5 Behaviors You Should Never Tolerate In A Man

@kathykonkle1097 says:

That was very helpful thank you. The date of my huge disappointment was the Thanksgiving holiday a year ago. I suffered 22 years of narcissistic abuse. I’m working to restore my ravaged self-esteem. It’s nice to be able to go forward now without having to endure endless criticism, put-downs and having my true personality suppressed. My sense of humor is slowly returning and yes, there could be some “potty mouth” if I get to cracking jokes but thankfully now my abuser is not around anymore to judge me.

@JonathonAslay says:

Exactly!

@TGCpottery72 says:

Oh dearest….you are so deserving o so much more than a friends with benefits situation!

@karenjudd5183 says:

Congratulations !! Proud of you being strong & finding your self-respect again !!

@catherinepatton8699 says:

Your example is exactly what l am saying.
Women are changing, men are not now the question is why not.
Think about it, why not.

@sabinasb2445 says:

@@mimiglaes2479, every information comes from someone.
Let’s be grateful someone shares useful information and not shaming someone for it.What does your behaviour beside criticism bring? How mature is that?

@GenXBitch says:

My relationship is doomed 😅 been together 30 yrs and I’m just now realizing it’s not a good relationship

@angelwings7930 says:

I learned that rather late in my life. It would have helped if I’d known it sooner.

@catherinepatton8699 says:

Absolutely, in the formative years of childhood parents are God to children.
Every word, belief they have about who or what they are.
They absorb every word, expression, doubt, or success told to them by the parent.
Shortly after or during that time, enters good or bad, ugly, pretty many values, lifestyles, race identity roles in life, gender identity and so on.
They begin to copy what they see absorbing every action, every word wanting to please the God’s they so love.
Of course there are exceptions.
Learned behavior sticks with them for years until critical thinking happens if it does happen as is taught seen, and so on there lies the conflict. Daddy says this, mommy says that, society this and that demonstrates this and that.
What and who is valued in our society?
I remember my brother’s saying to me around age 10 only men can be president so you can never be president.
It gets worse, no adult explains why not.
Enter religion, politics, careers, education, positions of authority, power control was gained by no one questioning the accepted status value of genders we just went along to get along.
Males made the money therefore males had the control, males were physically stronger therefore they had the power, males had higher education, education is power those males who did not have the opportunities l mentioned had the power simply because they were male.
Society accepted, did not question now let’s add race into the mix, the misfits, those who did not fit the mold of power.
There is so much more to this power control thing but by now you get my drift.
It’s not until we question authority, demand equality at the table and not ask for it that change will occurr.
Change of this magnitude will be fought tooth and nail from name calling, accusations threars, yes violence.
The pie must now be shared.
Power must be shared, women are demanding learning their value, self respect, education brings about freedom to be who we were meant to be.
Many males are slow to get aboard the new reality.
Simply put women of all races are growing, changing without permission from anyone, many males are not changing, growing as fast therein lies the struggle.
Knowledge is the power to and for everyone.

@user-fx1nf5pw4b says:

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