What he actually wants back when he does something for you…

When a man does something for you, there's a reflex that kicks in. You thank him, and then you start looking for a way to even the score.

You don't have to, my dear.

The gift is receiving it. And the greater gift is receiving it — and then telling him what it did for you. A man who's stepped into that role is completely invested in how you feel, and hearing that it worked is what tells him he's the man in your life.

So say yes. Then say what it did. That's the whole circuit.

Take the free quiz — How Does He Experience You?

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Andrew McLaurin
 

  • @Mat_Shaffer says:

    Most of us were taught that receiving is taking. With a man who’s
    stepped up for you, it’s the opposite — letting it land IS the gift. 🤍

    Be honest: when a man does something for you, do you say thank you and
    let it be, or start figuring out how to pay him back? 👇 I read every
    single comment.

    Free 2-minute quiz on how he’s actually experiencing you:
    https://matshaffer.typeform.com/to/ZFhuDDN5?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=short&utm_campaign=what-he-wants-back&utm_content=pinned

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