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How To Make Women Obsess Over You Sexually
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Well if she thinks something is off then she should provide solutions instead of complaining and leaving.
If she leaves, fine. Get another one.
Women have so many options these days. They dont have to burden themselves with helping men. She will just pick the next best candidate out of the 237 matches she got this week.
I’m so tired of hearing about these nitpicky “icks” men are supposed to tiptoe around. If it’s that easy for her to lose interest and attraction, she’s going to be a problem. If you’re this caught up in how she’s perceiving you and how you can and can’t act around her, you’ve already lost.
Four women and three men went out for a meal. The meal was seriously bad. The three men quietly commented on the poor quality and are everything. The four women loudly bitched about the meal and left most of it . . .
If she’s chasing a bedroom buddy on the apps, I don’t want her anyhow.
Most important rule, just be yourself
Be yourself, but not really
Exactly. If you’re not, eventually the real you will come through – it’s impossible to keep up the charade forever – and then the woman you’re seeing will suddenly feel like she’s dating a stranger all over again, and that’s worse, more of a shock, than being on a first date.
@sofaking1611this is the real rule.
I turned 30 yesterday, and I’m very much looking forward to seeing what this new chapter has in store for me! Many of the things you mentioned in your video are lessons I learned during my 20s, but it’s always nice to have these solid reminders. With that being said, I’m heading off on a date very soon. Happy Holidays, Courtney and Fellow Viewers!
What a fabulous mindset you have! Hope 30 is your best year yet, and have a blast on your date! 🎉
I always think if a woman isn’t worried about where you are, who you are with, or what your opinion of how she looks is then she isn’t interested in you.
I also think if you try to fake all those things then it’s not going to workout anyway.
Yeah, we should let the woman shows us that she is interested
Feliz navidad y prospero año para usted y su familìa, Courtney.
I’ve had girls, who I met on dating apps, say it was “too much pressure” by calling a date as a date. They say it wasn’t a date, but a “meeting”. People are crazy.
That is bizarre lol
They just want a free meal. Don’t expect to see them again. 😂
Turned 28 today been out of the dating market after I got dumped in 2022. Time to reflect and take some of what Courtney mentions
Number #2 is very true! And I can personally testify on that one. I talk to all women as if I’ve known them since the day they were born, and grew up knowing each other, in other words, warm and friendly!!!
Women get a lot of sh8t about their character and intentions. The last thing a woman needs is a man she finds attractive talking to her as if she is being questioned.
If a guy talks to a woman as if she’s a suspect and he’s the detective on the case, she will be turned off by it! It’s an immediate red flag indicator letting her know it would be way worse if she dates a guy who questions her.
If only they could act on that feeling themselves… 🤣
Then again, that would kill about half of this entire social media genre, I suppose, which would hurt shareholder value. So keep it up!
That thumbnail sums it up. I know I am, lol.
Thanks 🇬🇧
There are some things that I cannot conquer no matter what and that is perception of others whether accurate or not. For instance, I do have a nervous disorder. It is not disabling and sometimes it is not as evident as at other times but because of it I have to put a lot more effort than a lot people to not appear certain ways–i.e. people thinking I have anxiety or fear when I don’t or he must have yet another thing to hide or he wouldn’t be acting like this or he hates women. Usually I do have to do more listening than interaction in the moment or I would miss ninety percent of what someone is even talking about and if I don’t do that then it is not just wasting their time but mine as well. I’m sure I have missed out on a lot of great relationships online/offline, platonic/intimate etc. but those who are not as judgmental and come to understand that there are other reasons for certain things and that people can be made into monsters over time if misperceived. But I do strongly believe that most things are fixable to a degree or can be made better so they are things that need to be improved and repeated when we slip.
I’m good then, that seems like too much for me. Don’t need a woman.
0:00 Small habits kill attraction more than big mistakes
0:38 Confusing interest with availability makes you look like you have no life
1:46 Interview-style conversations instead of real connection
2:52 Overexplaining and second-guessing yourself signals insecurity
3:59 Trying to prove you are a good guy comes off as a sales pitch
4:49 Too much emotional intensity too early creates pressure
5:48 Being present but not engaged drains attraction
how else are you supposed to know someone better without asking them?
@sofaking1611 The issue is questions drilling into a woman, or anyone, instead of conversation and *normal,* balanced, back and forth. Endless questions end up looking to be all about you in reverse: never showing yourself, unable to converse, have nothing to offer, can’t talk normally, have nothing worth sharing. Even in non romantic situations, asking questions endlessly ends up looking not confident and off-putting, such as interviews.
This isn’t just advice for men, I’ve noticed women making these same mistakes as well. It’s not attractive when the balance is out of whack.
Adding to the whole good guy part: if you keep saying or keep trying to prove that you’re a “good man”, chances are you never were a good man yourself.
This is a coming from a 26 yr old dude who’s still trying to self improve himself, by the way.
Or more likely, insecure about who they are. I’ve been guilty of that, but I learned not to promote myself. I’m just me.
I remember the days I’d be too self conscious about texting a woman back too soon, or too late. So I would set an alarm a few hours away to remind myself, crazy ik
In USA Its called a “Single family home”…..NOT a Motel….”Accept only the finest and don’t settle for anything less”.
Ultimately, it really just comes down to men needing to have an internal sense of purpose outside of anyone else. When you no longer NEED someone else to validate your worth, dating and female interaction becomes nearly effortless. Don’t let people convince you that you can’t be happy outside of a romantic partnership. It’s a toxic half-truth that society continues to propogate because of our idealistic nature and obsession with fairy tales and romantic movies. A truly loving romantic relationship is amazing but it is not necessary for happiness. You have the power within yourself, but it starts with not allowing it to be controlled or altered by anything or anyone outside yourself.
Think of it this way: when you try to catch a butterfly, the harder you chase, the harder it is to catch, but as soon as you just chill, it ends up resting right on your shoulder.
Protip: try going to country bars and learning country swing and/or line dancing. Line dancing has been one of the best and easiest ways to meet women for me. Easy icebreaker, women love men that can dance, it really doesn’t require much rhythm, good exercise, can be learned alone or at classes (another great place to meet women), etc. It has done wonders for my confidence.
I’m generally apolitical and seems most women at country bars are either right-leaning or also apolitical, which is something I personally like (tired of dating liberal city women, personally). The women just seem generally pretty chill and down-to-earth at country bars. Sometimes you just gotta completely change your venue. Put yourself in the places where the kind of women you want to date would hang out.
A big step toward improving how you’re perceived is knowing when to STFU, & then realizing that that’s most of the time. Women are not attracted to chatty dudes.
I simply lost the ability to care what women like, dislike or want.maybe they could of avoided this by at least showing a sliver of interest instead of instantly ghosting or ignoring