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I started with Tiege Hanley a week ago. The giant red patches on my skin from months ago aren’t going away. I’ll keep using this for a few more weeks, but I’m worried about this redness
I’m thinking of using VR chat to work on my conversation skills. You open the program and you’re instantly at a party full of people who look like characters from anime and League of Legends.
Some of them even speak English!
Record yourself. Serious public speakers do it to find out EXACTLY how they sound
Dude….please.
I’ve always felt confident whenever it comes to having conversations with someone. My tips are to relax, have a good laugh, ask engaging questions, take some pauses to let things sink in, and keep an open and rational mind. Ultimately, you just want to enjoy the moment with person, and the goal of a pleasant conversation is to get to know them. The rest will fall in place in good time if it’s meant to be. With that being said, catch you all later because I’m going on a second date, and I’m ready to have more fun conversations with her today!
Nice
Wish you well on your date man
Yay have fun!
Confidence and casual conversation is a great advantage for dating. It goes a long way to gauging your attraction and compatibility especially if you dating for a long term commitment rather than a more casual relationship.
However, she is looking at that conversation much more critically than you are and is way better at pulling out red flags than you are. So the more you know about women’s red flags the better better the conversation will go. Also knowing what the green flags are (sexual attraction) is just as important. Green flags allow for a next date and out of the friend zone. Green flags can put you in the casual date/hookup box or in to the serious relationship box. Your success depends on what she is looking for.
This is also a great time for setting your initial boundaries and finding out a little of her dating history is. Indirect questions over several dates can often get the information more freely than being direct here. Body count matters, for you to understand her mindset. It’s a red flag but not always a relationship killer. But great care in must be taken if you want to get into a relationship with a woman that has more than about 3x yours.
@@CourtneyRyan it was another fun date! We explored the Christmas market together and learned more about each other through our conversations. I’m truly glad to have met someone who shares the same purpose in dating: taking the time to understand one another. There’s still more to go, but for now, I’m enjoying taking things one step at a time 😊
I’m genuinely sick of the negative and red pill comments on here. Just stay single yall…PLEASE! Men and women have screwed the dating pool but if you wanna get angry about it, stay mad! It makes me not wanna support anyone anymore cause everyone thinks dating is a competition that yall feel the need to tear others down to lift yourselves up! Fly solo!
🎯 Well said thank goodness I ain’t the only one 👏👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯💯
People would much rather complain about the issues with modern dating rather than look for healthy solutions. Negativity is way more emotionally stimulating than positivity, so best believe the negative comments from red pill followers will continue.
Most just sit there watch Fresh n Fit, and “dating coaches” that just regurgitate pickup lines and scripts, lacking true authentic connections. I was working on a book about men’s mental health and my experience. Due to so many dudes being lustful, breaking bro code just to get laid, I don’t support anyone anymore, and my book will not see the light of day. So to the “mansophere” morons, you’ve yourselves to blame.
Red pill ideology is a toxic worldview that doesn’t have a solution but just blames women and groups for why things are terrible for men. Also, a ton of ethnic and religious chauvinism that doesn’t solve the problem.
Happy people don’t spend their time hating on a group of people all of the time.
I used to hang out with some of these guys but left because they’re miserable and it brings you down.
@@ajtaylor8750 I was working on a book too about my mental health experiences, but it’s not seeing the light of day. Dudes out here are lustful and will break bro code to get laid.
Red pill dorkosphere morons watch too much Fresh n Fit, and these “dating coaches” that just regurgitate pickup lines and force dating apps on you. I worked with a dating coach and I’ll tell ya, she didn’t care…
For me, I find it difficult to start a conversation myself…. however, if someone else ends up starting it, then for some reason I don’t have a problem with talking to them about stuff, I don’t know why.
Man, I thought only I had this problem. Starting convos is awkward for me, because I overthink about what topic to broach, but I can somehow latch onto something that’s provided in conversation.
“to be interesting, you must first be interested!” Love that quote!
To lead, learn to follow
5:40 the worst part about this is when you do it, and people show zero interest in you in return. A lot of people can be very, very self-centered and self-important and mistake your curiosity for sucking up or supplication.
You need to be able to accept that risk. It certainly can and will happen, just like a fortune cookie may be empty. That’s when you accept it as the way it goes sometimes, and you look for the next opportunity.
Look at it as a blessing. You learned quickly that person is not for you. Most women aren’t for you which is a hard one to accept. Finding a match is a numbers game. The faster you rule someone out the freer you are to move on.
@@Gopher755 For women it is a blessing. It weeds through the applications. For men it is the 100000th rejection.
Magical conversation words:
“Tell me more.”
Don’t just say it, listen.
@@x-man5056 Nah just say it.
Also,
“Loving the energy” and all that useless crap 🙂
@CatGamer i dont think i could say that without unironically feeling like a cult leader
@@niallk9336 Maybe you are a “unironic” cult leader then. It is a simple thing.
Great advice, Courtney. Another important thing to remember is, its okay to be nervous. The other people are probably just as nervous and have their own insecurities. Just try to have fun, and don’t get down on yourself if it doesn’t flow perfectly all the time.
Absolutely nothing wrong with being nervous, but I believe it to be a choice that we make. Not the being nervous part, but the way we regard first dates, like job interviews, as a life defining character assessment that determines our worth. Going in there feeling like we have something to lose does a huge disservice to us, and it hides the fact that this is a two-way process and we are there to see how suitable they are as well. Both people on a date are ultimately looking for love and romance and contrary to popular belief there is no such thing as the wrong person, you’re just trying to find the right person for you. Disappointment is understandable if it doesn’t go well, but you leave no better of worse off than you started. So you may as well enjoy it for what it is. Likewise with job interviews, one person wants a better job or needs an income which any job could provide, whereas the employer NEEDS staff to exist and they have everything to lose. If you are going to commit a third of your life to that job then you want to believe that they are right for you and the interview is their chance to show you how worthy they are.
Hi Courtney, I’ve watched a few of your videos, most recently the above and “4 Things That Make Men Seem Creepy To Women?” Your thoughts are well put together and you share real life events to prove them, you are not condescending or picking on men in the least, you straight up explain, some women do this and it’s not fair/ appropriate, and I never feel you emote, “THIS IS THE WAY”.
I’m not looking for a romantic relationship; I wish to improve myself first. Your videos I’ve seen are applicable to many situations, and should improve my life in general. That is why I am subscribing to your chanel. Thank you very much. -Sean
Thanks for being here and for the kind comment, Sean! ❤️
I usually never comment on any social media platforms but I had to on this one. This video came at the perfect time for me. Just came from a Friendsgiving event yesterday and I felt so out of place and boring. I will use these tips for sure. Thank you Courtney!
The moment skin care comes I’m like it’s the Tiege Hanley again.
Even after nearly 3 years of Following your channel, I still admire the professionalism in “If you are new here…”. Your audience is growing rapidly I’m sure. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family Courtney.
Are you dating?
the more I stay as myself, the more I find that people don’t care who you actually are, they care about the construct of you in their head, and if you don’t meet that construct 200% of the time, then you can leave, and people like that are the rule, not the exception, I wish things are different, but unfortunately they aren’t, and won’t get better
If they don’t care about who you truly are but you do care about who they really are, then you are special
I would prefer if we have private discu-ssion!
“To be interesting, you must be interested” that is SO true. I know that through experience, from not caring at all in certain situations vs being interested and having have deep and intelligent conversations
I would prefer if we have private discu-ssion!
Awesome! The importance of authenticity can’t be exaggerated unless your goal is future misery for you and another human being. It’s both healthy for everyone and a moral obligation to be yourself, flaws and all.
I would prefer if we have private discu-ssion!
Oh? Then why is authenticity punished so brutally? Most men’s authentic self is under performing, yet we force ourselves to be better and it kills us early.
Yes, yes, YES!! Thank you for these new ways of looking at things, and encouraging us to focus on what really matters, and cultivate good character traits.
Thanks for being so special, Courtney….You make everything better!
I recommend reading No more Mr. Nice guy and how to win friends and influence people.
Also Les Brown, Wayne W. Dyer, and Claude Steiner.
*Many men underestimate the power of storytelling in conversations. Sharing personal experiences with enthusiasm not only makes you relatable but also keeps the interaction lively and engaging.*