Why calm love feels like nothing to you…

You keep waiting for the spark. But your nervous system learned a long time ago that love is supposed to hurt a little — so when it finally doesn't, your body reads it as nothing.

That's not a red flag, my dear. That's a smoke alarm going off in a house that isn't on fire.

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Andrew McLaurin
 

  • @Mat_Shaffer says:

    Nobody ever told you that safe would feel like nothing at first. 🤍

    Be honest — has a good man ever felt “boring” to you, and looking back,
    was it actually just… quiet? 👇

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  • @Gardenlady59 says:

    What a Great analogy!! Thank you!! This is Probably true for many!

  • @marijess6190 says:

    I’ve learned to appreciate this characteristic of a consistent, predictable yet full of care love and respectful man. Nope. Not boring anymore. He is trustworthy. I love him.

  • @robinneal2264 says:

    Women are so used to disfunctional relationships, that when a good man comes along we don’t know what to think or trust him. It takes us a while to appreciate him and the safety and peace he can bring.

  • @Mimse79 says:

    Well said! A good, steady man like that should be appreciated.

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