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Mam i need your suggestion reccently my birthday day was there my toxic narsist mother who torchured ne for for5 years still not ashamed of it did love for me on my birthday gave some money to buy gifts for inside ebemity outside performing same changes I saw in my toxic community who was jealous of my financial situation hasedded me suddenly giving my side after torcgering for so many years making me quiet making me speech less iam wondering next what will happen as I don’t feel like living just experienced love bombing
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Thank You Doctor
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I always doubt that what i did to deserve this.
No, never. I’m afraid I’d fall for it, but nah, I wouldn’t. We all would, but… Nah.
It’s true. Regrets are painful but we must radically accept the truth and realise that when we know better we do better.
The only love bombing I ever get is future faking so nothing ever comes of it.
Future faking has been very disappointing for me in the last couple of decades.
“I wish I never would have met your father”
Translation: now I have you to deal with for the rest of my life. Took me 45 years to truly understand this. I am the definition of what falling apart looks like. I don’t even know where to get help. After everything I’ve experienced, my children deserve a healed, whole parent. So does my husband.
In a positive note, a judge has granted us a restraining order. And the end is in sight!!!
#MoMster of the year.
Can both partners be guilty of love bombing and be co-victims?
I am at a place in my life now where I don’t regret staying in too many toxic and narcissistic friendships for as long as I did because I have learned to spot the patterns in so many other people, and I have much better boundaries and tools for keeping my distance with them. (Also, if I had walked away sooner than I did, I might not have met the wonderful partner I have now, who gives back all the love I put into people who couldn’t reciprocate it.)
The research I am doing on narcissistic abuse revolves around my family of origin. I realized that what I witnessed and recovered from was 4 generations of narc abuse, etc.
My father and grandfather [mother’s father] were estranged from their children. It was a deliberate and proactive action from abusive malignant narcissists [mother’s father, grandmother]. Both men drank over their estrangement and abuse. Both men died prematurely from drinking.
If you don’t have a story to tell that you have someone paying for you as a woman , all the other women will be the same kind of monster in your life and not leave you alone just to have a job
Movies, tv and the music industry has set up generations to be love bombed. 😢
I have tried dealing with the love bombing .. twice, maybe 3 times.
Why.
Because I was in a transition n could use the excitement, the company, the renewal, the dynamic vibe.
I knew it was a set up but I really thought I was safe, behind the glass of my knowledge.
They made me laugh n I was no longer alone/alone.
Turns out … these vicious violent beasts have always something up their sleeves.
Something u can never phatom … u never see it coming. U sink.
N all u can say is : “this is an expensive orgasm” 😞😂
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Remember, there is no boundary with these beats. Do not even try to master the situation or set boundaries.
They will either crush u or spread their inner chaos
So glad I’m free of this life.
omg I love your earrings (not ❤️💣, I really think they are cool!)
Love should never be weaponized. What a horrible thing to do to sincere people.
I do wish I’d never met narc ex. So much damage done. But I’m out and all the wiser. It opened my eyes to a life-long pattern of toxic relationships that I needed to cut off. The fog is lifted, finally.
I do regret it, but I have 2 wonderful son’s, for who I give Thanks for everyday! The rest is a blur now. I’m over it All! Thank you Dr. R. Your help has been at the highlight of my healing❤