This Is Why So Many People Are Single
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Bruh, who told her she is rare? I saw 20 of her in 5 minutes on IG.
She seems sweet!
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LOL. Well her looks are hardly rare but who knows, maybe she has a good personality. Doesn’t seem terrible from the video compared to most Tiktokers!
Looks aren’t everything. Her being more grounded makes her better than someone that just looks good. Come on. Lol
@@CourtneyRyan Really? She’s really arrogant & regards herself as settling if she can’t get Mr Perfect.
Today I asked a lady out for the first time and also heard my first No😅😅 but gonna keep moving, feeling confidence that i finally asked someone out.
Proud of you!
Assume 80-20; even if you are doing everything right, if you are at all normal then 80% of women won’t be interested in you. So you need to ask 5 for every one that says yes. If it takes 12 before one says yes, ok. If you ask 20+ and all say no then you need to look at things you may be doing wrong or being wrong (a few people are just really unattractive but most people who say they’re ugly are just normal with low self esteem).
Personally I minimised rejection by first matching on eHarmony, chat for a bit, then ask them out. With that pre filtering I got about 80% acceptance.
@@CourtneyRyan🌌💮🧠🫀LikeWise!!❤
@@simontmn thanks for the stats, I will try 4 more people, but I was outdoor not internet
You are one step closer to a yes. Keep grinding, learning, and growing.
It isn’t marriage men are avoiding. It’s divorce.
preach
100 Percent
Bars.
Men are avoiding marriages too. Marriage has become miserable for them.
If that were the case, Catholic marriage rates wouldn’t be in decline
Imagine listening to *that* voice all day 😵💫
Really? I don’t think it’s bad
@@CourtneyRyan Seemed ok to me too.
@@CourtneyRyanIt’s the vocal fry and the uptalk. Women don’t pick up on it as much as men do, but it’s infuriating after a while.
I also agree is a bit angering after some time. It seems she is not talking naturally
😂😂😂
I give her props for being truthful about sometimes not liking men because it’s fair to feel as if the other gender isn’t doing a good job collectively. I know that men sometimes feel as if women suck, and that shouldn’t be something you get demonized for voicing. However, staying mad or hateful towards the other side won’t help you get any closer to being in a relationship.
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Did we all watch the same video? That chick was arrogant and super irritating.
Did Courtney miss the part where the kardashian literally said she hates men 😂
Courtney is reasonable on her channel, but 100% still views the world through the modern woman lens. I highly doubt shed rebuke her friends if they parroted the typical man-hate garbage they hear on tiktok
@@WorldlyAuras-ze9yfshe said she hates bad men…. lol
Lets not come down on Courtney. She is a respectable person who is just as capable of being wrong, making mistakes or having questionable takes as anyone else. She, as a woman, failed to see the tiktok girl through the lens of a man and gave her personal opinion whether we agree with it or not. She did not say anything to deserve being demeaned over
Lame argument on her part, so does everyone lol society hates bad men but over glamorizes bad women.
The perfect partner doesn’t exist.
The best partner does – someone who has gotten to know throughout your relationship.
And getting there simply takes compromising and sacrificing.
Maybe just put the phone down for a minute. 🤷🏼♂️
Completely disagree
🤔 A recent study showed that 1 out of 3 people in a relationship are cheating.
Now I’ve just got to figure out if it’s my girlfriend or my wife.🤔
This one got me
@@williamlanger9229 👊🏼😁
Are people really settling?
A big dose of self-reflection, avoiding fake hype that others are telling you, and honestly understanding what value and values one brings would go along way in address any unrealistic expectations.
People tend to overestimate how “rare” they actually are.
especially those that only provide beauty
They take rareness for granted and they become basura people
Yeah it’s not rare to find a woman who hates men so I’m not sure what she’s talking about
this actually makes me feel better. Sure, I’m not 1 in a million – but either are the women who I put on that pedastal.
@@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g We are all 1 in 8 billion, if that makes you feel better.
They’re expecting to date an influencer.
She had a good men and now she is single. Tells me everything about this woman. How many men dodged this toxicity. If I had to spend more than 10 minutes with this woman, I will have to find new job in a new city to start over.
I picked up on that too lol. You had a good man… either she dumped him thinking she could do better or she is not all she’s made herself up to be
Dont assume why they broke up
Fr
@@theonehaly Well, what else is there?
Your hardships are still nothing compared to that of the life of a sub5 male.
I’d rather go through what the MSTOW stands have gone with as far as women go, than to live life as an ugly guy
Excellent video, I love watching you. You talk about this with so much energy and, of course, knowledge in my opinion. Here are 3 things that have helped me:
– I approach girls (I am more relaxed)
– I read a book titled hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest (this changed me as a person and I learned a lot)
– I spend a lot of time improving myself and my knowledge”
When my mom was younger, she made a list of traits that she wanted in her future husband. One of the items on the list was “Doesn’t drink coffee” … My dad pretty much checked off all the other boxes on her list with the exception of drinking coffee. They have been married for over 50 years. If this relationship were to develop under today’s societal influences, I’m not 100% sure she would have “settled” over something that, to me, seems a bit trivial. I guess what I’m saying is don’t write off guys or gals who may not check ALL the boxes, they may check those boxes that you never even thought of!
Their list is a hundred times longer now and no man can live up to it, even a little. Anyone they do get into a relationship with, they always look down on them as they “settled” and are always looking for a bigger better deal.
That video reminds me of an encounter I had last weekend at Walmart. I was grocery shopping and I ran into my old friend zone girl. I was polite and kind, she asked me about what I was up too, what I did for a living ext. She told me about herself. She had 2 kids and wasn’t with the father and she said she had never gotten married. I remain kind and curtious and I told her that it’s was great seeing you again but I had to go. I didn’t even get out of the store and she had FB messaged me and asked if I wanted to get coffee sometime. I politely declined because I wasn’t really attracted to her anymore but when she was younger she was really pretty and always had options galore. I guess if you continually explore every available options you may never find one you like?
Well done.
Exactly. It’s like Slifer The Sky Dragon. If you’re not careful, your greatest strength can be turned against you. 😂🤣
The name of the game for women is to seek virtue and to be humble. If they can master that, they wouldn’t have any problem dating
@@BASSFZz I honestly thought about taking her up on the offer but I really didn’t think it would work out
I had a friend zone girl several years ago and if she asked if I wanted to join her for a drink or coffee, I’d have told her to f off. A couple of years after I quit chasing her, I saw that she put on weight and wasn’t hot anymore. I can only imagine how much more she’s put on in the intervening years. Considering how she was such a party girl/borderline alcoholic when I knew her, and that today I’m health conscious and work out regularly, I think I dodged a bullet.
She used to be the prize in your eyes, now you are. She gave her best years to another dude, now tried to offer you what’s left + a bonus of 2 kids. Kids deserve the best but if I were you I would not get in there.
That woman is a walking red flag
Welcome to social media.
She’s like a ‘Don’t pick me’
When these women say there are no good men left, they’re talking about good looking, tall, and successful men who will let her run the relationship while never questioning when she’s out of line.
The funny thing is those men exist and are single too. And they don’t like that witch
This is a very rare occasion where I have to respectfully disagree with Courtney’s take. There was hardly anything refreshing about that girl’s take beyond “not all men suck”. She basically just took “all men suck” and slapped a different coat of paint on it with the logic of “no matter how acceptable your man seems, you can always do better”. She even said “I’ve had a good man”. My immediate question was “Ok, where is he? Why is it past tense?” I guarantee it’s past tense because she found someone she thought she could “upgrade” to and then dumped and/or cheated on the good guy only to get pump n dumped by the “upgrade”. Going by the red flags I picked up on from that tiktok, I don’t think I would date her.
However, everything Courtney said about settling and compatibility and such I do agree with. Courtney is right about all of it. Partners aren’t build a bear; if the person adds more to your life than they take, then they might be good for you. I do agree there absolutely are plenty of good women out there, but I don’t think that one is one of them.
Fr i caught that too i dont get what was diffrent abiut what she said she sounds like a every dumb tt girl
Its just hypergamous instinct! Its part of their nature. Its stupid to be annoyed at fire for burning, since burning is part of fires nature.
She hates men. I’m not sure why she’s even talking about men.
@genshinsage And its our instinct as guys to hump anything that moves, yet most of us are able to resist succumbing to that instinct. Plenty of women live their lives without succumbing to their baser instincts too. I said my piece about the girl in the tiktok as an individual, but dont think Im going to tolerate condescending remarks targeting the entire gender
I think that part of what made Courtney describe this as “refreshing” shows how low the bar is set for videos on this subject, especially on Tic Tock
Modern women’s expectations are just out of this world. I’ll tell you this right now: if y’all don’t curb your expectations and keep living your life with this “never settle” mindset, most people are going to remain single.
Societal messages often suggest that when men do not achieve desired outcomes, the responsibility lies with them, not the world, and they must enhance themselves to align with the world’s standards. Conversely, when women do not achieve desired outcomes, the messages imply that the world is at fault, not them, and for improvements, they should advocate for the world to change to meet their expectations.
Well said