What men notice more than technique in bed…
A lot of women hold back in bed for one quiet reason — they're worried they won't be good at it. That he's watching. Comparing. Keeping score.
He isn't, my dear.
What a man notices has almost nothing to do with technique. He's noticing whether you're actually there with him. Whether you want this. Whether it's real.
Clumsy and enthusiastic beats polished and careful every single time. You're not being graded. You're being wanted.
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Okay ladies, confession time 😅 How many of you have been so busy wondering if you’re doing it “right” that you forgot to actually enjoy yourself? (Raise your hand. I’ll wait.)
Here’s what I want to know: what’s the one thing that makes you hold back with him? The worry that you’re not good enough? Not experienced enough? Or something else entirely? Tell me down below. I read every single comment. 💛
And if you want to know how the man in your life is actually experiencing you, take my free 2-minute quiz. It’s a little scary how accurate it is 👇
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@Mat_Shaffer I worry that I’m not good enough that I don’t actually know what I’m doing. And I actually zone out that I don’t get to enjoy myself during it. He’s the only man I’ve been with and I hope for it to be so. But I’d also like to know how to make our sex life more enjoyable for me too
I believe this is true
Got to know.