Why men go cold (even when they still love you)
He still loves you… he just stopped believing it can get better. And those are two very different problems. 💛
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Men very rarely fall out of love. What they lose is hope that the thing between you can change. A man can carry a lot if he believes there's a road out. What he can't carry is difficulty with no road.
So if he seems checked out, don't ask if he still loves you. Ask if he still thinks it can get better.
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This one surprises a lot of women… it’s usually not that he stopped loving you. It’s that he stopped believing it could get better. (I’ve been on that side of it myself, and it’s a lonely place to sit.)
Have you ever seen a man go cold and later realized it was hopelessness, not indifference? I read every single comment 👇
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The same is said about why women stay in abusive relationships. They have hope things will get better and they’ll get the man they love back
Such a good point. It’s called the sunken cost fallacy and it keeps women trapped for sure.
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Mine is a dismissive avoidant. How do you handle that?
Things usually get better when the person who wants to leave leaves rather than staying, causing a lot of strife trying to get the other person to leave because the unhappy individual lacks the maturity, self discipline, and courage to speak one’s truth , stand up, take the desired action necessary to defend and achieve what this person wants without bringing others down and wallow in misery with this unhappy individual. Carolyn. Myess said, “Love me enough to listen to me cry 3,times and then walk .” Good advice.