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15 Tiny Tests He Gives You When He’s Falling for You (That He’ll Never Admit)

If you asked me whether I test women, I'd tell you no. And I'd mean it. Spoiler alert… I do it anyway. Every man does. We just don't know we're doing it.

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These aren't games, and they aren't traps. Every one of these tiny tests is a man quietly asking himself one question: is it safe to love her?

And most women pass them, or miss them, without ever knowing a test happened.

This one's going to make you look back at a few conversations a little differently.

▼ IN THIS VIDEO ▼
→ Why where he takes you is a question, not a plan
→ The lean he does to see if you'll lean back
→ What his teasing is really checking for
→ Your hand in public, and what he's watching for in the next three seconds
→ Why he reaches for your bags (and what happens when you let him)
→ What he's listening for right after he tells you you're beautiful
→ The hug that goes one second too long
→ What he needs when he goes quiet (it's not what you think)
→ Two words after work, and the three seconds that follow
→ Why his best friend's opinion matters more than he'll admit
→ What he's really asking when he tells you about his dream
→ The future he slips into a sentence to see if you flinch
→ "I'm thinking about heading out with the guys Saturday"
→ "Hey, that kind of bugged me earlier," and why it's a gift
→ Your face when he walks in

If you've been searching for signs he's falling for you, how to know if a man is serious, how men show love before they say it, or understanding male psychology in relationships, this is the insider breakdown.

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Mat Shaffer is a dating and relationship coach for women. He helps women understand the way men actually think, feel, and connect, from inside the male mind.

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▼ CHAPTERS ▼
0:00 The test he doesn't know he's giving
1:43 1. He picks the place
3:09 2. He leans in
4:03 3. He teases you
5:20 4. He takes your hand in public
6:14 5. He reaches for the bags
7:28 6. He tells you that you look beautiful
8:49 7. The hug that goes one second long
9:37 8. He goes quiet
11:09 9. He says "long day"
12:26 10. His best friend
14:04 11. He mentions the dream
15:18 12. He slips the future into a sentence
16:58 13. "I'm thinking about heading out with the guys Saturday"
18:56 14. "Hey, that kind of bugged me earlier"
20:10 15. Your face when he walks in
21:32 Final Thoughts

💬 Which of these fifteen has a man been quietly giving you? Tell me below 👇🤍