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Become the equivalent of the person you wish to attract.
This!
Funny how that’s normally a thing for men to do. Women don’t have to.
Yes. Bill that’s dead right.
Or better
Tell that to a short, bald indian
She lost me at “I’ve already done that”. Sounds like she hasn’t been making the best choices in men.
To any dudes who might read this comment: The girl in the video got one thing right, though. Sort your lives out before trying to find a good woman. Don’t expect her to be the catalyst for you doing so. It won’t work, and that’s not fair to either of you.
For sure , I got that as well. And how Courtney uses this to sling shot to her listed topic shows how out of touch she is.
She’s married to a total dweeb for his lifestyle and money. She tells us all these millions of things we need to do to get women, but with her and most of them, it came right down to just having the money and lifestyle that they want to latch onto. Because they couldn’t get that on their own.
@@fillthefeeder I see nothing wrong with using this video to list her points, tbh. Just replace the woman in the video with your idea of a “high value” woman, if it makes you feel better. Courtney’s points are still valid, even if they don’t particularly apply to the video she’s reacting to.
There are still great women and men out there, but it does require doing the work and changing yourself in order to find someone that aligns with what you value.
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What if I already think nothing needs to be changed
@@TonyKe-s6k I shall hazard a guess here and state, women will claim if you see no reason for change then you have narcissistic tendencies towards changing the women you choose, the consensus being, she must fit your mold, the type of women you seek.
A woman not drinking, not partying, and working out is the standard? Shouldn’t that be the minimum?
The bar is lower than ever for modern western women, and most still can’t pass it…
@joelbellJB And the bar has never been higher for the average man.
In the upper Midwest you are asking for a unicorn. And if you don’t make at least 250k pr yr good luck getting a good one.
@@matthewsaltzman5573 Luckily (or unluckily), I’m in Florida. Though honestly, if a woman will only look at you if you are in the top 1% of society, I would in no terms call her a good woman. That’s a gold digger who will only stay at the well as long as it produces water.
@@OcbaPaul exactly…
She goes to the gym, but has no boyfriend.
There is a message in her current single condition right there.
Also, she says she doesn’t “go out”, yet comments about party boys. Just where is she meeting those fellas? Maybe parties?
Facts 😂 Don’t listen to what she says, watch what she does 👌🏻😝
She is attracting those guys cause she doesn’t want to admit she still parties a bit.
As a man, i would prefer someone who is caring, kind, hard working, civilized.. 😊
damn bro these comments really show men are frustrated af and dont even want to try anymore.
Facts are facts 😂
Try for what? When our advances can be weaponized as a form of misogyny, why approach? When our attempts – sans aesthetic approval – are viewed as manipulation and/or coercive control, what is the outcome. Modern women, in general, are transactional, “What have you done for me lately!?”
Ngl Courtney finding a good genuine woman that’s going to be there for a man even when he is struggling at a certain point in life is increasingly rare.
It’s almost impossible they mostly want a free ride.
Nothing here to disagree with, only perspective to add: The woman in the video seemed to be describing her experience on occasions when she presumably gives in to pressure to hang out with people she doesn’t normally hang out with, for whatever reason. The men in the group quickly identify her as an outlier because she’s obviously not participating in whatever vices the others are, and they decide to hit on her, for whatever reason. I phrased it like that, because they’re hitting on her for one of four reasons: 1) genuine curiosity; 2) she’s pretty; 3) showing off; 4) maybe she’ll turn out to be “easy”. Notice that a desire for self-improvement or to get a quality girlfriend weren’t in my list. That’s because men who enjoy hanging out in bars, clubs and the like aren’t looking for a woman who’s ultimately going to be a killjoy, and aren’t looking to change anything about themselves. They *are* curious about the odd woman out, just as a woman in a similar situation might be curious about a man who doesn’t fit with the usual crowd. 2 and 4 are self-explanatory, and guys in groups will tend to show off. The lines about wanting to be more like her – going sober, going to the gym more, etc. – are exactly that: lines. I don’t know that they really care about being rejected. They simply don’t know how else to approach her. Everything else that you and the woman in the video said are spot on.
“I’ve already done that” but that’s what you did. You set the standard. You’re not going to attract those of us who aren’t like that. If your end game is a serious person and a good relationship, then you should cultivate that from the start. If you’ve been a party girl or a party boy then breaking that expectation is difficult. Begin cultivating a respectable persona from an early age and don’t get into the party scene or the hookup culture scene if you want to find a valuable good person at any point.
If you want to change from that you have a lot of work to do. You also can’t have an elevated sense of yourself because you corrupted yourself early on. You lowered your value and bringing it back up is hard work and you can never regain all that you lost embracing that life style.
This goes both ways. Men are not held to a different standard. Women aren’t held to a different standard. Men and women lose value embracing the party lifestyle and if you’re looking for a good partner later on be prepared for disappointment and perhaps find someone else who corrupted themselves and is trying to turn over a new leaf and the two of you can become more respectable together. But your standards lower them. You don’t deserve the best if you haven’t always given your best.
*Build a life you’re proud of, and the right people will naturally gravitate toward you.*
The type of guys that girl is looking for aren’t looking for a former “party girl”.
The moment she said “been there, done that” … red flag.
Not a huge one and not a deal breaker but definitely a turn off.
Why it is the problem or red flag? People can change and come to bright side. We are changing constantly. I used to drink a lot. I did not have a problem. Just hang out a lot with friedns and drink. So what? Now I do not drink, I am 40 and have other inretests than in 20s.
I was going to say, as soon as she said that I knew what was happening.
@@daniellehotsky1776this is female “accountability” gentleman. As long as she changed now her past doesn’t matter. She’s not like other women now!
@@daniellehotsky1776 Women, so do men but the expectation, from women, seems to be that men should maintain their gendered role whilst should be allowed the flexibility, and fluidity, to be one or the other, as suits her needs/requirements/wish or whim. This is 2024, after all, que sara, sara.
Women have to show interest in me before I show interest in them!
Courtney, you are wrong, what she is saying is ‘I have had my fun, now i am ready to settle down’.
And what many men want now is to just live in peace.
Similarly, a masculine, alpha man doesn’t want to change a masculine woman into a feminine woman. Ive heard women say they want a man who can bring the feminine out of them. They’ve said they want a man who can put them in their place. Masculine men dont want to have to change a woman, we don’t want to have to put her in her place. We want her to have done the work on herself BEFORE we meet her. A masculine man isn’t going to look at a masculine woman and say, “ hmm, I wonder if I can de-masculinize her. I wonder if I can change her into the feminine woman I’ve always been looking for. I wonder if I make her stop challenging me on everything and make her stop competing with me for who leads the family.” No, he will just walk away and find a different girl who ALREADY is the sweet, feminine, girly girl he’s been looking for.
Vey often problem. Many many women thinks they can change others.
I’m glad I’m married 😂. Too much work for these nuts😂
She ends up with these bad boys because they are attractive. She will never change, the nice guy is not usually the most attractive. Attraction is all based on looks. Full Stop.
So much facts here. Was just thinking this 😂
It’s kinda sad how the great advice videos like this never go viral, but when you react to “viral” clips it’s always some super crazy advice 😂
1. Be Attractive
2. Don’t Be Unattractive
Any questions?
Facts straight facts 💯
Courtney, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I found your channel this past year after a difficult breakup. Your videos have been instrumental for me regaining my confidence and understanding—both for myself and relationships with others. I grew up with only brothers and without a mom for critical years of my childhood. You’re an amazing woman; you aspire me and so many others to be better men. I wish you continued success. Cheers to you & your family. Very happy Thanksgiving!
“I already did that” – code for “I used to be for the streets now I’m approaching 30 and need to settle down”
You’ve been warned fellas