Finding Your Purpose After Divorce – Rene Garcia Divorce Coach
Finding Your Purpose After Divorce – Rene Garcia Divorce Coach
In this video, I'm going to show you how to begin working on yourself after a break-up.
If you're feeling lost and disconnected after a breakup, then this video is for you. I'll share with you tips on how to focus on yourself and rebuild your self-esteem after a breakup. I'll also give you advice on how to begin working on yourself, so that you can start living the life you want and deserve.
Just Got Dumped? Your Wakeup Call To Grow | How to Become a Better Man After a Breakup, I hear it all the time "I have to find myself" but what does it really mean? As a divorce coach, I discuss self improvement after a breakup because the sad answer is not typically because we'll do some reading, reflecting but no true application. Finding yourself doesn't really work, it's a cop out. This video is about how to reinvent yourself, I discuss how what to do if about self esteem issues. What you need is not to learn about yourself but instead, full on reinvention. In learning about yourself after a marriage, you're sticking to the status quo. That's not really growth. You must get out of your comfort zone and try a new social circle. Common pitfalls is the inertia that takes place, others are us doing it for our ex and yet others are our lack of motivation. Here, I discuss how to put action not just reflection on your growth. As a divorce coach, I help men be the higher value male so please watch, like, comment and subscribe. A lot of guys are lost in a post divorced world. This video discusses how to start over after divorce
Chapters Include:
0:00 Don't Learn but Reinvent yourself
1:11 Why Reinvention is perfect time during separation
1:40 Begin with Self Esteem
4:26 Keep your Mind Busy and Clean UP
5:32 Work Out
6:09 Pitfalls of Reading
6:38 Learn Communication Style
8:21 Dating as Inner Growth
10:40 Finding Help and Join our FB Team
11:40 What Inner Growth Should Look Like
12:44 What I Read and YouTube Recommendations
14:23 Me Talking to Myself in the past
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New video !! Defiantly find yourself again !! Be yourself / find out what you want again ! And most of all learn from your experiences !!!
Thanks. I say the old you doesn’t work anymore. Be the new you!!!
Click on link below for free 90 minute consultation. I’m not a commercial, I keep it real. I ask a lot of questions but very little about what happened in the breakup. I leave that to therapists. I ask about you, where you’re at and move forward. Reach out and change your life today. Here’s the Link: https://calendly.com/renesance/free-consultation
Great advice! Also relevant for women.
Thanks Elisa, you’re very correct. You’re now in hype-speed to the road of growth and you’re free to reinvent yourself without concern of anyone stopping you.
@@Mensdivorcecoach it takes a while to heal. But once you can pick yourself up and stop feeling sorry for yourself, is when you can reinvent yourself.
Good share! Thanks for posting
Always a pleasure. I just hope people see the importance of reinvention.
Good advice.
Thank you Melissa. I know that this video focuses on men but it’s the same concept. Remember, knowledge is power only when it’s applied.
That was great
Shana, is this “Shana”, the one that gave me the gift of the “Red Pill” Knowledge?
Yes it’s me !!! I found my way back in.. your videos are great… I’m sitting here catching up on them now… and I have cut my notifications on so I will know when u post here …
Hell yeah! Let’s keep ourselves busy. It’s like they say…..idle hands are the devil’s playground
That’s awesome. Don’t know if you felt this way but when the thought of me being alone came, I was scared to become a couch potato and wanna sleep life away. Quite the opposite happened. I never watch TV except Youtube (HEHE) and I’m always doing something.
Since I had my surgery and am now starting to get better quality sleep I’m finding that I have a more positive attitude and am wanting to do more around my house so I guess you could say that I’m feeling that way now and it’s about time.
In his Facebook group, it’s worth stopping in and saying hello fellas.
Thanks Chester and I’m very glad you’re getting something out of it brother. Many thanks.
Just wanted to let you know your videos have helped me immensely. They were spot on! I’m grateful for what you’re doing.
Ray, I love these types of comments and thank you. I’m glad we connected.
Thanks to Rene Sance’s videos, I was able to move onto higher ground with a rapidity that impressed me. I really felt he put into words a lot of what I already knew. I already have a decent network that helped me through, or I definitely would have hired him. Turns out I didn’t even need a coach, but his videos were enough. My mourning period lasted a few months. I’m not exactly sure how fast as I had highs and lows, but this program works! I highly recommend you get help through this. I’ve already recommended his videos to people who are currently where I was earlier this year.
Thanks for the video. Just got a new subscriber
Thanks Brother. Please join our free, private FB Group. Just make sure you answer the questions https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
Thank you for changing my way of thinking
You’re welcome buddy, may I asked what specifically changed?
You are helping me more than you know. Seriously thank you.
Thank you Rex. I hope you joined our free and confidential FB Group. Take the quality of life survey and then set up a one on one. May I ask how you heard of this channel?
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
I applied for the group.
Despair brought me here bro. But your videos have opened my eyes. I gave her all my fire. Every f***ing ounce. I must give myself that fire.
Glad to see your request. Accepted and left you a DM. Check your messenger. I tend to leave welcome messages to those entering.
So touch her fingers, right? Nah, jk, catchy video, I watched to the end, some good positive material. Can’t collapse after life events. These things happen.
That’s the way to think. I know you feel your life is falling apart. We have all been there. You’re at the “what now”. That’s what the channel is all about brother. Videos to wake up regularly and keep reminding you these can be some of the best times in your life.
This gives fernando from gta 3 vibes
I’ll take that as a compliment brother. Thanks. Join our FB Group. There’s a waiting list but say you’re from the channel and I let in right away.
This video is a cut above the rest 👍💪
Good words. I’m a little over one year in this. Really struggling with purpose and “divorced and disowned” that goes through my head. But I realized I gotta be who I was before the marriage and the kids. I been some one else for almost 30 years. Greatfull for the experience of husband and father. Now it’s time for me to return. Dang this sucks.
Yes very true, more family connection and friends from before the marriage.
Brother, join our FB Group (say you’re from the channel) and set something up my man. http://www.mensdivorcecoaching.com
Fucking love u Rene I’ve been in my apartment almost four weeks and I’ve been following your videos and boy my life has changed Iam not feeling sad or lonely more like at peace and excited trying to figure out my new self , I’ve been in my apartment surround by new furniture new clothes , I’ve been dating multiple women and scoring each time Iam good life is good I continue to make money and have a drive to make more money and hit da weights , I’ve shaved my beard and now I just keep my go tee clean cut and trim , I’ve opened up a Charles Schwab account to started to invest in etfs , life doesn’t end for me at 44 Iam ready to rise thanks to u and your videos , god bless u brother , I’ll continue to watch your videos so that I don’t have no slip backs
@@Mensdivorcecoach where do I go on fb to find this divorce group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978 Just say you’re from the channel. There’s a waiting list but if you’re from the channel I let you in as soon as I see it.