The moment I knew she was the one — in a fight

@Lovely_Linda_777 says:

I actually get exactly what you are trying to convey here, and this may not be the best video to bring this up on, because I have watched others where I feel like it was even more relevant than right now, but when it comes to your content in general one thing I’ve noticed is that it doesn’t seem like you take into consideration different attachment styles. If a man is an avoidant they are going to approach the situation differently than if they have a secure attachment style. Also there is straight up avoidant as well as anxious avoidant, etc.

So if someone has a different attachment style then you personally, some of your advice is not going to fit or resonate with that type of attachment style / partner. I’m not sure how much you know about attachment styles but it would be nice if you made a video approaching it from the perspective of the different attachment styles and how men would react based on that in each situation. That doesn’t even begin to touch on if the person has a personality disorder such as being a narcissist, struggling with depression, anxiety, for being someone who has borderline personality disorder or even bipolar etcetera etcetera. These things all change how someone is going to react, and it may not have anything to do with the person they are in the relationship with, so in my opinion the trick is to not take something personal unless you know it is actually about you. So communication is key always and if a woman were to watch your content without taking any of these other things into consideration they might think that what you are saying is accurate for their situation when in reality it is not because of these underlying factors that I am discussing.

As usual my comments are meant to be constructive criticism and not hating on what you do, but trying to make it more effective for everyone which as far as I can tell is your goal. You seem to be talking to all women in general about all men, but there are other things I could bring up as well that play into things from my perspective decades of experience. For instance I am an astrologer and astrology is much more than someone’s sun sign and that actually is not where we find or how we determine compatibility in relationships astrologically speaking. We use a system of calculating compatibility through something known as synastry (how your placements fit into their chart and vice versa). We also look at specific placements and degrees in the chart that means specific things, as well as asteroids etcetera etcetera. These things all give us a deeper understanding of the compatibility or the potential purpose for the relationship, and where conflict might arise.

Just thought I would bring some things up that I feel irrelevant and every time I watch your content I think about bringing it up and haven’t. I hope this makes sense to you and does not come off like I’m trying to tell you what to do. It’s just that I believe there are way more things to take into account then just one man’s perspective on relationships and how you felt when you felt you had found the one person for you.