Stop Giving Your Divorce Lawyer Your Entire Divorce

Divorcing a narcissist? Your lawyer may be one of the most important people on your team — but they shouldn't be your entire team.

If every upsetting text, every accusation and every sleepless night turns into an email to your attorney, you may be paying legal rates for jobs that aren't legal work. In this video I share what your lawyer is actually there to do, what belongs somewhere else, and how to walk into every attorney conversation clearer, calmer and more prepared.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 Your Lawyer Shouldn't Be Your Whole Team
1:15 What Your Divorce Lawyer Is Actually For
3:25 When Everything Feels Like a Legal Emergency
5:25 The Expensive Habit: Treating Every Conflict as a Legal Problem
6:35 The Question to Ask Before You Contact Your Attorney
8:20 How to Become a More Effective Client
12:45 You Are the CEO of Your Divorce

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I'm Victoria McCooey, High-Conflict Divorce Coach, Certified Divorce Mediator and creator of She Breaks Free. After my own six-year divorce, I now help intelligent women navigate divorce from narcissistic and high-conflict partners with more clarity, confidence and strategy. New videos every Friday.

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I'm not an attorney or therapist. Nothing in this video is legal or mental-health advice. Please consult your own attorney about your specific situation.

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