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4:31 Yes- it’s a lie of omission.
9:46 Doesn’t matter what the ‘root’ is. It’s intentionally misleading. I totally get the fear of rejection if they know the truth… but how much is that bad feeling about yourself going to be compounded when they find out the truth- AND that you lied to them? Rhetorical. Honesty and integrity are a high priority value to me personally, and that would make me mistrust anything you said to me prior or in the future. Most likely a deal breaker for me.
13:36 Yes Paula- intuition!
When a man lies to you about who he is when you first meet him, whether it’s a small or big lie, you can be sure your trust in him will be lower during the relationship. The whole point of dealing with your fears of rejection and abandonment is so you can show up authentically from the beginning. You can make mistakes unconsciously, but you tell a lie with full awareness and then make excuses, Jonathon! 💖🦋💛
We’re all grown. I’ve encountered white lies, lying by omission, given half truths, lack transparency etc. very true what Paula saids … omission is omission. Lack of transparency is lack of transparency. Those habits cause issues done the line
Ive had 3 older guys lie about age. One guy was 59 but was actually 69 (ok, that’s pretty dang bad), another 71 to 74 (I found this out google search) and the last (these are all very recently) was listing 69 but actually 72. I believe all of these were guys trying to beat the algorithms in catching my eye (at age 62). I guess they hope if they can just get their toe in the door.
But, it just doesn’t work!
Don’t do it!
You would want to know why they lied, which is compassionate, yes, but the second time they lied, how compassionate would you be? It seems like the 2nd time they lie, you may not feel very respected and would start to question whether there’s enough integrity to continue. At least I would.
Any lies, dump them !
A habitual liar does not change.
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Humans are often lying to themselves…
I’m with Johnathon on this one. We all wear masks until we feel safe. Two types of liars. One does it to hide insecurities and keep their outer mask on. Its extremely common. Cracks in self acceptance and not feeling whole. Digging deeper, go with their reasons and their consistency. Most people project and hide their terrified inner child. Discernment is key. People do drop their masks eventually, thats when the honey moon stage is over.
‘Lies are Lies’ seems similar to ‘rules are rules’ as ideal absolutism BS and not reality…there may be reason for ‘Lies of Omission’ depending on how vulnerable of self or on whether a reveal would expose someone else otherwise protected…especially if one has trauma in history…however ‘lies of manipulation and triangulation’ is of a different nature to take advantage…and requires accountability and discernment…
Great point… well said 👏
Lying about age by a few years would not bother me.
Words are not always beautiful nor are beautiful words always true.
Wm. Shakespeare
I feel like this guy is trying to find ways to justify lying😂
Understanding doesn’t mean justifying.