third Thing ÷ You’re Improving Your Lifestyle, Not Just Your Looks; 3:37 Fourth Thing ÷ Women Are Starting To Treat You Differently; 4:23 Fifth Thing ÷ You’re Becoming Comfortable On Your Own; 5:37 Sixth Thing ÷ You’ve Built A Social Life That Brings You Opportunities; 6:31 Seventh Thing ÷ You’re Clear About What You Want And What You Don’t Want; 7:22 Eighth Thing ÷ You’ve Become More Self-Aware; and 8:32 to summarize all the told here.
    What you have told there Courtney, you are so right about these things. When someone has told the thing such as: “All women are same;” or perhaps: “All men are same.” I disagree with that, because that’s not true. People are very different, and they aren’t the same. Those who are saying these mentioned things, it only shows that they didn’t change the pattern, or perhaps the way of thinking (call it whatever you want) about some people. Honor exceptions to those who aren’t behaving in the mentioned pattern. Also women can be very supportive, since they know to make you feel very excellent.
    All in all you have to be relaxed and serious, since that’s the way showing of a maturity. All in all just simply go like this (in a positive way of thinking I mean).
    Patriarch Paul (you can search about that person on internet) once told one thing which goes like this: “It will be better, when we are feeling better.”

    • @SanVic says:

      Courtney has come up with another hostage demand list for nice guys, while bad boys don’t have to follow any of these rules and women have sex with them.

  • @austindmilligan says:

    Great video as always! Hope you, Teddy, and both your families have a great thanksgiving!!

  • @jeremywebster5432 says:

    This message is so powerful. Thank you!

  • @josephstevens9888 says:

    When I stopped worrying what people thought of me, things started to change for the better in my life.

  • @Danglybits-u7l says:

    Something changed ! a women i just say hi to in passing for years, literally stopped me in the street & chatted me up, and was very flirty.

  • @justinrauh3874 says:

    When I began practicing the things mentioned in this video, such as improving my lifestyle and building more self-awareness, I became the kind of man who was ready to invite a quality woman into his life instead of scaring her away. As a result, I’m now in an incredible relationship with a woman I intend to marry!

  • @Dean_Loves_Muppets says:

    I really appreciate your advice, Courtney! Lately, I’ve been chasing females a lot less, and really am doing what I want in my life, and am more confident with or without females I like. You’re super helpful as always. Happy Thanksgiving!

  • @Ninjawarror107 says:

    It helps to be rich

  • @lightnbubuner says:

    I once read the book The Girlfriend Magnet Masterplan and almost immediately started noticing that women were reacting differently to me. This book is like unlocking a cheat code

  • @theGhostOfMj1 says:

    Courtney, the list you gave was extremely helpful. thank you. I believe a check all of those boxes and it’s only a matter of time before i stumble upon someone who I click with. I’ve stopped chasing and i’m just gonna put myself in situations where opportunity can come my way.

  • @CassandraBeckner says:

    Men who focus on improving themselves, creating value, and projecting calm confidence notice that the right woman gravitates naturally 😉🔥

  • @NCFlexy says:

    Thanks for the warning. I’ll keep my head on a swivel. Don’t need to be blindsided at this point in my life. 😆

  • @wickedrebel512 says:

    This video made my day. I have been consistently doing all of the things mentioned in this video, and strangely enough, they seem to be paying off 😊

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