Why calm love feels like nothing to you…
You keep waiting for the spark. But your nervous system learned a long time ago that love is supposed to hurt a little — so when it finally doesn't, your body reads it as nothing.
That's not a red flag, my dear. That's a smoke alarm going off in a house that isn't on fire.
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Nobody ever told you that safe would feel like nothing at first. 🤍
Be honest — has a good man ever felt “boring” to you, and looking back,
was it actually just… quiet? 👇
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What a Great analogy!! Thank you!! This is Probably true for many!
Thanks so much! Glad it landed with you! 🙂
I’ve learned to appreciate this characteristic of a consistent, predictable yet full of care love and respectful man. Nope. Not boring anymore. He is trustworthy. I love him.
Love hearing that! Yall are both blessed 🙏✨
Women are so used to disfunctional relationships, that when a good man comes along we don’t know what to think or trust him. It takes us a while to appreciate him and the safety and peace he can bring.
Well said! A good, steady man like that should be appreciated.