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This chick Marin came across as very feminine, sweet, and friendly! Just kidding! 🤦♂️
Exactly!!!! While I don’t disagree with her points with exception of the lower case thing that’s just weird & has no bearing on anything.
Her attitude & the vitriol with which she spat it out was unnecessary. It tells me these are the guys she’s choosing & wants to do better but why, she’ll still chase them despite everything. Also tells me she most likely doesn’t hold herself to same standards.
She’s an ick of a woman
😂😂😂
Her voice is even deep
The girl in the TikTok is describing the kind of guy she sleeps with. Be that guy, not her retirement plan guy.
Amen🙌
Agreed. That’s what missed in these videos are still great by the way. Women constantly don’t do what they say or practice what they preach Lol.
Actually, I think you have it backwards. She’s describing what she wants in a beta husband — but she’ll likely lay down for any Chad with six pack abs, a chiseled jawline, and a bad boy attitude. If a guy is hot enough, then all her rules go out the window.
Marin lol 😂 she’s the definition of LADY OF THE NIGHT
my husband uses lowercase in text, has a Roth IRA, and yet somehow he manages to keep the bills paid on time AND he’s also a wonderful man.
👏🏼
I don’t think she said that having a Roth was a bad thing. I think that part about an IRA was an order not a suggestion. hehe..
@@darrenskjoelsvold It’s good to have a secondary, more-aggressive investment sytem as well.
@DDD11239 I am a financial professional. I really shouldn’t be getting too into this conversation so what I say doesn’t sound like financial advice. That said I merely wanted to point out that she seemed to be recommending having one not saying not to have one as the commenter seemed to be interpreting this.
Liar
You are not a provider if you breathe from your left nostril.
Hahahaha
It’s challenging to keep viewing her with grace because of her constant snarling at each step of the way.
I certainly have ideas in mind about things I find unattractive in women. However, I would never—in 1,000 years—get on the internet to shout those things to the world.
Even when this woman approaches a valid point she sabotages it with her delivery and constant snarling.
I prefer not to provide for a woman. She would be a liability. If she has intimacy with you for free, then you know she truly likes you.
While she makes some good points about certain antisocial behaviors, what about her red flags? …posting videos on instagram, too much makeup, too much attitude and what kind of guy does she think is going find that is THAT unaware of emojis and memes. She’d have to be dating older guys or someone born under a rock. Anyone under 30 with have grown up with that stuff and are just ubiquitous things in today’s culture.
I know nothing of memes. I prefer obtaining literature through book-reading.
@@DDD11239 Yes, but while you may not be aware of specific memes, you know “what” memes are. I’m not a big meme follower either, but even at 51 I do know what they are.
You can’t be like that but she is hot and can do what she wants… lol. Courtney is so cute trying to make these tiktok wacks look like they are worth anything more than a pretty face… better to focus on yourself and let these women get multiple divorces. You attract what you put out there.
@@wildmildew1 I agree, Courtney is quite pretty, very classy, well spoken, grounded. The tic-toc girl, I don’t think she’s hot or pretty. She’s way too made up and I don’t know what she has done with her lips, but that can’t be natural. She looks ridiculous. And on top of that, she’s obnoxious. I prefer less loud, nor natural and more grounded, which is who I married. I actually started watching these video because my kids are at that age where they might start encountering women looking for a “permanent situation”, and I was curious what the dating world was like now, and some of these women are bloody nuts. I can only hope my kids will choose better. I can only guide them so much.
internet really has become a place where people just whine and complain about everything 🙄
@@kc270352 truly
While offering nothing in return.
@@GoatlikeitornotYeah I agree with basically everything she said, but what is she like? She doesn’t give off the personality or energy I’d want to be around.
@@Butyistherumgon Exactly my thoughts. She has a masculine attitude and comes off as rude, which is off-putting.
@@ButyistherumgonShe isn’t trying to date you, so who cares. It’s information, that’s it. It’s not a tinder app.
Making an arbitrary list of things that make people unattractive, makes women unattractive 😉
If men did it the way women do they would be viewed as monsters.
“Arbitrary” is an odd word choice here since
1) pretty much all things anyone finds attractive are “arbitrary”, and
2) there is a reasonable explanation for pretty much every point here
So idk, this seems like a childish clap back over nothing
oh no! My potential partner isn’t texting with properly capitalized letters! They’ll never be a good father!!!!
@@123SuperBeast also fair
Totally disagree dude. Making a list is the first step in learning how to prioritize and make rational decisions. If it offends you then you probably lack self discipline.
Typing in only lowercase is wild. My keyboard auto-capitalizes words. Having to go back and deliberately making them lowercase is a ton of pointless effort. 😂
Same 😂 if someone isn’t doing it deliberately though it’s not as bad lol
Imagine how difficult it is for the young kids who have to go back and deliberately change word spellings to sound more street.
They probably don’t use periods, thus no automatic capitalization occurs.
Most of these come down to: A man’s money should only be going to me and my botox
I don’t think that’s true at all
@@CourtneyRyan Not true for most women.
@CourtneyRyan sorry, but this shows lack of awareness of your own catalog. Even you have put forward some pretty shallow vibes. Not as bad as the vid you’re reacting to, but you certainly have suggested men should display certain cliche flags to attract a mate.
I don’t get it. 🤨 How does this video help anyone? A short, poor, out of shape man who does every item on this list will still not get a date from a woman like this. A woman who adds this list on top of her own is alienating any other men who might not check off one of these items.
I think most everyone knows a blue collar guy who is a responsible adult, likes sports over social media, and checks every box on this list. That guy is probably not getting a date this weekend because he is invisible to women.
Yes, the emoji was necessary. 🙂
The first one alone is a bad take. Someone posting photos a certain way on IG does not at all tell you if they’re marriage material. Judging people on such a superficial level will continue to leave them single.
Women are strong and independent. Women should not need men for support. Men would be wise to live a life of solitude and avoid the financial pitfalls of divorce.
5 things I think make a guy unable to provide:
1) He has no career ambition, direction, or plan for growing wealth.
2) Living paycheck to paycheck (uncontrolled spending or debt).
3) He avoids social interactions with people.
4) He has no interest in learning new skills or hobbies.
5) He does not proactively consider the cost of future expenses (e.g. a house down payment, car emergency, medical emergency, maintenance, etc).
I think this is a pretty solid list.
Good list, I would add just one more. He’s worked through any family of origin (past relationship) trauma/issues.
No 5) also applies to including a woman into one’s life = future expense (e.g. dates, entertainment, excursions, vacations, engagement ring, wedding ring, wedding, a house down payment, children, car emergency, medical emergency, maintenance, etc) all of which a women, seeking a provider, will expect said provider, to provide.
Those are very good points. Luckily Points, 1, 4 and 5 I got solved out. Points 2 and 3 is going to be changing very soon.
Point 2 is currently pay to paycheck due to my current wage rate and throwing as much money as possible into my 401K, but that will be changing come December and within the next several months (next wage increase will be $32 come December and then finally $64 an hour by April or May, the joy of being an electrician).
Point 2. I do not mind socializing whenever it happens either at work or at the gym or a family occasion. But honestly, I have nobody to hang out with or go out during the evening, why even bother going out? That and my job sometimes will cut in to that social period, especially if Overtime hits.
Respectfully, the woman in this tiktok comes off as someone who cares way too much about her appearance and clout and just herself in general (from an ego/vanity standpoint). I did go check her link, btw. She isn’t wrong about a handful of things but she really doesn’t seem like the kind of woman I’d take any advice from. I respect you Courtney, and value a lot of your takes, so I understand you want to display as many viewpoints as possible. She doesn’t want a man chronically online, but she IS chronically online.
I genuinely feel bad for any guy that ever dated that woman.
This is one of my greatest frustrations with online dating right now: women are so much about “here are my requirements” and “here are my deal breakers” up front rather than giving reasons I would want to date them in the first place. I’m looking for dates, not job interviews. And if you want people to be interested, be interesting!